Ralph J Leahy

He went peacefully, surrounded by those who loved him.

The youngest of 4 sons, Ralph was born on November 15, 1927, in Washington, DC, to loving

parents, James and Mary. Having been raised in a very patriotic home, a young and eager 15-

year-old Ralph was certified by Roosevelt’s US Citizens Defense Corps as a Messenger. In

1945, as soon as he was of legal age, Ralph joined the US Navy and served most honorably,

until his discharge in 1954.

At 16, while still in high school, Ralph went on to join his father at Washington Gas & Light

Company, becoming the third generation of Leahy to work there. While serving his time in the

Navy during WWII, Ralph also joined the company full time, starting as a Helper in Gas

Support. Seeing the great potential that Ralph possessed, Washington Gas encouraged Ralph

to obtain his degree and promoted him as an engineer to Manager of the Operations and

Maintenance Department. He was a loyal and valued member of Washington Gas for 43 years,

until he retired to take care of his loving wife, Pat, during her time of need.

When Ralph and Pat met, it was love at first sight. They were married in 1951, and they lived a

wonderful life together in Rockville, MD, until she passed away in 1993.

Ralph lived life to the fullest. He loved good jazz, especially Kay Starr and Ella Fitzgerald, and

good whiskey, Jack Daniels Single Barrel being his favorite. He was a lifetime member of the

American Legion and donated to veteran charities regularly. Ralph was an avid sports fan and

was a life-long Washington Redskins and University of Maryland supporter, keeping season

tickets for decades. Later in life, he learned to enjoy NASCAR, as well, and traveled to the

tracks in Daytona and Talladega for fun. He enjoyed collecting owls, dogs and military items,

and loved to gift special things to all he cared about. Ralph and his companion Anna cruised all

over from Alaska to the Caribbean, and on his 85th birthday, Ralph went skydiving for the first

time. Even with all of his accomplishments and hobbies, Ralph’s biggest enjoyment came from

friends, family and fellowship. He was generous to a fault and gave without wanting any

recognition. He was a devout Catholic and supported his church and numerous charities

faithfully. His amazing blue eyes, quick wit and generous heart will be remembered always.

Ralph is preceded in death by his parents, James Henry Leahy & Mary Stefonia

Gassenschmidt Leahy; Brothers, Bernard James, James Henry & Robert Earle Leahy; Beloved

wife, Audrey Patricia Leahy; Cousin, Sister Francis Gassenschmidt; and Partner, Anna Maria

Gooding.

He is survived by nieces, Patricia Whitmer (children Ben, Mary and David Erdelyi),

Gail Dagenhart, Patricia Hall & Linda Cook; Nephews, James Michael Leahy (son Conor) &

Daniel Leahy & wife Rose (children Jesse, Gina & Stephanie); Great nephew, John Michael

Spicer & wife Elizabeth; Great niece, Laila Maureen Partridge & husband Chad (children Caden

& Sophia); Companion & friend, Marian Byrnes; and Good friend, AJ.

Services will be held on Friday, May 3, 2024, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Rockville, MD, at

10:30 am, followed by a visitation with the family at Francis Collins Funeral Home in Silver

Spring, MD, from 2-4:00 pm. Ralph’s funeral will follow on Saturday, May 4, 2024, at Gate of

Heaven Cemetery in Silver Spring, MD, at 11:30 am.

In lieu of flowers, Ralph’s family has asked for donations to be made to the Wounded Warriors Project, Tunnels to Towers, Alzheimer’s Foundation of America or any charitable foundation close to your heart.

Ralph, until we meet again, Be safe, Behave and Take care of yourself.