OBITUARY
Priscilla Ubysz
February 1, 1959 – February 9, 2021
With unmendable broken hearts we regret to announce the passing of our beautiful, brilliant, loving sister Priscilla (Pre) Ubysz, 62, of New Britain. She passed away unexpectedly on February 9 at The Hospital of Central Connecticut. She was born on February 1, 1959 in New Britain to Alexander and Lucille (DePietro) Ubysz. Priscilla was employed by Pratt & Whitney as an Associate Director of Library and Information services for over 30 years. Priscilla achieved her Masters degree in Library Science from University of Hawaii and her Masters degree in Education from the University of Connecticut. She received numerous awards and accolades. Priscilla was a founding member of the Industrial Technical Information Managers group where she organized and hosted many meetings, as well as serving on several committees. Priscilla was a member of the American Library Association, The Connecticut Library Association, and on the board of The Connecticut Library Consortium, and the Special Library Association where she held various board positions since 1989. In addition to her love of learning, she enjoyed reading, traveling, trying new foods and bowling. She attended the Book Expo in New York annually as well as traveling to Maine to enjoy the beach and shopping with family. She bowled for many years on the Otis Bowling league. Priscilla also assisted with the annual St. Ann’s Passion Play for 35 years. Every year around Christmas, Priscilla sent out a highly coveted newsletter. Everyone couldn’t wait to find out if they made the cut. Priscilla was very patient and kind. No one could have been more loving or loved. She will be mourned by her devoted sister Suzanne Schufer of New Britain, her identical twin sister Patricia Ubysz; they were together since conception, never apart and true soul mates, beloved nephews Edward Schufer and wife Nicole of Plainville, Alexander Schufer of New Britain, a great niece and nephew, a special cousin Judi Bernacki and family, and many countless friends across the United States. She was predeceased by her loving parents Lucille and Alexander Ubysz. Priscilla’s life was stolen too soon after a hospitalization that resulted in Covid, where she unfortunately lost her battle. No words can describe the devastation of losing our beloved sister, aunt, cousin and friend. Calling Hours will be held at New Britain Memorial Funeral Home on Thursday, February 18, from 3pm to 7pm. Funeral services will be held the following day, February 19, at 10AM at New Britain Memorial Funeral Home followed by the Funeral Liturgy at 11AM at St. Ann’s Church. Internment to follow at St. Mary's Cemetery. To leave an online condolence please visit www.newbritainsagarino.com In leu of flowers please make a donate in Priscilla's name to your favorite charity.
Services
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Calling Hours
Thursday, February 18, 2021
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Funeral Home Service
Friday, February 19, 2021
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Funeral Liturgy
Friday, February 19, 2021
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Burial
Friday, February 19, 2021
Memories
Priscilla Ubysz
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ADD A MEMORYChuck Catania
February 23, 2021
To the Ubysz family, l worked with Pre for over 30 years and l was honored to call her my close friend. I am devastated with the news of her untimely passing... Words can’t express my grief... to her twin sister Patty be strong my darling I shall pray for you. Priscilla was bigger than life and now she’s a star in heaven.
Peggy Morrissey
February 19, 2021
Pat,
I'm so very sorry to read of your sister's passing. Such a shock at such a young age. My sympathy and prayers for you and your family. God's peace be with you.
Love,
Peggy
Carina Palmucci
February 18, 2021
My condolences to you all on the death of Pre. I was involved in the
Passion Play at Saint Anns church and loved seeing both Patti and Pre putting on our makeup and always taking part when needed. she will be missed I have faith and know she's in the hands of The Lord now! Bless you all at this difficult time. She will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you all !!
Barbara LaMarr
February 18, 2021
Patty,Suzane,Ed,Alex ,Nicole and extended family and friends I send my deepest condolences and love. Pre will be missed . Keep all your memories close to heart...Pre, dance those heavens with your mom &dad!! Love to all.
Carol Nelson
February 18, 2021
Pat, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your sister. I did not know that you were a twin! Having lost my own sister, I know how hard that is but to lose a twin must be ten times harder! I am sure you have many happy memories that will hopefully help you through these tough times. Please know you will definitely be in my prayers.
Deborah Fortier
February 17, 2021
Suzanne and Patti, there are no words to express the sadness of Pre’s passing. I am so very sorry. May God Bless you and watch over you.
Lois Taft Taft
February 17, 2021
My Sympathy to the family of Priscilla Ubysz . She and her sister were faithful bingo players at St Jerome and always remembered us at Christmas time with a wonderful gift of candy. God Bless all of you. Lois Taft
Jeanne Goulart
February 17, 2021
I extend my deepest condolences to Pre's family and friends. Her laughter, wry sense of humor and love of knowledge will be deeply missed by all she knew. I had the honor of working with Pre in my last 5 years at Pratt & Whitney. She was always the first to recognize others and brighten their day- organizing birthday celebrations, leading the employee recognition team (PRAISE awards) or just a cheery "hello" each morning. Her extensive knowlege of the history of Pratt & Whitney, and many of the other UTC divisions, was valued by so many. Pre was a wonderful soul and will be deeply missed.
Miriam Torres
February 17, 2021
I didn't know Pricilla personally, however I got to work with her on an Employee Engagement Team a few years ago. Priscilla was a pleasure to work with. My deepest condolences to the entire family.
Miriam Torres
Diane Pizzo
February 16, 2021
I’m heartbroken about Pre’s passing. She was a good friend. I’ve been thinking a lot about Pre and our times together. In the Spring of 1980, a group of library science students went on a trip to DC to visit the Library of Congress and the Smithsonian Institute. While outside at the Smithsonian, Pre was taking a picture and inadvertently backed up to get a better photo and ended up literally in the garden. The moment deserved to be preserved - it’s one of my favorite photos of Pre. I can still hear her laugh when I look at this photograph.
My thoughts and prayers are with Pre and her family during this difficult time.
Diane Pizzo
Jesse Fulton
February 16, 2021
I did not know Priscilla very well, but I interacted with her through my work as an engineer at Pratt & Whitney. Priscilla was always incredibly knowledgeable and helpful whenever I was looking for obscure information at the company library. She was always so pleasant to work with and I'll miss seeing her when I stop by. I'm very sorry for the loss.
Scott Brinckerhoff
February 15, 2021
As a freelance writer working for P&W, I often had occasion to ask Priscilla for help. She was a delight to work with, always cheerful, kind and helpful. Her depth of knowledge about the company was incredible and she was always happy to extend herself to help me understand the material, no matter how busy she was. I'm so sorry to hear of her passing.
Dilip Shah
February 15, 2021
I knew Priscilla when I was working at Pratt and had many interactions for many years. She was very kind and helpful as a librarian and especially was very good at guiding me on a special occasion. It is shocking to think of losing her so young! My heartfelt condolences to family and friends. May her soul rest in peace!
Philip James
February 13, 2021
Priscilla was a good friend, co-worker at Otis Elevator, and also one of my team members on the Otis Bowling League. We would bowl at Laurel Lanes in Plainville, CT on Thursday evenings for 33 weeks every year during the colder months. It was a lot of fun, and we shared good times with other co-workers as well. I also remember that after a night of bowling we always went into the bar/cafe at the alleys and shared some more laughs about work and life in general. I will miss Pre, and I’m sure she will make heaven a very special place as she did here.
Amen my fiend
Liz Lamoreaux
February 13, 2021
I was introduced to Priscilla through her Collins P&W teammates during work from home. I knew from the moment I heard her voice that she was a person of intelligence and authenticity. She made such an impression on me. She cared about her work, She helped so many and knew what she did made a difference and it did.
Priscilla is a role model. Although I was not as lucky as others to have worked with her in person, I say “is” because her legacy lives within and in what we do.
Ann Scanlon
February 13, 2021
Dear Patricia and family
It was wonderful knowing Pre, I there ever was a person that could leave
Footprints on our heart it was Pre!
Bob and I share your loss our thoughts are with you all,
Will never forget her.
Sincerely
Ann & Bob. Scanlon
Jim Wyskiewicz
February 13, 2021
Pre,
I was blessed to know you. We spent countless hours planning the annual Passion Play at St. Ann’s.
You calming demeanor was a welcome asset to the sometimes chaotic moments right before we went on stage.
You performed every role you had with every ounce of energy you had and for that I thank you.
You made my job of directing and producing the plan that much easier.
Rest In Peace my friend.
Leslie Stewart
February 12, 2021
Im heartbroken to hear the news about Pre’s passing. She had been a wonderful person and you can hear the passion and love in everything she talked about. I met her and Barbara early on during my time at Pratt and they both have been amazing to me and my team. I cannot express what she meant.
To the family, I know it will be tough just remember to cherish the good times and be grateful of the light she has shone on your life.
Mark Sullivan
February 12, 2021
I worked with Priscilla for many years at Pratt & Whitney. She was the one who could answer the questions n o one else could. When I was asked to write a history of P&W in 2007 she was the first person I turned to. The book was so much better for all her help, wisdom and wonderful spirit.
Deanna Menzies
February 12, 2021
I have worked with Pre for over 10 years. I didn't know her on a personal level, but she was a pleasure to work with through our library communications at Collins.
God Bless Pre and the wonderful person she was to so many people.
Daran Bishop
February 12, 2021
My deepest sympathy to Patti, Suzanne and the rest of Pre’s family. I first met Pre through one of her professional organizations, and we quickly become close friends. When I think back to the times I spent with Pre, I mostly remember laughing. She had a sharp wit and would have those around her in tears from some of her stories. She had a bit of a rebel streak and could always be counted on to join some of our more dubious adventures (full disclosure: she was usually the instigator). She was also a good friend who gave with her whole heart. I felt like a better person when I was around her. Pre’s family was her pride and joy. You could hear the love in her voice when she talked about you. My heart hurts for all of you. I wish you peace and comfort during this devastating time.
Rosemary Smedley Melillo
February 12, 2021
Dear Patty and family sending our deepest sympathy and comfort to you. Remembering Pre she shared love laughter and friendship. May you find comfort knowing she is well loved by many. Peace be with you Rose and Mike
Kathy Jensen Bishop
February 12, 2021
So very sorry to hear of Priscilla's death. I met Pre back in elementary school. She was so very sweet and kind. My heart goes out to her sisters. 💔
Maria Zawadzki
February 11, 2021
To Patti and Suzanne, and to the rest of your family, My heart aches for your unimaginable loss.
I keep reflecting on our lives, how lucky I was to be your friend and neighbor starting at the age of three, a mere 59 years ago. Our tricycle encounters at the fence instinctually made us fast friends, even without my knowledge of the english language until later. Our childhood was so rich together. It has been a bond that doesn't get replicated later in life, I cherish our history.
"Patti and Pre" seemed like one word to me, there was no ONE without the OTHER.
Although our life paths took us in different directions, anytime we saw each other, time stood still, we took off where we left off.
Your sense of humor, your sensitive natures, and your genuine selves are a gift to all who knew you and Pre.
I hope Pre is looking down upon you all, and taking you under her wings, because we know she's an angel. Loved you both with all my heart, forever. Maria "Mish"