Roger B. Heap

May 8, 1926January 3, 2021

Roger B. Heap of Hamburg Cove, Lyme Connecticut, died January 3, 2021. Born in Boston, to Col. Roger A B and Eirene (O’Neil) Heap,he grew up in Longmeadow Massachusetts and attended Tech High School in Springfield where he also worked at the Indian Motor Cycle headquarters before joining the Army Air Corp in 1944 during World War II. After High School he moved to Lyme where he purchased and operated the Gordon Hall Manufacturing Company in Old Lyme for ten years before taking a job as North East Regional Representative for the John A. Bailey & Associates Company. He met and married Virginia (Ginny) Potter in 1960, they lived in Old Saybrook and Essex. He later married Lois Burr-Thompson of Clinton in 1991 and they made their home at Hamburg Cove where he lived until relocating a year ago to the good care at The Saybrook at Haddam for which the family is most appreciative.

He is predeceased by his first wife Virginia (Potter) Heap in Old Saybrook, and his second wife Lois (Burr-Thompson) Heap of Clinton whose four children he delighted in. He is survived by a sister seven years his senior, Pamela (Heap) Rich of Longmeadow Massachusetts and her surviving daughters, his nieces Cynthia (Rich) Wilson (Thomas) of East Longmeadow and Susan (Rich) Flynn of Killingworth Connecticut and many great nieces and nephews.

Roger maintained a passion throughout his life for cars, boats, and for flying and he had operational licenses for all types. His greatest joy though, was for life itself, for love and happiness. He reminded us often that “Happiness is a choice”, he thrives on gratitude, marveled at his good fortunes and he truly appreciated his family and many friends. He asked that we wish a “Happy Forever” to all and that we remember him that way.

Private arrangements will be at the convenience of the family. Remembrance donations may be made to the Lymes Senior Center 26 Townwoods Rd. Old Lyme, CT 06371 or Lyme Ambulance PO Box 911 Hadlyme, CT 06439


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Cynthia Wilson

January 11, 2021

"Uncle Rog". Roger was always my favorite uncle. He was always such a positive person. Happy, grateful for his many blessings, a warm and caring soul, he loved people and befriended all. Roger lead a quiet, humble life because that is how he liked things--orderly, straightforward, and uncomplicated. He had a heart full of love and a certain wonderful joy for life which made him very special. He will be missed very much by all of his family.

Anne Tisdale Magee

January 10, 2021

I have very fond memories of visiting with Roger's parents when I was a small child. They were good friends with my grandmother Ora.

My parents were also very good friends with Roger. Here is a picture of him in my parent's wedding. Same smile :-)

Sorry we were never able to get together for one last chat.

RIP Roger! Say hello to my parents.

Anne Tisdale Magee

Judy Anderson

January 7, 2021

I will miss Roger's shining personality and smile. Rest peacefully and forever happy.

Sharon Tracy

January 6, 2021

Roger was our next door neighbor. The finest neighbor anyone could every dream about! Rest In Peace Roger.
Sharon Tracy