Pam McGregor

January 14, 1963December 4, 2018
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Pamela Jean McGregor (“Pam Cakes”), 55, quietly and peacefully departed her home and was escorted by her Lord Jesus Christ into the Kingdom of Heaven Tuesday morning December 4th, 2018 in Norman, Oklahoma. Pam was born January 14th, 1963 in Norman, Oklahoma. She was a graduate of Robinson Street Christian School. During her long career of accounting work Pam was often promoted to supervisory roles and spent the last eight years loving her work and co-workers as a Cash Applications Specialist in the Patient Financial Services department of Norman Regional Hospital. Pam was an avid Sooner and Thunder fan and we think the word “avid” is an understatement! She loved her Sooners and was so proud of Russell Westbrook and his (3) little ones. Pam was a devoted member of Harvest Church for 35 years. Speaking of little ones, Pam was “Grammy” to 10 beautiful grandchildren. Pam loved her children and grandchildren (all of us for that matter), in ways that are not easy to describe. She loved in a huge way… Unselfishly, sacrificially, strongly and supportively (she was passionate and steadfast in seeing the best in all of us, her kids, grandkids, siblings, cousins and parents). We look back and are amazed by her never wavering strength. Pam was preceded in death by her step father Ronnie Smith, beloved grandmothers Beulah Clark and Ethel Green and her grandfathers, Harold Clark and Jason Green. Pam is survived by her mother Wanda Dame, father Jim Clark (wife Phyllis), brothers Jack Clark (wife Wanda), Andy Smith (wife Pam), Jamie Clark, and sister Terri Whitlock. Pam had lots of aunts and uncles but was especially close with Patti Smith, Sue Huffines and Lonni St. John. Finally, a host of cousins, 9 nieces and nephews and a group of 16 great nieces and nephews, many who have come to love “Aunt Pam’s” Banana pudding at the holiday gatherings. Lastly, Pam is survived by the joys of her life, sons Chris McGregor & Clay McGregor (wife Lindsay) and daughter Heather Wensman (husband Logan). Grammy’s group of grandchildren are Austin James, Jaylee Faith, Layla Jane, Baylee Renee, Brayden Jack, Addie Kaye, Jaxon Blake, Maverick Hayes, Claire Olivia-Rose and Wren Scotte (WrenTinTin to her Grammy). My little sister was loved so very much by her kids and grandkids! Her parents, siblings and extended family also loved her very much. We are comforted knowing we will be reunited with you in heaven Sis! Services for Pam will be at Harvest Church, 6450 36th Avenue NW, Norman, Oklahoma 1:30pm Wednesday December 12, 2018. Graveside Services will follow at Sunset Memorial Park Cemetery. “LOVE” one another the way I loved you… John 15:12


  • Wanda Dame, Mother
  • Jim Clark, Father
  • Phyllis Clark, Step Mother
  • Chris McGregor, Son
  • Clay McGregor, Son
  • Lindsay McGregor, Daughter-in-law
  • Heather Wensman, Daughter
  • Logan Wensman, Son-in-law
  • Jack Clark, Brother
  • Wanda Clark, Sister-in-law
  • Andy Smith, Brother
  • Pam Smith, Sister-in-law
  • Jamie Clark, Brother
  • Terri Whitlock, Sister
  • Austin James, Grandchild
  • Jaylee Faith, Grandchild
  • Layla Jane, Grandchild
  • Baylee Renee, Grandchild
  • Brayden Jack, Grandchild
  • Addie Kaye, Grandchild
  • Jaxon Blake, Grandchild
  • Maverick Hayes, Grandchild
  • Claire Olivia-Rose, Grandchild
  • Wren Scotte, Grandchild
  • Also left to cherish her memory, Pam had three Aunts, Patti Smith, Sue Huffines and Lonni St. John and one uncle Kenneth Green, who were all very special to Pam. Finally, a host of cousins, 9 nieces and nephews and a group of 16 great nieces and nephews, many who have come to love “Aunt Pam’s” Banana pudding at the holiday gatherings.

  • Clint McGregor, Pallbearer
  • Jeff Smith, Pallbearer
  • Justin Clark, Pallbearer
  • Josh Clark, Pallbearer
  • Colby Whitlock, Pallbearer
  • John Whitlock, Pallbearer
  • Joe Carlton, Pallbearer
  • Logan Wensman, Pallbearer
  • Chris McGregor, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Clay McGregor, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Jack Clark, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Andy Smith, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Jamie Clark, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Zac Phillips, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Jaxon Owens, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Austin McGregor, Honorary Pallbearer
  • John McGregor, Honorary Pallbearer
  • Jay Smith, Honorary Pallbearer


12 December

Funeral Service

1:30 pm - 2:30 pm

Harvest Church

6450 36th Ave NW
Norman, OK 73072


Pam McGregor

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Misti Fielding

December 10, 2018

April 28, 2017 Pam sent a text that read...Steve Allen’s luminar at the American Cancer Society Walk❤ she sent a picture and always shared with me her thoughts about Steve Allen and how much she loved him. Love you Pam, I’m going to miss your cute little laugh😘💋❤️