Alicia Heineken

October 4, 1942April 21, 2010

Alicia Heineken, 67, of Olathe, passed away April 21, 2010. Memorial services will be 7 pm, Wednesday, April 28, at McGilley & Frye Funeral Home.

Alicia was born October 4, 1942 in Saginaw, MI to Russell and Frances (Turbin) Schuler. She was preceded in death by her husband, Edwin Heineken. Survivors include 2 children, Sheryl Heineken and Shane Heineken; grandchildren, Shelby Heineken and Russell Green and great granddaughter, Taylor Heineken.

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  • Memorial Service Wednesday, April 28, 2010

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Sheryl Heineken

April 20, 2011

Tomorrow will be a year since you left all those who LOVE you. Not a day goes by that I dont think of you and miss you so very much. I wish everyday that you were still here with me. Mom I want you to know that I LOVE you very much. Taylor is getting big. Doing good in school and misses you lots. I still feel lost and lonely without you here. I would give all I have to have you back in my life so I could still take are of you. Mom I miss you and Love You more than I ever let you know. For that I am so sorry. LOVE YOU

Sheryl Heineken

November 18, 2010

The holidays are upon us and the days are so hard to deal with. I miss you each and every day. I struggle with all the decisions I have made in these last eight months. I am having trouble with the fact that we will have our Christmas without you here. Taylor misses you. Mom I Love you and miss you so very much. I want my MOMMY! I need you so much.

July 31, 2010

You taught me so much in my life about the kind of person I want to be. That is like you. I struggle everyday wondering what advice you would give me with every challenge I face. You are my inspiration to be a better person and mother. I miss you so much and love you dearly. I know you are looking down at us and wishing us well.
love you so much mom,
Kelly Ann

Russ Heineken

July 31, 2010

Grandma Ive been doing alot better but some days it still hits me that your gone but I know i have you in my heart so all I can do is remember the good times we had and just know that your not hurting anymore and if it wasn't for you Grandma I wouldn't be the man I'am today
We love you and will always miss you

May 27, 2010

Sheryl: Loved the message you "sent" to your mother about Taylor - - - you know that she is watching you both and loving every minute of it. She loves you all - - - - enjoy the memories and Taylor, Sheryl.

Sheryl & Taylor Heineken

May 25, 2010

Today Taylor rode her big girl bike all by herself. You would of been so proud of her. She went around the whole court all by herself, while I was watching and recording it on camera.When she got back to the house she said,"I did it all by myself,without my grammy,uncle jerry, my mema or my grandpa." She misses you so much and so do I. I wish you were here to share this special day with us. We LOVE YOU!!!! And miss you more than words can say.

Tim Griffith

May 8, 2010

It is never good to hear that someone you have met in your life has passed. I did not know Alicia very well but had had a few conversations with her and was always nice. I knew Shelby and hope her and taylor "tator tot" as she was called are doing okay. My condolences go out to the family. If Shelby would like to reconnect sometime my email address is

May 1, 2010

Sudye: Please tell Shane that I will be more than happy to talk to him, but I haven't seen his mother in over 50 years and wouldn't have many things to tell him - - - but I'm sorry he is so so sad - soon he will begin to remember the happy times with his mom - but I can be reached or 660-885-9346 - leave message and I will call Shane back - - - Let him know I will be there for him and maybe he can just talk to me about his mom - - might make him feel better. Couldn't come to service Wed. So Sorry - - but had too many commitments. You were all in my heart and prayers. Jackie. Thanks Sudye. Talk to you soon Shane. Call me.

Jacqueline Eide Thuma

April 25, 2010

Sheryl and Shane: I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. First, I wish I had known she was in Olathe, KS - my daughter lives there and I was there all the time. I live in Clinton, MO. Second, Alicia and I were very close friends in high school and actually had a falling out later and never reconnected. We went to Santa Fe High together, knew her brother Craig -. Would like to attend the memorial service Wednesday evening; will she be bured here in Olathe or cremated and taken to Michigan? Please, please respond to this message. Jackie Eide

Sheryl Heineken

April 25, 2010

I cant tell you how much this is killing me. I DO LOVE YOU SO MUCH and I just cant believe that you have gone also. I wish that I could take back time and change so many things I did and didnt do. Oh how I wish that you were still here with me. I will never forgive myself for Tuesday night. I hope that you can! I LOVE you so much.