OBITUARY
Ronald Stephen Dudley
July 15, 1952 – January 17, 2021
DUDLEY, Ronald (Ron) Stephen (Ret’d Sergeant CD) Passed peacefully on Sunday, January 17th, 2021 at the age of 68. Loving spouse of Nina Hollington. Cherished son of the late Kenneth and Rose Dudley. Beloved father to Melanie (Ian), Melissa (George), James (Lesley) and stepfather to Victoria Grace Hollington. He will be sadly missed by his grandchildren Alex, Aleeyah, Madelyn, Gavin and Travis. Dear brother to Sheila (David), Margaret (Stephen), Ken (Debbie), Susan (Michael), Velma (David), Linda (Paul), Gary and Victoria (Paul). He will be fondly remembered by many of his nieces and nephews.
Ron joined the military in 1969. When he left for his recruitment training, all of his family met at his home on Darlingside Drive. They then all drove down to Union Station to say their goodbyes and to give him a Dudley Family send off. He graduated in 1970 from Cornwallis, Nova Scotia Naval base, then headed off to Borden to take his training to become a supply tech. Ron was posted in many places over the years which included Downsview, Calgary, Whitehorse, Trenton, Regina, Toronto and served a tour in the Middle East. His final posting was with the Sea, Army and Air Cadets. Ron was very proud to serve his country for over 40 years and retired as a Ret’d Force Sergeant. Private family visitation will be held at the OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME, 847 King Street West (905-721-1234). Online condolences may be made at www.oshawafuneralhome.com
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ADD A MEMORYMelanie Dudley
February 2, 2021
Love You Dad
Vicki Edgerton (Dudley)
January 25, 2021
Being a close-knit family I have to many wonderful memories to pick just 1
- returning from your deployment safe
-whipping me around the dance floor to a polka
-putting me in a hockey net at 4 with no equipment taking slap shots
-the hug with the extra firm pat on the back that said, I love you with no words
-when you decorated your basement with red/green tissue paper for
Xmas and asked “do you think dad would be proud?”
Those are just a few.
I’m sorry I didn’t know
I’m sorry you didn't tell us
I’m sorry I didn’t say hello before I said ...... so long
Love you Ronnie
Belinda Lyall
January 24, 2021
Ron,
If one measures a man by what he truely leaves behind then you scored 100 percent , all your children are great people and your grandchildren the absolute best . Big hearts and the kind of individuals one wants to be with always. That comes from learning by example. Good job thanks to you and Julia
We did not get around to that 10,001 essential joke book for every Canadian that we discussed. You left tooo soon.
Happy trails You are missed .
Big HUG
Charles Lyall. G dad #2
Lisa Burton
January 23, 2021
Ron was an important member of our RCSU family, there was a group of us that worked with Ron in Toronto for well over 20 years. Ron’s sense of humour made us laugh, especially when we really needed it. But when it came time to work, he was serious, articulate and always willing to lend a hand. He loved his kids and his grandchildren and spoke of them often. His passing has saddened so many, you will not be forgotten Ron.
Lisa and Jerry
Susan Dudley
January 23, 2021
I Love the look between Mom and Ronnie. He always has a special kind of Love with Mom💙❤
Debbie Dudley
January 23, 2021
Ron, words cannot express what I feel in my heart. You always called me on my birthday without fail and this year I will miss that cheerful greeting. I am so glad that you and Kenny had such a great day at Jen's in the summer. You touched so many people's lives in so many ways. You were one of a kind Ron and I love you dearly. Rest in peace knowing you were so loved.
Vanessa Barilla
January 22, 2021
Ron was so loved by the children at St. Margaret. He always took the time to acknowledge their greetings and read the special cards they made for him. They called him Mr. Ron, and every visit he made to our classroom was special and fun. I will miss Ron with all my heart. May he Rest In Peace.
Vanessa Barilla
Francine Martin
January 22, 2021
I knew WO Ron Dudley when I was employed at the RCSU Det Toronto, and what I remember most is his smile and great sense of humour. My sincere condolences to his family and friends; may you rest in peace WO Dudley.
Melissa Dalton
January 22, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 22, 2021
Alex and Grandad!
Melissa Dalton
January 22, 2021
First visit with his first granddaughter!
Heather Cumine
January 22, 2021
Mr. Ron, as he was affectionately known, gave of his time, strength, compassion and of himself each and everyday when he served at St. Margaret.
He brought nourishing foods to the students and spent a lot of time preparing, organizing and distributing the food with a smile on his face and with love in his heart.
We had many conversations about his experiences in the military, as well as discussions around government/politics, music, family, and faith.
His faith was strong, and it was exemplified by how he gave of himself every day. It was my honor to have known him. My deepest condolences go out to Mr. Ron's family, friends and to all of the people's lives he touched along the way. Thank you for exemplifying the love of Jesus Christ in action! Mr. Ron, you will be greatly missed. Thank you. Sincerely, Heather Anne Cumine
Ralph Martin
January 22, 2021
Ron and I went to High School together for a couple years. I joined the military a bit before him ( served 26 years) and at one point while on leave, I dropped by the High School to tease a couple of my old Gym teachers. I ran into Ron in the hallway and the rest is history in terms of him signing up to serve his country as well. The years passed and we reconnected again on Facebook in early 2018 as he saw one of my posts and my plans to attend my old public school celebration of its 100 th anniversary. We met at a place called Ted’s Restaurant, ( a very popular hang out back in the day) We both had a wonderful conversation and found out that we had been both posted to CFB Calgary at one time and of course we shared our experiences serving in uniform. I thought 26 years was pretty good, but was gobsmacked at his 40 years plus service. What an outstanding individual. Of course from there, we committed to staying in contact. My plan was to come by this summer and we had plans to meet again. I was very sad to hear of his passing. I will remember that boisterous smile. He served his country and community with passion, conviction and outstanding rare leadership. It was an honour to reconnect with him over the past few years. I salute you Ron and sincerely congratulate you on your promotion to the next level of awareness. Too his surviving family members, stay strong, support each other and above all, Remember his personal leadership and endeavour to emulate it. That is the most powerful way to honour his legacy..
Sheila Harrison
January 22, 2021
I remember my brother Ron was turning four, & he was wanting a pop gun for his birthday. Now this was a black gun made out of cheap material with a thin rope hanging from the gun & at the end was a cork. You put the cork in the barrel of the gun, pull the trigger & pop. To earn some money to buy it for him, l sold books of tickets for one of the service clubs in Port Hope. It took hours to sell the tickets, as l only got ten cents for each book. Finally...l had enough & remember no tax back then..lol. I ran home, wrapped it up & could not wait to give it to him. When he opened it up, the look on his face & his smile, said it all. Well, the cork stopped fitting in the gun, the rope came off, & the trigger stopped working. He had so much fun with it. You will always be in my heart & l love you so much. Sheila ❤️
Susanna Ranalli
January 22, 2021
It is with much sadness and heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our dear friend and colleague, Ron Dudley.
As you may know, Ron has been the Carmichael campus Student Nutrition Program coordinator for the last 5 years as well as the stepfather to Victoria Hollington in gr.6.
There are no words to express the sorrow of losing our dear colleague, Ron. The world has lost a wonderful person.
Ron was an integral part of our community making an impression on everyone he met. He was very dedicated to our students working hard every morning to ensure our students had a nutritious and enjoyable snack.
Please know that according to his family, Ron was the happiest when he was at school with us. His drives in from Ajax every morning were truly worth it for him. He truly enjoyed serving our students … and it showed.
Perhaps one of the funniest people we have ever met, Ron was always ready to share a joke and put a smile on your face. He was always so positive, always there to see the brighter side. We can indeed learn a lot from Ron.
It’s not often that life brings us someone as special as Ron, and we feel fortunate to have known him.
Let us please keep the family in our thoughts and prayers.
Rest in peace Ron … you will certainly keep them laughing in heaven … and keep them well fed too! We will never forget you!
In sincerest sympathy,
Susanna Ranalli
St. Margaret School
Principal
Bessie Cardoni
January 21, 2021
I thought the world of Ron from the moment we met ! He had a great sense of humour, a sensitive and understanding nature, and his immense love for Nina and Victoria was written on his every expression for all to see. He was fun to be around and I will always remember him with fondness. My deepest condolences to Nina, Victoria, and all family and friends whose life he touched. We will all miss him. To Ron: May you rest forever with peace and love in the presence of God.
Melissa Dalton
January 21, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 21, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 21, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 21, 2021
I will never forget when my Dad decided we had to put all the red and green tissue paper on the walls for the family Christmas dinner. He was so proud to finally be able to have his family over for Christmas in a house he could say was his own!
This pictures shows “the goof ball” he was!
Nina Hollington
January 21, 2021
Ron would write many little notes to me to tell me how much he loves me. Here is one of them very recently:
Ken Digasparro
January 21, 2021
He was diligent in his work and was a great support at our squadron as well as other corps and squadrons. Was always on his good side and was there when we needed his help.
Again, I'm still sorry about your finger....wasn't entirely my fault.
We all missed him when he retired and Ron and I both joined Commissionaires at the same time and over time, lost track of each other.
May you rest in peace, WO Dudley.
Shannon Bonnar
January 21, 2021
My deepest condolences to WO Dudley’s family & friends.
George Nutter
January 21, 2021
Nina, in addition to the Squadron's tribute to Ron which I had posted earlier, I wanted to relay my personal condolence to you. I thoroughly enjoyed Ron's company when we spent time together, and can only imagine your sense of loss.
Anthony Lam
January 21, 2021
This man has given our unit support that could not simply be relegated with 2000 words... he was the familiar face and name we would look to whenever we had questions, and he would always have answers.... even if they may have been eye rolls.
Lorraine Van Ooyen
January 21, 2021
I am so saddened to hear the news of Ron's passing. Ron and I were supply techs together in Trenton in the Reg Armed Forces and then found each other again when I enrolled as a CIC Officer. Ron's dry sense of humor was always expected and he had a way of keeping us in check and on track. He did an excellent job serving his country and the youth of Canada. My heartfelt prayers go out to all his family at this time. He will be missed on all fronts. Rest easy Ron.
Capt (Ret) Lorraine Van Ooyen
George Nutter
January 21, 2021
Ron was a much valued member of our cadet community. His longtime support for 166 Bulldog Squadron, from managing supply for us through to adding something special to our field training exercises, is fondly remembered by all. Our very deepest condolences to his family and other friends.
Maj. George Nutter
Commanding Officer
166 Bulldog Squadron
Royal Canadian Air Cadets
Mary Adamczak
January 21, 2021
My condolences to the family. WO Dudley was a great man and it is my honour to have know him and to have worked with him. Thank you for your service Sir and RIP.
Captain M. M. (Mary) Adamczak, CD (Retired)
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Alex Lyall
January 20, 2021
One of Madelyn's dance recitals!
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Alex Lyall
January 20, 2021
One of my favourite photos of my grandad Ron, Grandma Julie, and mum
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Melissa Dalton
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Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Nina Hollington
January 20, 2021
Ron wrote this poem for me:
Jake Mervyn
January 20, 2021
It was never a dull moment at the many CO Conferences over the years, the many DA Verifications were Ronny would find an item on a shelf in the back 40, written off years ago from another DA verifications. He had a rather interesting gift and new his job very well ... in the end it was always cheers and beers.
Rest In Peace Rony and Thank You for all you have done for the CCM we appreciate it.
Jake Mervyn
margaret Taylor
January 20, 2021
I remember walking you to school when you were in Kindergarten at Dr. Powers School. when we lived in Port Hope. We had to walk over a trestle bridge that had many openings. I would hold your hand as I was always scared you might fall through. I never knew you were scared till we talked about it last year and you thanked me for keeping you safe. I have great memories of visiting you in Calgary and Regina. You took us around and showed us so much. We had a great time, thanks to you. I am going to miss you little Bro but you will always be in my heart and only a memory away. Love your little sis. Marg oxox
Susan Dudley
January 20, 2021
This picture is of Ronnie leaving to go to Cornwallis for the Navy, 1969.
The beginning of his 40 career which he loved and was dedicated to. Ronnie thank you for your service. I will miss you and Love you, your sister Susan xoxo
Nina Hollington
January 20, 2021
Nina Hollington
January 20, 2021
Nina Hollington
January 20, 2021
David Kennedy
January 20, 2021
I have so many great memories of Ron at CO’s conferences and picking up equipment at the warehouse . I always budgeted at least one hour when I picked up supplies from him for my unit. He had so many funny story’s and what a great sense of Humour! Rest In Peace old friend.
Major Kennedy
2824 Royal Canadian Army Cadets
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
James helping Dad with his luggage when Dad was heading to the Middle East
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Alex lyall
January 20, 2021
Roadtrip to Banff during his time in Calgary with his wife Julie, parents, and two young daughters Melanie & Melissa.
Alexandria Lyall
January 20, 2021
Grandad was always the best at playing along with all our games
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Melissa Dalton
January 20, 2021
Jenny Taylor
January 20, 2021
I met Ron while working with him with the Cadet Headquarters. Ron's smile and sense of Newfy humour have been genuinely missed since he left our ranks. His crusty exterior held a good heart. My condolences to his family.
Robert Hungerson
January 19, 2021
I first met Ron in 1983 while we were posted to CFB Trenton. Ron was a great guy, and funnier than hell. I still remember seeing him just after his 65th birthday. He had just gone to the Canadian National Exhibition and had saved $8.00 on his admission. He was as excited as a little kid. One of many fond memories I have of Ron.
Thank you for your service and RIP old friend.
Bob
J.P. Ferron
January 19, 2021
When I first joined the CAF I was a little intimidated by Ron but it wasn't long before that feeling left and I came to really like the man.
Lately we shared thoughts and experiences by messanger and made plans to get together for a few pints once this Covid issue was behind us.
I will hoist a few in his memory.
Rest in Peace, my friend and God Speed.
I salute you.
Meaghann Royal
January 19, 2021
WO Dudley had a preternatural ability to find what you were looking for in supply. It didn't matter that you hadn't seen it in months. It didn't matter that it wasn't even his supply room. He would point at it's exact position without looking.
Teresa Parker
January 19, 2021
One of the nicest, wittiest fellows I have ever met. I have such wonderfully funny memories of him as well as those of his kindness - for which he would caution me... "don't let that get out." He was always there to help...and while we talked about Cadets, we also spoke of his military service and our shared love of music. He had some great stories from his service days and later would create his own compilations of favorite bands and singers. Thank you WO Dudley!! Hope the music where you are is great! Safe Journey!
Meryl Boca
January 19, 2021
Remembering WO Dudley at the Cadet Detachment during his employment there. His sense of humor always got me and talks help me during my employment.
Sad to hear
Rest in Peace Ron
Linda Bernard
January 19, 2021
You, Paul and I joined a bowling league downtown in south Regent Park which was in the bottom of a church. It was Sunday mornings and we had to take a bus, then the subway to get there. We all went to the banquet at the end of the year, you said it was the most exciting piano smashing banquet you had ever been to.
Robert Lyon
January 19, 2021
Fond memories of a loyal and faithful comrade. His sense of humor would always brighten a difficult situation. Rest in peace, old soldier.