Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.Centrefunerairecotedesneiges.com for the Lo family.It is with great sadness that we announce the peaceful passing of Wing-Lok Lo ( 盧永犖),84 years old, on January 18, 2022 at the Neuro ( 滿地可中華醫院) surrounded by her loving family.
He will be dearly missed. Wing-Lok Lo( 盧永犖)was born on July 30, 1937 in China. He was born as the son of the late Chiu Lo( 盧樵) and the late Wai-Ying Kwan ( 關惠英) and the brother of 2 siblings.
Wing-Lok (永犖) was also a beloved husband, devoted father, caring grandfather, loving brother and uncle, faithful cousin, and wonderful friends of many, as he touched the lives of those around him with his kindness.
Wing-Lok (永犖) is survived by his children and children in law, Yat-Ching Stephen( 逸清), Eddy Yat-Ho( 逸豪) and Suzanne Chan( 陳淑慈), Betty Pik-Ha( 碧霞) and Desmond Yu( 余啓祥), Yat Keung ( 逸強)and Clara Kwan( 關靜兒) and the late Linda(碧玲). He is also survived by his grandchildren, Evelyn Lo ( 盧嘉韻), Curtis Lo (盧冠亨), Justin Yu( 余承澤 ) and Thomas Lo ( 盧冠霖).
The family would like to express their thanks and deepest gratitude to the doctors, nurses and staff for their devotion and care that they provided to Wing-Lok during his time at the Neuro. In lieu of flowers, please consider providing a donation in his memory to the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada.
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我們沉痛宣佈,
盧永犖於公元二零二二年一月十八日,於滿地可腦科醫院逝世,享年八十七歲。
盧永犖,他除了是一個體貼,無微不致的丈夫,盡心盡力的父親, 照顧有加的祖父,愛護弟妹的兄長, 關愛良善的姨丈和姑丈之外, 他更是左鄰右里的好鄰居及每一個人的善心朋友,更是中華醫院的長久義工。
永犖仙遊與亡妻余美蘭重聚仙閣,留下了大兒子逸清偕孫女嘉韻, 二兒子逸豪兒媳陳淑慈偕孫兒冠亨與冠霖,三女兒碧霞女婿余啓祥偕外孫余承澤,四兒子逸強偕兒媳關靜兒, 及亡女碧玲。
我們家人在此感謝腦科醫院護理同人,在過去二個月的悉心照顧。我們希望大家能對盧永犖的懷念作出善舉,請捐增予加拿大心臟協會。
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Eulogy for my Dad – by his Daughter Betty Lo
I have a special bond with my Dad. Dad was never mad at me. It is the daughter – father thing. He doted on my younger sister too. I still remember the pain and sorrow he felt when my sister died 21 years ago at 32 years old. My Dad loved all five of us, even though he was not very expressive of his feelings.
My Dad was quiet, hardworking, frugal and environmentally friendly. He devoted to his family and was kind to everyone and always willing to help.
My Dad started working at a young age to help provide for the family. As a consequence, he had become frugal ever since. In his owe ways, he was generous with his children and grandchildren.
My Dad went with his Dad to Indonesia to make a living when he was a young man. There, he met my mother and got married. They had my 2 brothers and me before we moved to Hong Kong. My 2 younger siblings were born in Hong Kong. After living there for 11 years, we moved to Montreal. This constant moving and adjustments had been difficult for my Dad.
After my Mom had gotten Alzheimer, he became her caregiver until it became impossible to care for her at home. Yet day in day out, he visited her for hours, always trying to tease her and get a reaction from her. This lasted many years. While he visited our Mom at the Chinese Hospital, he became a volunteer there for 5 years. My Dad showed us deep love, devotion, dedication, care, responsibility and giving back to the society.
After our Mom left her home, my Dad took on the mother role as well. He tried hard to keep the family together by initiating family gatherings.
My Dad was very independent. He did not accept lift when he could take public transit. He did not want to depend on others. He continued to shovel snow as soon as he saw snow on the ground.
In his retirement, my Dad loved to have a coffee with his friends every week, and had Dim Sum with his buddy in weekend.
My Dad was tough, he never complaint and did not let us know if he was sick. Apparently, he had 2 strokes before this current one which ultimately took his life, and we did not even know before that he had prior strokes.
Life has not been fair to my Dad. My Dad had just lost my Mom in Dec 2020. Then he got a major severe stroke in Nov which left him paralyzed on the right side, he had lost his speech and communication ability, he could not eat, drink and in a constant state of confusion. We were not sure whether he recognized us. Later, he was able to nod and sometimes smile and laugh a little. We were not sure if he was aware. We felt so sad and debating whether he had any quality of life and whether he would get better. We were left this question: Should we let him go? As a quiet man, my Dad never discussed this with us. The doctor had said that he only had 5% of recovery. We asked ourselves: Did we make the wrong decision to keep him alive? While we were tormented by these questions, my Dad made the decision for us, he left peacefully at the Neuro. The nurse told us that he was fine during the day and was smiling at them. We were very grateful to our Dad to have made the decision for us.
My Dad liked to travel. When he had time, he took public transit and got to see different areas of Montreal. We wanted to take him to a cruise vacation but due to Covid, we did not have a chance. Regrets, I have a few….
Dad, may you reunited with Mom and our sister in Heaven, and one day, we will meet again.
p.s. Have a conversation with your parents and children and give them a hug today.
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