Donald Patrick Cleary

Donald Patrick Cleary, 45, passed away peacefully of natural causes on October 9, 2026. Born on May 14, 1981, he was the beloved son of Patricia and Donald Cleary and the loving husband of Tricia Cleary.

A graduate of the University of Maine, Donald deepened his passion for skiing during his college years and formed friendships that would last a lifetime. He embraced an active lifestyle and found joy in skiing, golfing, biking, surfing, and kite surfing.

Donald cherished his family. Long before becoming a father himself, he shared a special bond with his nieces and nephews, always eager to take them on bike rides and create lasting memories with them. His love for children and his natural desire to nurture those around him were evident throughout his life.

After building a career as a financial analyst, Donald made the meaningful decision to become a stay-at-home dad, dedicating himself to raising and caring for his two young sons, Jack and Carter. Being present for his children and helping them grow was a role he embraced wholeheartedly, reflecting the deep love he had for his family.

Donald is survived by his loving wife, Tricia Cleary, and their two sons, Jack Donald, age 3, and Carter Patrick, age 1, of Old Lyme, Connecticut; his father, Donald Cleary, of Indian Harbour Beach, Florida; his brother, Matthew Cleary, his wife, Kristen, and their children, Ella, Simon, Myla, and Macen, of East Lyme, Connecticut; and his sister, Emily Coleman, her husband, Brian, and their children, Wyatt, Cooper, and Scarlett, of Waterford, Connecticut.

He was predeceased by his mother, Patricia Cleary, and his sister, Caitlyn Cleary.

Donald will be remembered for his adventurous spirit, his love of the beach, his lifelong passion for skiing and biking, and, most importantly, his unwavering devotion to his family. The friendships he cultivated, the memories he created, and the love he gave to those closest to him will remain a lasting part of his legacy.

He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

Services will be held privately. In lieu of flowers please make donations to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation or the Alzheimer’s Association.