OBITUARY
Melissa Gayle McQueen
Melissa Gayle Gibson McQueen who was born and raised in South Montgomery County, Alabama, the oldest daughter of Henry “Hoot” and Barbara Ann Gibson on March 16, 1958, passed away unexpectedly in her home on February 17, 2021 due to natural causes. Missy went to and graduated from South Montgomery County High School in 1976 and her extensive education background included a doctoral degree with a focus in Human Resources. Following in her father’s footsteps, as the true Daddy’s Girl that she was, Missy joined the United States Army National Guard in 1976. She enjoyed the numerous and adventurous opportunities that her career allowed her to experience; to include a tour abroad in 2008 serving as a Logistics Civil Augmentation Program (LOGCAP) Advisor to multi-national Corps during Operation Iraqi Freedom, where she was honored for her service with the Bronze Star Medal. Near the end of her military career, she fought with the decision to “go full Bird” as Daddy called it or hang it up. Retiring as Lieutenant Colonel Melissa Gibson McQueen was one of the proudest moments of her life; she loved being like her Daddy, she loved being a soldier; however, she loved being a “Gigi” and “Mudder” to her grandchildren more. It was her most distinguished honor, outside of her children, her family, and her career. Melissa Gayle held tight to her faith; she was an active member of her Mt. Zion Baptist Church in Ramer, Alabama. She enjoyed being a service to her family, friends, and community. Melissa Gayle will be remembered as a giver; if she could help, she would without hesitation and if she couldn’t help herself, she knew someone that could. She was a strong woman dependent solely on God and making her Daddy proud. Always willing, ready, and able to cook, bake, or feed anyone was one of her biggest and most simplistic contributions to her time in this life. Melissa Gayle was the thrift shop going and flea market hunting queen; her retired weekly routine always included a random visit. Melissa Gayle is survived by her parents, Henry and Barbara Gibson, her brothers Conrad Missildine (Cheryl) and Billy Gibson (Connie), her sister Felicia Bryant (Danny), her children, Mitchell Lee Haubert (Amy), Melissa Cayanna Miller (Brian), Amanda Louise and Shayna Gray McQueen, her grandchildren, Mary Grace, Mitchell Lee III, Samuel Jedediah, Henry George, Chloe Belle, and Thaddeus Haubert, Alexandria Lee Sellers, and Oaklynn Gayle Reese, her Aunt Sue, and all her first cousins who were like her sisters and brothers. Melissa Gayle is preceded in death by her husband, George Edward McQueen, Jr. They were married August 22, 1986, shared three daughters of their own and brought together three sons and a daughter making it a full house with a lifetime’s worth of memories. She will be deeply missed by her children, grandchildren, family, friends, and all who were privileged to meet and know her.
Services
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Visitation
Tuesday, February 23, 2021
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Chapel Service
Wednesday, February 24, 2021
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Burial
Wednesday, February 24, 2021
Memories
Melissa Gayle McQueen
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ADD A MEMORYJim Alice Cullars
February 24, 2021
Missy was a friend to anyone she met and especially loved by the Alabama Army National Guard. Her husband Ed and Father Hoot were members and full time staff also. Missy loved her family and her friends and was always part of everything. My prayers to her family.
Jill Abernathy
February 24, 2021
Melissa was a beautiful person inside and out. I was truly blessed to call her my precious niece, good friend and sister in Christ. I am so glad we were able to keep in touch through the years. Rest In Peace sweetie. I will see you soon!!
Charlotte Elmore
February 23, 2021
So sorry to hear this. Prayers for the family.
Arthur Jackson
February 23, 2021
My Sincerest Condolences, She was Wonderful Always!
Harold “Skip” Royster
February 23, 2021
Missy and her sweet baby girl were two of the sweetest people one could ever know. Their loss well be greatly missed. Prayers lifted for the family 🇺🇸🙏🏻🙏🏻
Ed and Lou Tatum
February 23, 2021
Words cannot express the sadness we feel after hearing of Missy’s and MyCala’s passing. We worked with Missy, Ed and Hoot, and, as others have expressed, we remember Missy’s sweet smile, her hard work and her beautiful self! We are praying for all of the family at this time of loss. We love y’all!
Sandra Todd
February 23, 2021
Hoot and family, my heartfelt condolences for all. I loved Missy from our first meeting. She was special. I’ll always remember the evening she told a small group of us that she had news but we had to drag it out of her. She had just found out that she was pregnant with MyCala. She was busting and so excited. And wondering about her age. She wasn’t just my friend but she loved my children too. That’s what’s best about being a Guard family. It’s for a lifetime. Love y’all and you’re in my prayer. Sandra Todd
LINDA DEMARCO
February 23, 2021
I worked with Ed and Missy in the National Guard in the 1990s at STARC. I am so sorry for your lost.
Rodgie Parker
February 23, 2021
Praying for the extended family, the family members and friends. May God's grace and mercy be with you in the coming days. Amen
Christy and Randy Timmons
February 23, 2021
Our prayers are with all of the family during this time of sorrow. I just met Mrs. McQueen the one time at Cate and Brian Miller's wedding and bridal shower. I was just in awe of her nails. Oh my heavens I had never seen that up close. How she did anything just amazed me. She is so beautiful. No wonder her children are so beautiful as well. We met Cala once at the wedding and bridal shower as well and she was just so happy. She just went around the room just talking to everyone. We are so blessed to have met them. Stay blessed, stay faithful, you are loved all of you! God has got this.
With Sincerest condolences,
Christy and Randy Timmons
Cheryl (Golson) Banes
February 23, 2021
It with great sorrow to hear of the passing of a sweet, joyous and virtuous woman. She ALWAYS had a smile on her face and she was such a beautiful lady inside and out. I gained so many insights from her in the various aspects of my career up until her retirement. May she and 'Cala rest well and too the family I send my deepest sincere condolence's and ask that you cherish all the memories for they will uphold you through your time of sorrow. My prayer is with each of you.
The (Golson) Banes Family
Delane Kemp Thomas
February 23, 2021
My condolences to the Gipson/McQueen family on the loss of your love ones..Weeping may endureth for a night but joyeth cometh in the morning. Delane Kemp—— Class of 1976 MCHS
Deborah McAfee
February 23, 2021
Heaven gained two sweet angels that will be greatly missed. The only consolation is that we all know how much your Momma and Bug loved and missed your Daddy. There was a happy reunion last week with them. Momma loved both of them very much and is heartbroken as am I. Just know that we are family and we will always be here for you. Love all of you!!!!
Deborah Sweat McAfee and Sue Sweat
Angela Watson
February 23, 2021
I am so sorry to hear about Missy and Mycala. I worked with (then) MAJ McQueen for years at JFHQ. She was the kindest person. I can't remember a time when she wasn't smiling and laughing. We talked alot about our families and being in the National Guard. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray GOD will comfort you and give you peace. GOD Bless!!
Rick Pelham
February 23, 2021
Missy was a joy too all of those around her. She was an outstanding officer and human being. I enjoyed serving with her but more importantly was honored to know her. I know that she and Cayla are enjoying reuniting with Ed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
William Petty
February 23, 2021
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart. The Petty Family.
John Abraham
February 23, 2021
Rest high on that mountain, know that you are a Great person, leader, and we were all better for knowing you. God Bless and Prayers for all your family. It shall Be Done!
Jacqueline Campbell
February 23, 2021
Melissa, you were beautiful , kind, and loved your family , God,. and country you and Mycala were loved by all Mycala she was so special in her own way . Every time I watch a John Wayne movie I will think of her..Roll Tide Missy I love you two and will miss you
Curtis Faulk
February 23, 2021
Heartfelt condolences to the family from me and mine. Missy was an inspiration to many in the military. A stellar officer and great person. RIP.
Josrph Thompson
February 23, 2021
Missy, was twice a citizen, compassionated soldier, a mentor, and a positive spirit. She was a giver and her positivity brought joy to everyone she met. She is now in the loving arms of God. I never forget what she had done for me and the joy she brought into my life.
Mills Fannin
February 23, 2021
A great friend and a very special person. Always one to encourage others. Our prayers for the family during this time. She will be missed.
Edna Thomas
February 23, 2021
There are no words to take away the pain and emptiness you feel in your heart. I can only pray that you'll find some peace knowing Melissa and Cala are now reunited with Ed. Thankful for our memories. I love y'all and here for you if you need me.
Love, hugs and big prayers!
❤️Edna
Gilliam Ashley
February 23, 2021
Your Mom & Dad were always so sweet to me & I truly appreciated that more than you know. I’m thankful that they are all together now but so sad that you girls have to go on without them. Try to remember how much they loved y’all & how proud they were of you. Just continue to keep them alive in your hearts. They were all wonderful people & I was so glad to know them💗
Herbert Beacher
February 23, 2021
Deepest and sincere condolences to the Gibson/ McQueen family. It is my prayer that you will find peace in the arms of our Lord and Savior.
Class of 1976 MCHS.
Herbert L. Beacher
Jack Underwood
February 22, 2021
Our sincere condolences in the losses of Missy and Mycala. Our prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.
Janice Christian Hadley
February 22, 2021
It’s with a heavy heart I send my condolences to the family. I served in the AL ARNG with both Ed and Missy. I worked with Ed in the Training Branch. I knew Missy and was so glad she made it through AMA and made a great officer as well. We disconnected when she left the AL ARNG to further her career. I pray the Lord give the family direction and wisdom during this season in their lives with such a great loss. Cherish the memories of them and know they are together with the Lord. I pray for peace and comfort for Ed and Missy’s remaining children and their parents that maybe still be alive.
Donna Johns
February 22, 2021
My heart hurts from the loss of Melissa Gayle and Cala Bug! Please know y'all are in my thoughts and prayers! Oh what a homecoming it must have been with Ed waiting at Heaven's gate to welcome them in! Please know I'm just a phone call away! Love y'all lots!!
Sharon Sullivan
February 22, 2021
Melissa's huge smile and spirit will be greatly missed. All my thoughts and prayers . Sharon Ellison Sullivan