Joy Catapano

Born in New York City on January 20, 1934, Joy was the eldest child of Dr. Andrew G. Franks Sr. and Lydia Benigno Franks. Her father, whom she profoundly admired, served as both a Colonel and physician in the United States Army during World War II while also earning his law degree. Following the war, he embarked on an extraordinary career as a pioneering figure in dermatology, making contributions that left an enduring mark on medicine and academia. His example and life’s work instilled in Joy the strength, determination, and profound sense of patriotism that remained hallmarks of her character throughout her life. Joy was predeceased by her sister, Norma Franks, and is survived by her brother, Dr. Andrew G. Franks Jr., and his wife, Dr. Linda Franks.

On September 11, 1954, Joy married the love of her life, Frank Catapano. She was a graduate of Adelphi University and the prestigious Columbia University School of Nursing. Joy and Frank first made their home in Lake Success, New York, before moving to Manhattan’s Upper East Side in 1967 – her cherished home that she lived in ever since. Together, they raised their three children, Joanne, Andrew, and Joy, and built a rich and fulfilling life centered on family, education, travel, and cultural enrichment. The couple shared nearly 43 years of marriage before Frank’s passing on August 2, 1997. Joy’s love and loyalty to Frank remained unwavering for the rest of her life, fiercely devoted to honoring him and all that they built together.

Intelligent, sharp-witted, and elegant in both her dress and character, Joy possessed a regal presence, a formidable strength of spirit, and a generous heart. Above all, she will forever be known for her devotion to her family as a treasured matriarch, committed to celebrating everyone’s milestones big or small, and always bestowing her endless wisdom and life lessons. She was loyal to her friends who she loved remaining in touch with, and always said her friends truly make the story of her life.

Joy remained curious and engaged with the world around her. She loved attending lectures and exhibitions, and maintained an enduring commitment to volunteer work, involvement in cultural institutions and the arts. She was an active member of the Decorators Club, the Union League Club, and the Italian Welfare League. She and Frank were founding members of the Columbus Citizens Foundation, reflecting their deep pride in their Italian heritage and dedication to their community. She was also a passionate supporter of the Wounded Warrior Project.

Joy leaves behind her five grandchildren, Jonathan, Taylor, Charles, Dylan, and Logan; her great-grandchildren, Isabel and Leo; her nieces and nephews, Katie, Lisa, Jackie, Caroline, Frank, Michael, Eric, Milan and Lydia, and her beloved extended family in Sicily.

Joy lived with purpose, curiosity, and an unwavering devotion to those she loved. Her strength, wit, elegance, and spirit will remain an everlasting part of her legacy and will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.

In lieu of flowers, if you so kindly wish, you may make a donation to the Wounded Warrior Project in Joy Catapano’s name: P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675, or online at https://support.woundedwarriorproject.org