Dr. Roger Milan

We are gathered today to celebrate the life of Roger Milan who was united with the Lord on the 29th of September.

Roger was born in Lebanon on the 4th of September 1952.

He is the son of Emile and the late Nadia Hobeiche Milan.

He has two siblings, Jocelyne and Nabil.

He grew up and studied at Le College de Frères Sacré-Coeur Joumayze.

He received his undergraduate degree in Mechanical Engineering from L'Ecole Superieure des Ingenieures de Beyrouth.

In 1976, Roger travelled to Michigan where he completed his Masters and PhD in Mechanical Engineering at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.

In 1983, he joined the University of British Colombia in Vancouver as a Research Associate.

He later joined, in 1985, the University of Ottawa as a professor in the department of Mechanical Engineering. His research interests were in the field of combustion.

In 1992, he married Souha Zoghby, and had two children Samar and Emile.

Roger is well known in the community as he attended St. Charbel Church shortly after he settled in Ottawa. He enjoyed interacting with people, and his kindness and gentleness often led him to new acquaintances.

The strong bond that he has with his family had draw his late mother to visit often and eventually his younger brother Nabil to come and complete his under graduate studies in university of Ottawa.

Through the years, he would come across some of his students at the University of Ottawa while in church events or during an outing, and it always left him with a sense of joy and purpose when they took the time to chat briefly with him.

Roger was not a person who would like to participate in arguments that would lead to taking part with one side. His peacefulness in the midst of heated discussions brought the others to a level of reflection on the matter at hand rather than to rushed angry words and decisions.

In whatever he does, he makes sure he goes well prepared to deliver the best of what he does.

He taught us that if we fail or something goes wrong, we should adjust and keep going but never give up.

He is a loving and attentive dad who instilled in us the importance of seeking God and the responsibility of living His commandments in every way.

After multiple symptoms appearing randomly, Roger was diagnosed in 2013 with Scleroderma which is an incurable autoimmune disease. He met with the scleroderma society group in Ottawa who helped him tremendously with all resources and information to help him cope with this devastating disease that seems to affect patients differently. He battled through as usual with his brave quietness and perseverance offering his prayers and thanksgiving to the Lord with every new day. He was holding on, happy to be around his wife and family, and the support of many dear friends who have never forsaken us.

It is said that children are the best assurance of immortality, and so it is in this family where Roger lived in exemplary life giving the best of himself to his children. His lightheartedness, honesty and righteousness will forever inspire us.

Roger left us with a legacy of faith and love that will endure in our hearts forever.

Cher papa,

You are a man of few words. You speak with actions rather than words.

Mom, Emile, and I would be having a discussion and it would be typical of you to sit silently, watch, and listen from the Lazy-Boy chair. That chair is known to be yours in the house. But dad, you are not so lazy at all. While we would be discussing, I knew that you were listening effectively, which only a few people do, and that gave you a clear view into people’s hearts. For that reason, I would look forward to your advice and insight on the subject. Sometimes the wisest action is none at all.

Dad, your silence was full of answers.

Cher papa,

You are a man of simplicity. Your priorities are our family, our friends, and our success in life. With fewer distractions, you manage to focus on what you value most. With fewer distractions, your words are clear, wise, and persuasive.

Your serenity is also reflected in our home through your love for classical music. It creates tranquility and peace in our minds, in our hearts, and in our actions.

Dad, your simplicity is a strength. It is the ultimate form of sophistication.

Cher papa,

You are a caring teacher.

Not only are you a well- regarded scholar, but also a mentor at home, and for many in the community.

I recall many times, at the end of the night, when you’re just ready to go to bed, I would come to you for help with homework, and you would never fail to give me your full attention. In fact, I would hope that after a long day, you would quickly give me the solution. But every time I was mistaken, as you welcomed my questions with enthusiasm and urged me to sit with you at the kitchen table to review the problem in length.

I would always get heated and complain that It’s not the time to go through the textbook and notes at midnight, and I would storm off to my room. Despite my agitation, you would never lose patience or raise your voice. After calming down, I would go back downstairs and still find you at the table, reading my notes and ready to help.

In addition to enriching my academic learning, your teaching and your methodology gave me the confidence to resolve any problem in life.

Dad, your knowledge is a treasure.

Cher papa,

Dad, you are a man of few words, a man of simplicity, and a caring teacher.

We know that you are in peace because you always did your best, and now you need to rest.

Even if we cannot see you, your strength, love, and faith will live in us all forever.

Thank you for all that you have taught us, and we promise that your virtues will be a guide through our life. Your constant smile will always be engraved in our hearts.

Love,

Samar & Emile

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Milan, Roger Dr.

(Professor, University of Ottawa, Dept. of Mechanical Engineering)

Peacefully in hospital, on Friday, September 29, 2017 at the age of 65 years. Beloved husband of Souha Zoghbi. Loving father of Samar and Emile Milan. Beloved son of Emile and the late Nadia Milan. Dear brother of Jocelyne (Tony Wehbe) and Nabil (Kathrine). Roger will be fondly remembered by the Milan, Hobeiche, Zoghbi and Karam families as well as by his many nephews, cousins, colleagues and friends. The family will receive friends at McEvoy-Shields Funeral Home, 1411 Hunt Club Road (at Albion Road) on Monday, October 2 and Tuesday, October 3, 2017 from 6-9 p.m. Funeral Service on Wednesday, October 4, 2017 at 11 a.m. at St. Charbel Maronite Catholic Church, 245 Donald Street. Interment Beechwood Cemetery. In memoriam donations to St. Charbel Maronite Catholic Church or to the Scleroderma Society of Ontario would be appreciated.

Dear family, dear friends,

We are gathered today to celebrate the life of Roger Milan who was united with the Lord on the 29th of September.

Roger was born in Lebanon on the 4th of September 1952.

He is the son of Emile and the late Nadia Hobeiche Milan.

He has two siblings, Jocelyne and Nabil.

He grew up and studied at Le College de Frères Sacré-Coeur Joumayze.

He received his undergraduate degree in Mechanical Engineering from L'Ecole Superieure des Ingenieures de Beyrouth.

In 1976, Roger travelled to Michigan where he completed his Masters and PhD in Mechanical Engineering at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.

In 1983, he joined the University of British Colombia in Vancouver as a Research Associate.

He later joined, in 1985, the University of Ottawa as a professor in the department of Mechanical Engineering. His research interests were in the field of combustion.

In 1992, he married Souha Zoghby, and had two children Samar and Emile.

Roger is well known in the community as he attended St. Charbel Church shortly after he settled in Ottawa. He enjoyed interacting with people, and his kindness and gentleness often led him to new acquaintances.

The strong bond that he has with his family had draw his late mother to visit often and eventually his younger brother Nabil to come and complete his under graduate studies in university of Ottawa.

Through the years, he would come across some of his students at the University of Ottawa while in church events or during an outing, and it always left him with a sense of joy and purpose when they took the time to chat briefly with him.

Roger was not a person who would like to participate in arguments that would lead to taking part with one side. His peacefulness in the midst of heated discussions brought the others to a level of reflection on the matter at hand rather than to rushed angry words and decisions.

In whatever he does, he makes sure he goes well prepared to deliver the best of what he does.

He taught us that if we fail or something goes wrong, we should adjust and keep going but never give up.

He is a loving and attentive dad who instilled in us the importance of seeking God and the responsibility of living His commandments in every way.

After multiple symptoms appearing randomly, Roger was diagnosed in 2013 with Scleroderma which is an incurable autoimmune disease. He met with the scleroderma society group in Ottawa who helped him tremendously with all resources and information to help him cope with this devastating disease that seems to affect patients differently. He battled through as usual with his brave quietness and perseverance offering his prayers and thanksgiving to the Lord with every new day. He was holding on, happy to be around his wife and family, and the support of many dear friends who have never forsaken us.

It is said that children are the best assurance of immortality, and so it is in this family where Roger lived in exemplary life giving the best of himself to his children. His lightheartedness, honesty and righteousness will forever inspire us.

Roger left us with a legacy of faith and love that will endure in our hearts forever.

Cher papa,

You are a man of few words. You speak with actions rather than words.

Mom, Emile, and I would be having a discussion and it would be typical of you to sit silently, watch, and listen from the Lazy-Boy chair. That chair is known to be yours in the house. But dad, you are not so lazy at all. While we would be discussing, I knew that you were listening effectively, which only a few people do, and that gave you a clear view into people’s hearts. For that reason, I would look forward to your advice and insight on the subject. Sometimes the wisest action is none at all.

Dad, your silence was full of answers.

Cher papa,

You are a man of simplicity. Your priorities are our family, our friends, and our success in life. With fewer distractions, you manage to focus on what you value most. With fewer distractions, your words are clear, wise, and persuasive.

Your serenity is also reflected in our home through your love for classical music. It creates tranquility and peace in our minds, in our hearts, and in our actions.

Dad, your simplicity is a strength. It is the ultimate form of sophistication.

Cher papa,

You are a caring teacher.

Not only are you a well- regarded scholar, but also a mentor at home, and for many in the community.

I recall many times, at the end of the night, when you’re just ready to go to bed, I would come to you for help with homework, and you would never fail to give me your full attention. In fact, I would hope that after a long day, you would quickly give me the solution. But every time I was mistaken, as you welcomed my questions with enthusiasm and urged me to sit with you at the kitchen table to review the problem in length.

I would always get heated and complain that It’s not the time to go through the textbook and notes at midnight, and I would storm off to my room. Despite my agitation, you would never lose patience or raise your voice. After calming down, I would go back downstairs and still find you at the table, reading my notes and ready to help.

In addition to enriching my academic learning, your teaching and your methodology gave me the confidence to resolve any problem in life.

Dad, your knowledge is a treasure.

Cher papa,

Dad, you are a man of few words, a man of simplicity, and a caring teacher.

We know that you are in peace because you always did your best, and now you need to rest.

Even if we cannot see you, your strength, love, and faith will live in us all forever.

Thank you for all that you have taught us, and we promise that your virtues will be a guide through our life. Your constant smile will always be engraved in our hearts.

Love,

Samar & Emile

Dear family, dear friends,

We are gathered today to celebrate the life of Roger Milan who was united with the Lord on the 29th of September.

Roger was born in Lebanon on the 4th of September 1952.

He is the son of Emile and the late Nadia Hobeiche Milan.

He has two siblings, Jocelyne and Nabil.

He grew up and studied at Le College de Frères Sacré-Coeur Joumayze.

He received his undergraduate degree in Mechanical Engineering from L'Ecole Superieure des Ingenieures de Beyrouth.

In 1976, Roger travelled to Michigan where he completed his Masters and PhD in Mechanical Engineering at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.

In 1983, he joined the University of British Colombia in Vancouver as a Research Associate.

He later joined, in 1985, the University of Ottawa as a professor in the department of Mechanical Engineering. His research interests were in the field of combustion.

In 1992, he married Souha Zoghby, and had two children Samar and Emile.

Roger is well known in the community as he attended St. Charbel Church shortly after he settled in Ottawa. He enjoyed interacting with people, and his kindness and gentleness often led him to new acquaintances.

The strong bond that he has with his family had draw his late mother to visit often and eventually his younger brother Nabil to come and complete his under graduate studies in university of Ottawa.

Through the years, he would come across some of his students at the University of Ottawa while in church events or during an outing, and it always left him with a sense of joy and purpose when they took the time to chat briefly with him.

Roger was not a person who would like to participate in arguments that would lead to taking part with one side. His peacefulness in the midst of heated discussions brought the others to a level of reflection on the matter at hand rather than to rushed angry words and decisions.

In whatever he does, he makes sure he goes well prepared to deliver the best of what he does.

He taught us that if we fail or something goes wrong, we should adjust and keep going but never give up.

He is a loving and attentive dad who instilled in us the importance of seeking God and the responsibility of living His commandments in every way.

After multiple symptoms appearing randomly, Roger was diagnosed in 2013 with Scleroderma which is an incurable autoimmune disease. He met with the scleroderma society group in Ottawa who helped him tremendously with all resources and information to help him cope with this devastating disease that seems to affect patients differently. He battled through as usual with his brave quietness and perseverance offering his prayers and thanksgiving to the Lord with every new day. He was holding on, happy to be around his wife and family, and the support of many dear friends who have never forsaken us.

It is said that children are the best assurance of immortality, and so it is in this family where Roger lived in exemplary life giving the best of himself to his children. His lightheartedness, honesty and righteousness will forever inspire us.

Roger left us with a legacy of faith and love that will endure in our hearts forever.

Cher papa,

You are a man of few words. You speak with actions rather than words.

Mom, Emile, and I would be having a discussion and it would be typical of you to sit silently, watch, and listen from the Lazy-Boy chair. That chair is known to be yours in the house. But dad, you are not so lazy at all. While we would be discussing, I knew that you were listening effectively, which only a few people do, and that gave you a clear view into people’s hearts. For that reason, I would look forward to your advice and insight on the subject. Sometimes the wisest action is none at all.

Dad, your silence was full of answers.

Cher papa,

You are a man of simplicity. Your priorities are our family, our friends, and our success in life. With fewer distractions, you manage to focus on what you value most. With fewer distractions, your words are clear, wise, and persuasive.

Your serenity is also reflected in our home through your love for classical music. It creates tranquility and peace in our minds, in our hearts, and in our actions.

Dad, your simplicity is a strength. It is the ultimate form of sophistication.

Cher papa,

You are a caring teacher.

Not only are you a well- regarded scholar, but also a mentor at home, and for many in the community.

I recall many times, at the end of the night, when you’re just ready to go to bed, I would come to you for help with homework, and you would never fail to give me your full attention. In fact, I would hope that after a long day, you would quickly give me the solution. But every time I was mistaken, as you welcomed my questions with enthusiasm and urged me to sit with you at the kitchen table to review the problem in length.

I would always get heated and complain that It’s not the time to go through the textbook and notes at midnight, and I would storm off to my room. Despite my agitation, you would never lose patience or raise your voice. After calming down, I would go back downstairs and still find you at the table, reading my notes and ready to help.

In addition to enriching my academic learning, your teaching and your methodology gave me the confidence to resolve any problem in life.

Dad, your knowledge is a treasure.

Cher papa,

Dad, you are a man of few words, a man of simplicity, and a caring teacher.

We know that you are in peace because you always did your best, and now you need to rest.

Even if we cannot see you, your strength, love, and faith will live in us all forever.

Thank you for all that you have taught us, and we promise that your virtues will be a guide through our life. Your constant smile will always be engraved in our hearts.

Love,

Samar & Emile