Pamelia Gale Butler

Pamelia G. Butler, lovingly known as “Pam,” passed away peacefully at her home in Yukon, Oklahoma, surrounded by her loving family, on July 23, 2026.

Pam was born in Sentinel, Oklahoma, to Verne L. and Evelyn L. McIntyre. She attended school in Oklahoma City and graduated from Putnam City High School in 1966. On June 26, 1968, she married the love of her life, Dan Butler, in Oklahoma City, beginning a marriage that spanned 58 wonderful years.

As the wife of a serviceman, Pam lived in San Diego, California, and Jacksonville, North Carolina, while Dan served in the United States military. After his military service, they returned to Oklahoma, where they made their home in Fort Gibson before later settling in Piedmont.

Following high school, Pam worked in data entry for Service Fire Insurance. While living in Fort Gibson, she built a successful career as a real estate agent, where she enjoyed helping others find a place to call home.

Pam was a faithful member of Piedmont Church of the Nazarene. She found her greatest joy in the simple moments of life. She loved playing the piano, playing games with family and friends, taking family vacations, and, most of all, spending time with her grandchildren. She will be remembered for the love she shared with her family, her kind heart, and the many memories she created with those she loved.

Pam was preceded in death by her parents, Verne L. McIntyre and Evelyn L. McIntyre; and her sisters Anna Mae Smith and Phyllis L. Clark.

She is survived by her devoted husband of 58 years, Dan Butler; her daughter, Melissa Gray and husband, John; her son, Danny Butler and wife, Amy; her daughter Kimberly Bredwell and husband, Josh; her sister, Karrie McIntyre; five beloved grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends.

Pam’s love, kindness, and unwavering devotion to her family will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her.

A Funeral Service will be held at Piedmont Church of the Nazarene on 2011 Piedmont Road N in Piedmont, Oklahoma on July 31, 2026, from 10:00 a.m..