Edward F. Carter

170 Kings Ferry Road, Montrose, NY


Abby Renee Menger-Valentino

February 12, 1966June 20, 2019

Abby R. Menger-Valentino of Putnam Valley, NY passed away on June 20, 2019 at the age of 53. Abby was born to Conrad and Ursula Menger on February 12, 1966 in Bronxville, NY. Abby was an avid boater and belonged to the Cortlandt Yacht Club.

Abby is survived by her beloved husband Charlie Valentino, her daughter Ashley Valentino (John Thomas Montaldo), and step-son Charles R. Valentino. She will be missed by her parents Conrad and Ursula Menger, her step-grandson Connor, by her brother Jeff Menger, her Aunt Joyce Morabito, and by her brother-in-law Louis Valentino (Virginia).

Friends and family will gather for a Visitation on Saturday, June 22, 2019 from 3-7pm at Edward F. Carter Funeral Home, 170 Kings Ferry Rd., Montrose, NY 10548. Committal is private.


  • Visitation Saturday, June 22, 2019


Abby Renee Menger-Valentino

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Pamela Schiff

June 28, 2019

I am so saddened to hear this news..I don’t know if Ursula remembers me, but we played tennis together about 44 years ago at Ardsley tennis club.

My heart goes out to your family.
Pamela Schiff

Denise Staats

June 22, 2019

Dear Charlie and Ashley,
We are so sorry for your loss. Abby was a wonderful person. We had so many good times rafting up next to all of you. Abby was always so caring and we had so many great conversations. She loved you both so much. She was also such a great Mom to Henry and Bella. We will miss her dearly. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers for you during this difficult time.
With lots of love,
The Staats Family
Denise, Otto, Zoe, and Lil Otto

Jessica Pierce

June 22, 2019

Abby was an amazing woman with a ridiculously kind heart. Always looking out for her daughter ashley and her friends. Abby always encouraged us (Ashley’s friends) to be ambitious and explore what the world has to offer. Never once did Abby turn away a conversation, as she loved to hear how each of us were doing every day. She will truly be missed by those around her, and I will always cherish the moments I was able to share with her. Ashley and Mr V, I love you dearly and I will always be here for you.

Teresa McGuire Luongo

June 20, 2019

Charlie and Ashley, we are heartbroken over your loss of Abbey. Charlie you have been a part of our family for many years and we will always be here for you and Ashley. Though heaven and earth divides you, you are never far apart. She will always be in your thoughts and forever in you’re heart.❤️

The McGuire Family