Ruby Mae Barber

June 7, 1928September 17, 2011

Ruby Mae Barber was born June 7, 1928 in Texas to Ruby and Alex Miller who preceded her in death. She was the fourth of four children. Ruby received her education in Lockhart, Texas. She accepted Christ at an early age. Her greatest joy was watching her kids play sports, but what Ruby best enjoyed was enjoying her wrestling from her favorite chair. Ruby was called home on September 17, 2011. Her husband Tom Barber, daughter Doris Fagan, two sisters, Minnie Payne, Allie Davis and brother Pernice Miller preceded her in death. She leaves to celebrate her life, sons; Donald (Nancy) Barber, Tom Jr (Cathy), Dwight Barber of Oxnard, Douglas Barber of Los Angeles, CA, daughters; Delorma Atkins of Detroit, MI, Tammy (Odis) Perry of El Rio, CA, Thera (Robert) Wright of Los Angeles CA, Sheila (Mark) Plumeri of Chatsworth, CA, a host of grandchildren and great grandchildren, sister-in-law Ester Miller of Martinez, CA and a host of nieces, nephews, family and friends. Viewing will be held on Friday, September 23, 2011 from 3pm to 8pm. Memorial service will be Saturday September 24, 2011 at 11am at Funeraria Del Angel Conrad’s & James Reardon, 401 W. Channel Islands Blvd, Oxnard CA 93033, (805) 487-4911, graveside will follow at Conejo Mountain Memorial Park, 2052 Howard Road, Camarillo, CA.


  • Viewing Friday, September 23, 2011
  • Memorial Service Saturday, September 24, 2011
  • Graveside Saturday, September 24, 2011

Ruby Mae Barber

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October 17, 2011

even though its only been a month , it seems like an eternity . you are missed so much and i truly hurt and miss you and i hope one day i'll begin to adjust to this . its still so fresh and i miss your phone calls just checking up on me . mom , i know you're there with all the rest , but i know you guys are tearing it up like you did before . im so lucky to have the best angel on earth looking after me and the family . mom , i love you and will forever keep you in my heart , your son , don .

Brian Barber

October 4, 2011

Miss you Grandmama!

Gary Thomas

September 29, 2011

Tom Jr, So very sorry to hear of your recent loss. Your Mom was indeed very special. Gary Thomas (San Diego)

Joyce Ester

September 25, 2011

I worked with Tammy & Dwight at Ventura County Medical I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Andrew Winbush

September 24, 2011

Our condolence to the Barber Family

James (Jimmy) Fuhlrodt

September 24, 2011

I am sorry to hear about your loss, my prayers are with the entire family.....

Lena Arias

September 24, 2011

To the entire Barber family...I just wanted to let you know my thoughts and my prayers are with you and your family through this heartbreaking time. Nothing I can say will ease your pain but just wanted you to know I am thinking of you. Love to you and your family

Manny & Debi Godinez

September 24, 2011

Donald,Brian,Meme and Brandon and the rest of the Family, Our deepest sympathy, may God give you strength to get thru this sad time, but just know she is with her maker now, celebrate her life.

Carole Rotella

September 24, 2011

Dear Donald and Nancy .
I am sorry for your lose and know that you will grieve for her.Good news is she is free of pain, suffering and in the presence of the King of Kings,

Ronda Moss

September 23, 2011

To Donald and Family,
We are so very sorry for your lose. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
All our love
Ronda Moss and Family