I served with Scotty on the USS Pintado in San Diego and never met a more genuine and caring friend. He helped me through some difficult times and I will always be grateful to him. So sorry to learn of his passing and my heart goes out to Cindy and his family. Rest in peace my friend.

I am so thankful that I got to work with Scott for many years at MILCOM. He was funny, cool, very helpful and very knowledgeable.  My prayers goes out to his wife Cindy, family and friends. May God's love embrace you at this difficult time and know that God has another angle watching over you all.                
God Bless
Roxanne                                                                                                   

I worked with Scott at Milcom in the submarine division for over 5 years until I decided to go into business. I will always consider Scott a friend and have kept in touch for the last 22 years. I was shocked to learn that he had passed so suddenly. I will miss my visits with him and his friendly banter and his infectious laugh.

I still remember the look on his face and his reaction when I walked into his office July 1 22 years ago and told him I was submitting my resignation letter. Typical Scott, he asked if it was an April Fools joke.

Rest your oars Shipmate. Fair winds and following seas from here on out.

I've known Scott and his family since moving to South Carolina about 20 years ago.  Scott had a way of making everyone feel at ease and brightening up any gathering he was a part of.  He was around one day to help take part in saving my life when I needed it, which has given me the opportunity to help the lives of my family in important ways.

These bodies of ours aren't meant to last forever, so I am glad that he's not suffering anymore, and I hope to see him again some day.  Until then, he will be missed.

We met Scott, Cindy and Scotty at Crowfield Little League.  We always enjoyed being around Scott, he was always so kind and fun to be around.  He was a big part of what made it so fun for families to enjoy baseball with their kids out there.  He spent a lot of time coaching, umpiring and volunteering his time always with a smile.  He was just a great person to be around.  It is no surprise how many friends he had, he was a lot of fun!  He will be greatly missed by all that knew him.

Our deepest sympathy to Cindy, Scotty and the family.  

Jim, Stacey, Camden and Gabe Amidon

Scott,
Which one do you want me to pick?? There are way too many that comes to mind! We Love you and hope you know that you are sadly missed!
Cindy, Dusty, and Scotty, we love you and hope you know you are in our prayers everyday!
We Love you! 
Q, Rose, Miranda and Mackenzie 

Scott, thank you for scaring off all the crazy boys that you knew I was too good for but I was too blind sided to see. I remember the first time Ryan, my soon to be husband that it breaks my heart so bad you won’t be at our wedding, met you the first thing you said to him was ‘you’re a good guy. I see you’ve only had one ticket for speeding. I’ll let it slide this time’ and Ryan will never forget that day. When I was hospitalized after waking up one morning paralyzed from the mid back down you called me while I was in the hospital, from my direct hospital room phone, to tell me you were thinking of me and I had no choice but to be a bad a** and get better so I could get home to my boys which meant getting better so I could finally make that trip down to see you. I looked forward to seeing you guys every holiday and I will never forget the time you guys came up to spend with our family and we got to see Scotty experiencing snow for the first time! I can’t even justify all the memories but I can say I will miss you so much and know you are at peace now. <3

We met Scott at Crowfield Little League. Both of our sons played there. He was great with the kids. Encouraging them was definitely a passion of his. It was a joy to watch him umpire the games. It was like a big family out there and it was because we had great coaches, umpires, parents and kids. Scott was always willing to talk to anyone.  He was a terrific man and he will be missed.  Prayers to his entire family during this difficult time. 

It's a sad day when you lose a co-worker and friend.  I worked with Scott at Micom for many years which
were quite enjoyable and time well spent with Scott.  Cindy I recall your wedding and know your time together
has been a joy and blessing for you and your family.  Today a lot of people will be sadden by Scott's passing.
Our prayers go out to you and your family.


What an awesome batch of photos!  Thank you for sharing them.   I had not seen Scott since high school but he looks like the very same fun loving, always smiling, never miss an opportunity for a little hi-jinx guy that I remember. No surprise for me.  My sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you family and friends at this difficult time. Rest assured that he is in God's arms as he was truely one of the good ones.  Peace and strength to you.

I know Scott's dad Sonny (my brother) was very proud of Scott and always kept me up to date with his accomplishments.  I pray  for Scott's family as well as all his siblings that the special memories they have will replace some of pain of the grief they are now feeling.  You are all in my thoughts.  Jeanne and George Lucero

Scott and his best bud in high school were me and my friend’s beer drinking buddies. Always that bright shining face and great smile. I never saw him in a bad mood.  I so appreciate seeing these pictures and hearing about his life. The picture of him in the ship is how I remember Scott always full of joy. I am so sorry and my heart goes out to all of his family and beloved friends. 

So sorry to hear about Scott's passing. I was a Radioman on the the Pintado with him and Dave Kayser for years and became good friends with him and the Holien's. Will always remember Scotty as a fun-loving, witty Shipmate and Friend and look back on my time with the gang from Pintado as the best times of  my life. I've met alot of people along the way but have never experienced the comradery we had back then.  Congrats to you Scotty for all your successes in this Life, to your enduring marraige and the Family it produced and to the friends who crossed your path. Glad I can say I was one of them.

We’ve been friends with Scott since he and my ex-husband Tim (Wise) became boat-mates on the USN Pintado in 1984/85. When he met the love-of-his-life Cindy, we were all so happy for him. He loved she and the boys more than life itself. He was a kindhearted gentleman who was always there for us, in good times and in bad. We’re so sad this has happened to such an awesome man and heartbroken for the entire group of family and friends. I know Scott would not want us all to feel this deep sadness.  He would want us all to smile and celebrate his life. That will come in time, but not just yet.  Rest In Peace my dear old friend, your presence will be sorely missed. Love and miss you already, Kim, Jessica, and Renée 

I too worked with Scott at MILCOM and VT Milcom for many years. He always had a smile, a laugh and a kind word for everyone. Scott was smart, professional and well respected. Because he always gave his best, he expected and accepted nothing but the best from all of us. Such a kind and gentle soul he will be missed greatly. He loved his family dearly and always had a twinkle in his eye when he spoke of all of you. Rest easy Scott , you will be remembered fondly and with kindness. To his family, I am thinking of you in your time of sadness and sorrow and hope you can take some comfort knowing that those of us who knew and worked with Scott are mourning your loss with you. 

It was 30  years ago, but it seems like yesterday that I was blessed to meet and work with Scott at Milcom …
It was there that I met his sweet wife Cindy as well.

I attended the their wedding and occasionally ran into them through the years..  Scott was always the same kind , sweet and funny guy.
Cindy and Scott were perfect for one another ….

I am truly in shock to hear of his passing this week... The world has lost a wonderful man. 

Rest in peace my dear friend , I love you and your sweet girl Cindy...

Cindy, Scott Jr.,
                                     We are all devastated at the news one of the best people we've ever had the pleasure to be associated with has passed unexpectedly. Our hearts are heavy and our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. If there is anything I can ever do to  help, please email or call me. Heaven just got a little brighter...………….



The news of Scott passing away is devastating. He was a hard worker, intelligent, ethical and liked and respected by management, clients, and co-workers.  A truly good man is gone. I have been retired for almost 10 years and yet I still remember how terrific Scott was. I send my heartfelt sympathy to his family and friends. Deborah Stringer

I was 17 years old and mere weeks from hoping on a plane to New Jersey to start my enlistment in the United States Coast Guard. Naturally, my family threw a party for my friends and other important people in my life; Mr. Scott was one of them. To the blind eye, I seemed care free, confident and ready to take on the world. Each person there took some time to talk with me and wish me the best of luck. Did Mr. Scott? Of course he did!.. but he also saw through my confidence. The first question he asked me was, “You nervous?”. If you know Scott, you heard his direct, but charming voice inflection. You see, Mr. Scott has a way with people. Everyone I knew looked up to him. And he offered great advice. So when he asked me this, I was a deer in headlights. I froze, because I knew he knew I was just winging it. Mr. Scott continued to offer me some wise words and it was clear he genuinely cared about my success. It brings me great sadness to know this man is no longer with us to guide others along this crazy journey we call life, but I know he is still with us, protecting us, guiding us, and probably pulling a couple of funny jokes along the way. I love you Cindy, Dusty and Scotty. I’m sorry I can’t be there to celebrate Mr. Scott with you.

 Scott Taught me a lot about the Submarine world and how to check my feelings at my car when it was time to work. Always had something funny to say too. Praying for your family Scott.

To the Buchheit Family, 

On behalf of the Charleston Base SUBVETS and Swamp Fox Chapter SUBVETS WWII, I offer you our sincere condolences on Scott’s passing. We grieve with you on the death of your loved one and our shipmate. The SUBVETS will have your family in our thoughts and prayers. There is no expiration date on the back of our dolphins and Scott will always be remembered as a “Brother of the Phin” and a great Patriot. BRAVO ZULU SHIPMATE!!

RM1(SS) Scott Anthony Buchheit
US Navy Submarine Veteran
Now on Eternal Patrol
Sailor Rest Your Oar 
Your Shipmates Have The Watch

Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate

Charleston Base Submarine Veterans
Nick Nichols, MTCM(SS) USN Ret.
Base Chaplain

I served with Scott on the USS Pintado.   We were both Radiomen and usually we stood watch opposite of each other.   He always was looking out for others and someone you trust with anything.  It was a real privilege to know and work with him.  I can sit and think about him and makes me smile with all the memories I had of that time.   My thoughts and prayers go to his family.   

I grew up with Scott at St. John’s School in Independence, and I have many great memories.  Scott was always friendly to everyone and made life fun.   Thinking of all of you.

I use to babysit Scott , his brother and sisters when they  lived in Independence, Iowa. I lost contact  with them but Cindy found me on Facebook. I have kept in contact ever  since. He will be missed by so many. Everyone know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to each and everyone of you. 💕✨💕🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💕✨💕RIP Scott

Although it has been years since the last time I saw Scott, I will always cherish the time I got to spend with him.  He will be sadly missed by everyone.  My condolences go out to all his family and friends.

This is such a sad time for you all, our love and prayers are with you. Haven't seen Scott in some time wow he really looks like uncle Bucky. Love to all your cousin in Maine, Elaine and Gene.

I have such fond memories of Scott and have thought of him often over the years. He always had a smile and kind word, not to mention a wonderful sense of humor. My condolences to his family and friends.

I was lucky enough to have gone to school  with Scott. From first to 12 grade we were classmates, with about 20-25 others. Being in a small class in a small school in a small town allows for great friendships. He was always kind and full of laughter. He will be missed. Hugs to your Indee family and your Carolina family. 

A long time ago at the drug store on the corner I met Scott and Cindy. It wasn't often we'd see one with out the other. Always, always a ray of sunshine. They delighted in startling me with saying POKE behind my back. Even hiding waiting to POKE me and laughing when they got a scream out of me. Getting Dustin involved was over the top fun.  Singularly or together the Buchheit's were my favorites to see, every time.
Down to earth, caring, honest, funny, loving.

I worked with Scott nearly every work day for 13 years at MILCOM.   I don’t recall many bad days.   What I do recall is that he made work fun for me and for everyone around him.  Partly because that was his personality, but also because he knew what was important.    He always put his people first, would do anything for anyone, but then when the job needed to get done he expected your best.   I figured he got that from his Iowa farm roots.  We often compared stories of our annual trek back to the Midwest to visit family.   Our thoughts and prayers to Cindy and the family.

Scott was an inspiration for all who had the pleasure of working with him.  Very knowledgeable and never bothered him to teach someone so they had a clear understanding.  He will be sorely missed by all.

My dearest Cindy, my heart breaks for you and your family. Please know that we are praying for y’all. 
With my deepest sympathy, Kathy Lorang

Worked with Scott at Milcom and a day never went by without a smile or a joke .   he had a great since of humor about everything.  He will be missed! And to his family he loved you and spoke of you fondly.

Scott's wisdom, gentleness, and laughter will be missed.  One of the good guys, who made you feel comfortable the minute you met him.
We love the Buchheit's. Prayers for strength for his family.  We are heartbroken.

Scott was a good friend of mine and the company for which we both worked: MILCOM Systems Corporation/VT MILCOM. He will be missed. Bless his family and his memory.

I'm so sad to learn of Scott's passing. We worked together for many years at SPAWAR, and he seemed to always be smiling and in good humor. I never heard him get cross with anyone at work. He was truly a kind man and gave so much of himself to the submarine community. We will miss him. I pray good memories of Scott will bring comfort to his family.

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Scott Anthony Buchheit

January 26, 1962 – May 21, 2019

Carolina Funeral Home & Gardens

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