Harry "Butch" Gray

December 18, 1945February 27, 2013
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Harry “Butch” Gray, 67, a resident of Montgomery, AL and formerly of Medina, NY, passed away on Wednesday, February 27, 2013. Funeral services will be held on Monday, March 4, 2013 at 3:00 pm at White Chapel Greenwood Funeral Home with Bro. Jim Wilson officiating. Visitation will be from 2:00 – 3:00 at the funeral home. Burial will follow the services in Greenwood Cemetery. Harry was a member of Valley Park Baptist Church. He was a veteran of the first Gulf War, having served as an EMT in the Air Force. He also was a police officer in Medina, NY, Homestead, FL and Pensacola, FL. Mr. Gray was preceded in death by his father, Harry Gray; and his wife, Linda Gray. He is survived by his mother, Marjorie Gray; daughter, Shannon Blount (Rick); son, Michael Gray (Kimberly); stepdaughter, Nicki Igoe; stepdaughter, Robyn Kelly (Rich); stepson, David Kusmierczak (Lisa); grandchildren, Anna, Alissa, Abigail, and Ava Blount, Isabella and Vincent Gray, and Tyler, Noah and Ashley Igoe; aunt, Nina Wiggins (Earl); uncle, Clayton Jackson (Chris); and numerous cousins and other family members. Serving as pallbearers will be Harry’s cousins. The family would like to thank the many friends, family and hospice workers that helped Harry during his illness. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Valley Park Baptist Church, Alacare Hospice, or Knights Kaderli Foundation in memory of Harry Gray.


  • Visitation Monday, March 4, 2013
  • Funeral Service Monday, March 4, 2013

Harry "Butch" Gray

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Patrick Dool

March 8, 2013

Aunt Marge: We are saddened here in New Jersey after learning of Harry's passing. We offer our sincere condolences to you and to Harry's family and friends. Growing up I remember the times our family's spent together in Medina. While it was a long time ago, I still recall the road trips you included me on to Bob's farm somewhere in Pennsylvania, where Harry and I helped the local farmer herd his cows, and the trip to Bob's house on Long Island. And I remember the winters in Medina and learning to ice skate with Harry around the trees in the flooded woods across from your home on West Oak Orchard Street. That was another time, but one fondly remembered thanks to you, Uncle Harry, and Harry.

Pat & Kay Dool

March 3, 2013

I'll always remember the first time I met Butch. Donny (Nick) and I were recently married. He told me that he had a cousin who would be stopping by and that he had been working undercover as a policeman. When he came to the door, he was still in his "undercover" attire, meaning a little scary, but then he smiled and said, "Hi, I'm Butch. It's okay." And it was.....he was a good man.
Sonja and Donny (Nick) Nichols

Jesse & Emily M. Stinson

March 3, 2013

With Our Deepest Sympathy. You are in our prayers and thoughts always. Hope you have the comfort you need now and always.

Jesse & Emily Stinson

March 3, 2013

With Our Deepest Sympathy;

March 3, 2013

There are many hearts that ache for you at this time of loss...
And though no one can take away your sorrow, may the support and concern of others help give you the strength you need from day to day.
I know what it's like to lose a child. It's just not natural,no matter what their age.
I hope that you will find comfort in the memories you have of Harry.
I love you, sweet lady.
A friend always,
Peggy and William Gray

Helen Mary Knight

March 2, 2013

Butch, you will be so very much missed. I love you Cousin and know that you are in a better place with Uncle Harry and our other loved ones that have gone before.
Helen Mary