Barbara Ann Shryock

Born during the Great Depression, Barbara grew up with a deep appreciation for hard work, faith, and family—values that shaped the way she lived and loved throughout her life.

Barbara’s childhood began in Gage, Oklahoma, but in 1935 her family moved to Chugwater, Wyoming, where her father pursued ranching and the family lived in a two-story home that became part of her early memories. In 1941, with the birth of her younger brother, David, the family returned to Gage, Oklahoma, wanting to be close to loved ones during uncertain times. They lived with Barbara’s Aunt Mildred and Uncle Buck, who were well known in the community through their work at the local drugstore and post office

Barbara’s father later purchased land in Gage, where he raised cattle and farmed wheat, and Barbara grew up rooted in the rhythms of small-town life. She attended school in Gage, where she was active in school activities, participating in a school play, playing alto saxophone in the band, and playing basketball for the girls’ team.

In 1950, Barbara met and fell in love with Howard Shryock, beginning a partnership that would shape the rest of her life. They were married on February 10, 1951, and began their life together in small-town Oklahoma, living in several communities before eventually settling in Oklahoma City. During those years, they welcomed and raised four children, building a home grounded in love, hard work, and a deep Christian faith. Barbara and Howard were intentional in instilling strong values in their family, creating a foundation that continues through generations.

When her youngest child and only daughter began school, Barbara entered the workforce and took a position as a bookkeeper for Keller’s Sporting Goods and Keller Book Store in Warr Acres, Oklahoma. She later worked for Putnam City Schools in the administration building in the payroll department, where she eventually retired after many years of dedicated service.

Barbara was raised in the Gage Baptist Church and later, alongside Howard, became a longtime member of Putnam City United Methodist Church, where they were active in the church and sang in the choir for many years. They later made their church home at Hope Foursquare Church on Meridian Avenue in Oklahoma City, where they continued to worship faithfully.

During the years her children were growing up, Barbara lived a life full of service, involvement, and love for others. She and Howard were active in square dancing in Oklahoma City, something Barbara especially enjoyed. Between her work, church choir, Bible study, and raising her family, Barbara’s days were full. She faithfully supported her children’s many activities, always willing to drive wherever she was needed and cheer from the sidelines. Through her work and church involvement, she also formed many lasting friendships that brought her great joy throughout her life.

Barbara and Howard shared many adventures together, including a love of flying. Howard was a private pilot who worked for the FAA, and family trips often took place in small planes over the years. In an act of love and foresight, Howard encouraged Barbara to earn her own private pilot’s license, so she would be able to land the plane if ever needed—a challenge she met with quiet courage, even though flying was not her personal passion. As a family, they made special memories flying to Gage, Oklahoma, to visit Barbara’s family, and to Boise City, Oklahoma, to visit Howard’s family.

They also shared a love for classic cars. Howard restored a 1950 Mercury, and Barbara supported him every step of the way, helping with the interior and encouraging his passion for the hobby. Together, they were active in the Oklahoma City Early Ford V-8 Club, where they greatly enjoyed the camaraderie, events, and friendships they built through the group.

After their children were grown, Barbara and Howard continued to build a meaningful life together. They enjoyed traveling and treasured the friendships they formed throughout the years. In time, they made the thoughtful decision to move to the independent living community at Baptist Village in Oklahoma City, where they found community and companionship.

Following Howard’s passing, Barbara later transitioned to assisted living at Baptist Village, where she continued to enjoy friendships and participated in activities that brought her joy. In her final days, hospice care was brought in to ensure comfort and peace, and Barbara passed away gently at the age of 92, surrounded by love.

Barbara is survived by her children, Alan and his wife Lee, Jon and his wife Lezette, and Lu Ann and her husband Randy Rexroat; her sister-in-law, Janet Northcutt; and her many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, extended family, and dear friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Glen Hardy and Frieda Lois (Fields) Hardy; her brothers, Clarence Hardy and David Hardy; her sister, Joy Hardy; her son, Gordon Shryock; and her beloved husband, Howard Shryock, as well as many dear friends and extended family members.