
Brian lived a life filled with love for family, country, and hope for a better future for his children. He was
fun to be with – he made Dad jokes often, and in his later years, he retold them often. He amassed a
treasure trove of stories, and thanks to a degree from Pace University along with a love for the English
language, he possessed a large vocabulary that would make most people wonder exactly what he was
saying. Though, for those that knew him, it was part of his charm.
After immigrating to New York from Dumbarton, Scotland, Brian spent many years serving the people of
NYC as a detective with NY’s Finest. It was not an easy job in the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s, but it was a job he
loved and one he excelled in. As a policeman, he faced troubling and, at times, traumatic experiences on
an all-to-frequent basis, but his calling to help those most in need was the passion that drove him to face
those difficulties day after day. The ability to make people feel safe was his forte – both at work and at
home with those he loved.
Brian’s children are his proudest accomplishment. He thought the world of each of them and was
especially proud of both of his sons for their service to our country. Watching them graduate together as
officers from the United States Naval Academy was surely one of his proudest moments. His admiration
for the Naval Academy was such that throughout his retirement he prioritized the opportunity to
volunteer as a Blue & Gold Officer to help recruit the next generation of Naval Academy officers.
Brian’s tough exterior, known to those who were only an acquaintance, was balanced by the much softer
side he reserved for his family who will forever remember his strong hugs and often delivered, “I love
you”.
His most recent favorite days included his beloved wife’s amazing meals, a big glass of red wine and his
favorite canine companion curled up next to him. After many years in the gritty streets of NYC’s
Midtown South, it was in Merritt, NC that he and his beautiful wife found the simple life they long
deserved.
Brian will be missed by many but remembered always by his beloved wife of 38 years, Marian, his
children Kelly, Jennifer and her partner Jeff, Shirley and her husband Randy, Brian and his wife Alma, Ian
and his wife Anne, his grandchildren Riley, Nicholas, Jason, Abigail, Logan, and Nora, his sister Maureen
and her husband Richard, his godson Brian, and his goddaughter Jennifer.
In the words of the man, himself, “Be good. Do good. Make it a great day. Knock ‘em dead. I love you.”
Terar Dum Prosim – “Tire for the Good of Others”
Motto of the McMenamin Clan
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