Steve, James and family, Condolences from the Brown Family, Ellen, Nicholas, Aaron, Hampton and Allison. Bonnie was and will continue to be an enduring light on all who knew her.

Thank You for allowing us the opportunity to share a part of her.

Sending my deepest condolences.  I was very sad to hear of Bonnie's passing.  May God's love comfort you during this time of loss and remembrance.

So sad to hear this news.  Sending our love to James with great memories from 255 W. 108th St. 
Nevah, Peter & Hannah

 What a shock. What a loss to the world. She was a bright fun smart engaging wonderful person. She will be missed by all

I never had the good fortune of knowing Bonnie but my heart goes out to the entire family especially my friend Norma.   Elaine Schneiderman

I am immensely grateful for having Bonnie in my life for so many years.  We met in 7th grade and remained in touch over the years, most recently sharing a cocktail and wonderful conversation back in April, just after the completion of her last treatment.  She looked great, happy, determined and delighted to move on with her life, work, family and friends.  Such a brilliant lady, gone way too soon.  My warmest wishes to Steve, Robin and your families during this difficult time.  I will miss Bonnie, her light and her friendship tremendously.

Wishing the blessed Messing family condolences, peace, and love.

My heart goes out to families Messing and Pavlakis both. I know Bonnie's love and vitality will be cherished and kept close to all of your hearts.

I am so very sad to hear that Bonnie was taken so soon. It was my joy of documenting all that family love a few years ago. My heart reaches out to all of you. xoxo j

Bonnie was such a wonderful person, that a thesaurus full of adjectives is required to describe her. Here are just a few: Smart, successful, driven, funny, warm, kind, thoughtful, caring. She had an engaging smile and an infectious laugh. I will miss her, as will everyone who knew her.

Dear Robin,
I can't stop thinking about you your tremendous loss.  Way too young but boy did she leave a mark on this world!  I want to call you and don't even have your phone number.  Hugs to your entire family. 
Alison Carlton

It is hard to believe her bright light is gone from the world. I will always remember her as a Millburnette and Sabbath Morning Youth Choir songbird with a bright smile!

My heartfelt condolences to your entire family and all Bonnie's friends for the loss of a wonderful person.

Bonnie was a shining presence in our lives as well as all who knew her. We will miss her warmth, intelligence and love. We have adopted the New York Rangers as "our" hockey team in her honor.  RIP dear friend!

My deepest condolences to the family on the loss of who was obviously a shining light in the world.

Bonnie's smile and advise were one of the reasons I joined Geller. She was always there to listen and guide. Her love of family and the Rangers knew no bounds. I'm truly sorry and she will be greatly missed

The Pavlakises have been an important part of our family for years, and when Bonnie joined the party things amped up exponentially. From funny neologisms;  everyone knows that mandles are short for man sandals, to sharp career advice, her mind was as outstanding as her spirit.
Bonnie, we miss you more than words can express. Sail on.

With much love to my magical friend and her family, Nan(no) J. Morrison

Bonnie's spark, her exuberance, brilliant mind, and warm and welcoming
presence, not to mention her great hugs, will not be forgotten by
those of us who cherished our Principle Quest time together almost
two years ago now. Many of the women have written to me about the lasting impact
Bonnie had on their lives. 

Inspired by Bonnie's lively and loving spirit, I am making a vow to
cherish life even more and to name what I am grateful for this season, just as 
Bonnie did all her too short life.

Bonnie was the most engaging, funny, welcoming woman I've met in a long time.  We went to Nicaragua together on a ProMujer trip and her smile, her friendship, warmed our group. Bonnie took/shared a wonderful picture of me holding a chicken that says it all about her humor. Love to her family, ProMujer, and Bonnie's many friends

Bonnie was a shining star.   Her smile, and vivacious personality, lit up every room and every collection of friends fortunate enough to enjoy her presence.   Bonnie was a beautiful spirit.   All who knew her will miss her.   Our prayers go out for her family, and for her spirit.

Louise and Michael Cummings

There can be no mortal end to a spirit like Bonnie's. I believe I shall carry the vision of her impishly beautiful face -- which somehow managed to attain remarkable gravitas when warranted -- with me forever. Strength and healing to Steve, Robin, and family. I am still singing with you, my New Blue sister.

We are very sad to hear of our friend Bonnie's passing and offer our deepest condolences to Steve and their entire family. Bonnie was the picture of joy and fun in our class at HBS and we will always remember her gleaming smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with Bonnie and her family.
With sympathy, Jim & Kristy Tiampo

OBITUARY

Bonnie L. Messing

March 10, 1961 – December 14, 2017

Riverside Memorial Chapel

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