Your birthday bash at Spills. You had a good time and was smiling the whole night. Forever missed.

The day you married Nadeen. Daya was your “best woman”. What a beautiful day. So grateful to have experienced your special day. Continue to guide us bro.

Grateful for the moments like these. Forever missed.

I remember how stressed you was on your 30th Birthday about aging. I never in a lifetime believed we’d be honoring/celebrating your 50th without you in the physical form. Your spirit was most definitely felt that day. Daya truly did a beautiful job as she always does. You are truly loved & missed. So much love in that room.

Rest in piece my friend , never forgotten

Salute my brotha!!!! To the family, stay strong & BLESSED!

Can't believe its a year already, you are missed ,rip in peace my friend 😢 

Today is our Big Baby’s Birthday. The first one that you weren’t physically here with her. But I know you were here with her in spirit! I’ve seen you at EVERY one for the last 23 years…. Here’s to #24.  Couldn’t let this day go by without a shout out! We love you K!❤️ Forever!

 I give my condolences to the Parham family:Brother Parham was a very good friend of mine from 133 st, we had alot of laughter and good times together ill never forget him,he was a very conscious person rest in piece.,Anton

K-Ruit was a great uncle to my daughter Amarie and Son Deondre.  He brought a lot of laughter, conversations and memories in our world. I also enjoyed having him as part of my life, he was a good listener, honest person  and checked in on us when we needed it the most. We are going to miss him! Love and prayers to his entire family. He was an amazing man that will be remembered always in our hearts 💕 ~Amy, Amarie and Deondre

I only had the pleasure of meeting Chris 4 years ago, And in just that short time I grew to love the man. He was a driven family man, Loved his job and providing for his family,  When jobs are coming to an end, And we are working 7 days a week you see your coworkers more than your family, Working side-by-side with someone and hearing him say," come on man"",or " WORD" I will hear his voice in my head forever, He was a loved and respected man in our Union who no one could ever say anything bad about , he will be missed,  deepest condolences,Frank Scalo 💔

K Ruit, I am truly going to miss you my brother and you will never be forgotten. Sometimes months would pass before our paths crossed but it wasn't because of a lack of love, just our journeys took us in different directions. One thing was always certain, when we did see each other, we would smile, laugh and have conversation as if we had hung out the night before. You definitely had a way about you that when someone was in your presence, a positive vibe was always felt. I will always remember that energy and thank you for that. I LOVE YOU FAM, until we meet again!

Kruit,

You’ll always hold a place in my heart. You’ve supported my mother and I my entire life, and I am forever grateful for you. Thank you, I love you and I will forever miss you.

Tonn

Chris,
Rest in peace.
You will be missed.
Love You,
Your Uncle James.

This is Christopher also no as Kruit with his god son dontay my first born he was so happy to be his god father we was 18 years old in this pic words can’t explain what K meant to me and my family he will missed but never forgotten 

R.I.P. !!!
For a hot sec we called each other brotha. Now thru GOD ,we are just that, BROTHAS!!! For ever!
To the family hold him close cuz he's always there! RESPECT to u all.


First I want to say my Condolences to the family.  It was a pleasure working with Chris on the Job he always had me laughing with his stories from his past. He was a good Union Carpenter brother/ Father who always talked about his kids. You will definitely be missed 😢. 

I was blessed to be able to spend many memories with K. I will cherish them forever! Thank you for always being there for everything. Thank you for all the life lessons. Thank you for being a great father and for showing Shadaya and me what a real man is. I can’t thank you enough for it all. You will be missed and loved forever K! I LOVE YOU BRO!              ~Ash

You will be missed. Thank you for coming to Tristan’s graduation party and staying after to help cleaned up and taking down the tent.  You brought great joy and love to Nadeen. She always has  a smile on her face when I called her “Mrs. Parham.”   My condolences to the Parham family. 
Colette and Tristan

Thank you for loving my sisters and I like we were yours. Never thought of us as anything less and we love you for that. Thank you for being the best pop pop to Lani & King. Thank you for making mommy the happiest woman ever. Thank you for all the memories and laughs you gave us. Simply thank you for being in our lives. Love you, till next time. 

Condolences to the family and loved ones from the NYPD 69 Precinct DETECTIVE SQUAD. 

Chris who is my first cousin my father and his father are brothers will be surely missed, he had a smile and wonderful attitude ❤ 😊 towards life and family get togetherness, when my father passed I've hadn't seen him in years we were in different states at the time, but when he came to my father's funeral he's uncle it was like we saw each other every day from the imbrace we gave each other. That's something I would always remember and cherish about my first cousin. Love you always and forever, cousin Unique Hubert Parham 

Met Chris in Apprentice School in the early 2000’s. Working along side him many times on different jobs. I hated construction but he loved it. I would say to myself this kid works hard, I wish I had his drive. I hadn't seen him in a while besides Social Media, however I was sure he would do well for himself..When I did see him we would just talk about the old days and life. He always cared about how I was doing, giving a drive that was unmatched. To know him was a blessing … RIP Brother Chris

       ❤️DADDY’S LITTLE GIRL❤️ 
K-Ruit & Shadaya in her 1st car 1999

I miss your laughter, I miss your loud voice, I miss you being home. Thank you for showering mommy with unconditional love. Thank you for being such a great father to my sisters and I, and being such a great Pop Pop(grandfather). I promise to forever take care of mommy until you guys unite again. This is not a goodbye, because I will see you later, and we will all be together once again. I’ll forever love you Dad❤️

Love,
Ash

Our deepest condolences to Chris’s wife Nadeen  and the entire Parham Family. Chris—K. was a blessing to know  and will be greatly missed by all. Many blessings to you all as we continue to keep your Family in our prayers 🙏🏼

RIH K  You came into our life 25 yrs ago and 23 yrs ago I was blessed to become a Grandmother for the first time when Shadaya was born. We all go through different seasons in our life’s but as a Father you were always there for her and you will be missed.  There will forever be an empty seat at our family gatherings but we now have an Angel to watch over us ❤️  You were a great Family man and loyal friend.  I will miss our conversations and anyone who knows you , knows you were passionate about a lot of things. It was a pleasure to see you grow and become the man you were.  We will continue to celebrate you as you are welcomed into the lords open arms. Your spirit will always be with us and Shadaya will continue your legacy  Love ❤️ you always!  Until we meet again, Gramma 

Kruit has been one of closest friends for 25 years. He’s my daughter Tondreanna’s God father and we love him dearly.  He was one of the kindest people you could ever meet and his smile was infectious! We are forever grateful to have had him in our lives ❤️ This photo is from his wedding reception.  I will never forget how happy he was that day. We love you Kruit! I will honor your memory. Fly high until we meet again my friend. 

Lovingly called Parham - I am (Shaun) Mikey's Aunt and I have known Parham since his school days with Mikey - they were definitly best friends. They made the decision to move up to Conn. together - I have never seen two friends that loved each other the way they do. He was always a nephew and will continue to be.  I will continue to pray for the family of your Beloved Son, Husband, Dad, and his Best Friend, Mikey.

He was  both my nephews best friends and good friend  of the family.  I watched him grow up  in neighborhood very well mannered and respectful . I will miss him along with the family much love Parham R. I  P  
P.S. Say hello to Chris for me.

He was a sweetheart ❤ one of the good guys with  a big heart,he will be missed he was deeply loved. His aunt Margaret. ❤

It was a BLESSING to see one of my child hood friends get married. Hold it down in HEAVEN until we get there.

The night we went out for your birthday my brother 5-30-2018 you will be miss but never forgotten love you and may you rest in paradise 

OBITUARY

Christopher "Kruit" M. Parham

May 30, 1974 – October 13, 2021

Church & Allen Funeral Service

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