OBITUARY
Parke Anthony Metzer
January 29, 1993 – January 8, 2021
Parke Metzer has passed away just short of his 28th birthday. Parke was born in Oklahoma City and grew up in Edmond. He attended school at Edmond North High School and obtained a Bachelor’s degree in Creative Media Production from the University of Oklahoma and was a member of Delta Upsilon fraternity. It was always his dream from a very young age to become a movie director and he wrote, cast, directed, filmed and edited dozens of short films, several of which were entered and won awards at film festivals throughout the United States.
Parke was a spelling, geography and tennis champion in school and for three years attended Quartz Mountain Arts Institute for film making, during which time he directed three award-winning short films. He is listed on IMDB where most of his projects are posted.
Parke leaves behind his mother and step-father, Tetene and Steve Meltzner, father and step-mother Greg and Carla Metzer, sister Olivia Metzer, grandmothers Sue Hood and Val Metzer, as well as countless other relatives and friends. He was predeceased by grandfathers J. William Hood and Jim Metzer. A private memorial service with limited seating will be held Wednesday, January 20th, at 11:00 a.m. Social distancing will be honored and masks required. For your convenience, the service will be available to view livestream: https://tinyurl.com/hcfhlive.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Parke’s memory to honor his love of cats to Second Chance Animal Sanctuary (http://www.secondchancenorman.com/).
FAMILY
- Parke leaves behind his mother and step-father, Tetene and Steve Meltzner, father and step-mother Greg and Carla Metzer, sister Olivia Metzer, grandmothers Sue Hood and Val Metzer, as well as countless other relatives and friends. He was predeceased by grandfathers J. William Hood and Jim Metzer.
DONATIONS
- Second Chance Animal Sanctuary
Services
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Private Family Memorial Service
Wednesday, January 20, 2021
Memories
Parke Anthony Metzer
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ADD A MEMORYPeter Dituro
January 21, 2021
Parke I forgot to tell you, you’re gonna be so proud, I just passed a year sober yesterday!!! You have always been such an inspiration to me, and I owe much of my success to your guidance and support. I’ll keep going, I’m gonna make you proud!!!
Cailean Veach
January 20, 2021
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Cailean Veach
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Cailean Veach
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Cailean Veach
January 20, 2021
Parke Metzer will forever be one of the most creative, goofy, and just inspired individuals I have ever met in my life. I never could wrap my head around how his mind worked but it was always a treat to watch him create an idea and then wonder at how he had even come up with it. In high school, I remember filming video after video after video with him, all of them more bizarre or trippy than the last. He truly had a brilliant mind and I always thought to myself that he reminded me of exactly what people picture a film director as.
After we met and became fast friends, I remember when I joined Parke and Greg on what would be my first trip abroad and it is still, to this day, the greatest vacation that I’ve ever had. I think about it almost daily (not exaggerating) and the times we shared there. My favorite memory I think is when we were in Austria and we got to go out and explore the town by ourselves. We found a frankfurter stand and we both got a couple of those, loaded them with toppings, and then we bought our first legal beer together and went back to the hotel and spent, I think, two straight hours in the hotel hot tub just swimming around and making weird noises and laughing uncontrollably.
That was pretty standard for our friendship – It was never a bad time and every time we hung out, we would just immediately be comfortable and start delving into such obscure things. Looking back, I think it would be pretty uncharacteristic of most teenage boys to have conversations that deep and insightful. He showed me so many movies and films that I would never have given the time of day if it weren’t for him.
We grew apart over the years and that happens in life, unfortunately. But I thought about him a lot and I still do, and I still will. He has been missed, and will be missed and I will never forget the part of my life that he filled and made so much better. Parke Metzer was and is a beautiful human who is loved by many and I know I will never forget him.
Kevin Stubblefield
January 20, 2021
Parke was always a joy to be around, and we had so much fun making videos for school even when they weren't allowed to be shown. I remember fondly the days of racing through wikipedia to find specific articles without searching in our video editing class. We did plenty of video editing, too! Rest in peace, Parke
Dwain & Lisa Veach
January 18, 2021
Our deepest condolences to your whole family. Our thoughts are with you all at this time. We remember Parke with such fondness. The memories of all of the shorts and films those boys created are some of our favorites. As well, the Europe trip the boys took. May you Rest In Peace Parke. ❤️
The Veaches
karli blalock
January 16, 2021
My deepest condolences to Greg, Tetene, Olivia and other members of the family. This is a heavy and tremendous loss. My heart is with you.
friends since day 1.
karli blalock
January 16, 2021
a funny memory: Parke’s xanga homepage played “Photograph” by Nickelback, and no matter how much I dislike Nickelback, that song always makes me smile because it reminds me of Parke and our sweet, lifelong friendship and how much trouble I gave him for loving that song.
karli blalock
January 16, 2021
Parke Metzer and I were born 8 days apart, and we were friends from birth. Growing up, we always had a close and loving relationship. Parke was extraordinarily talented and creative. I was always so proud of his scripts and films and projects. A true Aquarian by nature, Parke loved animals and people. He was empathetic, big-hearted, and always on a mission. We used to stay up late at night texting or messaging on aim about our big ideas, places we want to visit, and whatever it was pre-teens in the 2000s worried about. When we went off to college, we mostly lost touch, but we never failed to wish one another happy birthday or comment in times of need. November 4 2020, Parke called me. We chatted about life for 20 minutes or so. We probably said “I love you” ten times on that phone call. Because, no matter what storms life brings or how much time passes, it’s important to tell the people you love that you love them. Parke, my sweet friend, you have left an imprint on my heart forever. I miss you. I love you. May you be eternally happy and free from suffering.
karli blalock
January 16, 2021
Parke Metzer and I were born 8 days apart, and we were friends from birth. Growing up, we always had a close and loving relationship. Parke was extraordinarily talented and creative. I was always so proud of his scripts and films and projects. A true Aquarian by nature, Parke loved animals and people. He was empathetic, big-hearted, and always on a mission. We used to stay up late at night texting or messaging on aim about our big ideas, places we want to visit, and whatever it was pre-teens in the 2000s worried about. When we went off to college, we mostly lost touch, but we never failed to wish one another happy birthday or comment in times of need. November 4 2020, Parke called me. We chatted about life for 20 minutes or so. We probably said “I love you” ten times on that phone call. Because, no matter what storms life brings or how much time passes, it’s important to tell the people you love that you love them. Parke, my sweet friend, you have left an imprint on my heart forever. I miss you. I love you. May you be eternally happy and free from suffering.
Christy Hock
January 15, 2021
My heart is breaking. What wonderful photos and memories of sweet Parke. While I didn't get to see him much as he grew up, I will always remember him for his kindness and intellect, animated conversations with him at the kitchen table, and our shared love of cats.
May Parke be at peace. I will never forget him. Tetene, Greg, Olivia and family -my prayers are with all of you.
Susan Donchin
January 15, 2021
Tetene and family,
Heartfelt condolences to each of you. Please understand you are not alone, with a community of people supporting you and sending prayers of peace, comfort and strength. Holding you each in healing light.
McClane Daniels
January 14, 2021
Parke was always the most passionate of friends and the exemplar of authenticity. He was always the person to stick up for his friends and to come to their aid. He was truly one of a kind and lit up the world around him with his lively personality and his great humor, intellect, and passion. He was always a pleasant person to be around and I will miss him dearly. I will forever cherish the memories of him and the invaluable impact he made in my life and the lives of those around him. My most heartfelt condolences go out to his family, and may he Rest In Peace.