My deepest sympathy to Dana and entire family on the passing of Tommy. 

My darling brother, I will never get over losing you. Your so special and have such an innocent soul. I love you to the moon and back. I need you now more than ever. Everyday it gets worse and worse. Our family will never be the same without you. Thomas was such a good ball and I'm glad we shared so many memories. We had some really rough times, but we made it through all that. You were on top of the world and had everything going for you. You were a great role model not only for me, but for the endless amount of people that you touched. Your daughter will always be reminded of what a good man you were. She looks just like you and we are so fortunate to have a piece of you left here on earth. I love you Thomas and I love our whole family. I just don't know how we are going to get through this. I truly don't. 

I have been a long-time customer of broadhecker farms for many many years.
Tommy was a fine young man I truly adored him I liked teasing him and busting his chops. He called me Diana I never let anybody in my life call me Diana as funny as it sounds but it was a funny thing I used to tease him and say you know I never let anybody call me that but you
Tommy had the biggest smile he could light up a room Gone Too Soon I'm so very sorry for family and friends God bless and prayers up. I'm going to miss that smiling face I'm going to miss calling him and asking him what kind of hay he had and what he could get it to me. My heart is truly broken I'm sure as many others. It came as such a shock. Heaven gained a true angel.

Dear Jane and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. May God bless you during this difficult time.

Kevin & Alice

My deepest sympathy, Dana, and family on the loss of Tommy.  

My thoughts and prayers go out to Phil, Mary, and the rest of the broadhecker family. Hang in there. Johnny regan pj 1983 Somerville nj.

I am so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you all during this difficult time. Our prayers are for all of you. 

I am so very sorry.  Tommy was such a great kid with a great smile and always made time to talk.  This is a huge loss for the family as well as the community.
Heavenly Father ~ please wrap Your great arms of love around the Brodhecker family, pulling them close to You, letting them fall into the cradle of Your embrace, carrying them through the days that follow.  Please, Precious Savior, heal their broken hearts.

Rest easy in Heaven's sweet peace Tommy.

Suzanne Oakley

My heart breaks for your loss.   Our son was a friend of Tommy's and I know they shared a special friendship as they journeyed together.   Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Frank and Pat Kane


The Center for Prevention and Counseling

Blue Ridge Rescue Squad

Sussex County Board of Agriculture Scholarship Fund

Everleigh Brodhecker

Taylor Talmadge

Lisa Norman

Dana Brodhecker

Jennifer Renna

Gabrielle

Jane Brodhecker

Charney DeMatteo

Molly

Michael Rolland Brodhecker

Thomas Andrew Brodhecker

Patricia Rose Leigh

Dawn Biccum

Aunts and Uncles:Stephen Brodhecker and wife, Debbie; Mark Leigh; Donald Brodhecker and fiancé, Susan Pederson; Mary Kelley and husband, Glenn; Phillip Brodhecker; Vincent DeMatteo and wife, Glenda; Joanna DeMatteo; and Michael Biccum


Cousins:Autumn Brodhecker and daughter, Emilia; Christopher Brodhecker; Jennifer Moore; Heather Leigh and her son, Owen; John Leigh; Cassandra, Julianna, Samantha, and Jeffrey Brodhecker; Elaine Kelley; Lauren Mangold; and Brianna and Michael Biccum.

OBITUARY

Thomas "Tommy" Vincent Brodhecker

February 4, 1992 – October 30, 2020

Smith-McCracken Funeral Home

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