To my father Thomas Julius Sapak Sr.

I will never forget the man you truly were,

There is a lot I wish I could have said to you one last time…..I would say that I’m sorry for not letting you be a part of my life the past 15 years. I have missed over 400 of your calls and over 200 voicemails because I couldn’t forgive you and be a bigger person. Now I have to live with that forever…..and I can tell you that I have learned my lesson the hard way. I would give anything to just call you one last time and tell you that I am doing okay, that I forgive you, that I love you and that there hasn’t been one day in my life where I haven’t thought of you. Thank you for always telling me to standup for myself, it has helped me in my life more than you know.
Mom, Tj and I will always love you and will NEVER forget who you truly were.

If you are still reading this……..I challenge you to let go of a grudge……I know It’s easier said than done, but I can promise you it’s not worth it…….it will never be worth it.
Forgive and move on.

Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son

Thomas Sapak

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Thomas J. Sapak

July 4, 1957 – February 11, 2024

Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home

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