OBITUARY

Stafford Wayne Ballard (Stan)

July 31, 1937January 12, 2013
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Stafford (Stan) Wayne Ballard was born on July 31, 1937, to the union of the late Ivan Ballard and Jessie Mae Richards in Lake Charles, La. He went home to be with the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on January 12, 2013.

Stan received his early education in Lake Charles, La., and in Los Angeles before entering the United States Army, where he served three years as a combat construction engineer.

Stan accepted Jesus Christ at the early age of eight years old, being baptized at Evergreen Baptist Church in Lake Charles, La. Upon relocating to Oxnard, Stan became a member and a Deacon at Evangelistic MBC, Port Hueneme, where he served as Chairman of the Deacon Board and Moderator of the Church. He served with great passion as a Bible teacher, Superintendent of Sunday School, New Member's instructor, and in many other leadership capacities, as well as a member of several choirs.

Stan's thirst for God's Word lead him to attend Channel Islands Bible College and Seminary, where he obtained a Bachelor's degree in Biblical Studies, a Master's degree in Ministry and became a Certified Spiritual Counselor. In 1995, Stan was joined in Holy Matrimony to Edie Koontz-Ballard, at which time they joined their families and enjoyed many years of love, laughter, sharing, genuine caring, and devotedness. Words from one of his daughters are as follows:

When I think of my father, Stan, the first word that comes to mind, FUN! I can't think of a time shared without his infectious laugh, great smile and his ability to light up a room with his one-of-a-kind humor. Even in his weakest moments throughout his illness and in great pain, he had the uncanny ability to say one word or make one gesture and bring everyone to hysterical laughter. Dad was my personal hero, always willing to listen with undivided attention as you poured out your heart and offering sound advice on any subject. His attributes were endless and I know that many of you that truly got to know him were blessed beyond measure.

He wholeheartedly accepted everyone on their own merits and shared mistakes of his past on similar subjects endlessly pouring his wisdom into each of his children. I know each one of us treasures something unique about his words and his ability to speak into our lives without making you feel inadequate. In fact, his ability to speak to anyone on any level is a true testament of his character. He came to know the word of the Lord so effortlessly he would just open up the Bible and there it was...his word backed up in scripture. Dad, I love you with all my heart and I will miss you forever, our long phone conversations during my morning or evening commutes to work and most importantly your fervent prayers.

Stan was an icon to all who had the pleasure of meeting him.

Stan was retired after 25 years from Hostess Cake-Wonder Bread, where he was employed as a manager and sales representative.

Stan leaves to cherish his memories: His devoted and loving wife, Edie Koontz-Ballard; mother, Maude Ballard; brothers: Dr. Lynn Simon (Gayle) of Baton Rouge, La., Mr. Leslie Simon of Washington D.C., Mr. Lloyd Simon of Baltimore, Md., and Dr. Jock Simon of Salisdury, Md.; sons, Curtis Ballard (Audrey) of Los Angeles, Wayne Roche ( Katrina) of Duarte; stepson, Darrell Koontz of Oxnard; daughters, Pam Carson (Michael, Sr.) of Long Beach, Rynell Ballard of Downey, Sonya Ede of Los Angeles; as well as grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and numerous other relatives and friends. Visitiation will be held Friday, January 18, from 3 to 8 p.m. in the chapel of Funeraria del Angel Conrad's & James Reardon.

A Funeral Service will be held Saturday, January 19, at 10 a.m. at Bethel AME Church, 855 South F street in Oxnard, pastor Torrence K. Nivens officiating. Burial will immediatley follow at Ivy Lawn Memorial Park, Ventura. Please visit our website at www.funerariadelangeloxnard.com, 487-4911.

Services

  • Visitation Friday, January 18, 2013
  • Funeral Service Saturday, January 19, 2013
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Stafford Wayne Ballard (Stan)

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Pamela Carson

February 12, 2013

Daddy,
On this day fifty-five years ago at 6:05pm you welcomed a 6lb 5oz little girl into the world; you named her Pam.I am so thankful God chose me to be your daughter, and you to be my father. You have made me so proud to be called a "Ballard".
It saddens me deeply to know, this will be the first of many I won't get to hear your voice or feel your embrace while wishing me a "Happy Birthday Babe".
I have been trying my best to be strong, but it hurts so much everyday just knowing I'll never see you again on this earth. I know you are in the arms of God, but I want you here with me. Daddy I LOVE YOU FOREVER, AND EVER, AND EVER.

Carmen & Demoni Johnson

January 28, 2013

Stan the man, and that he was. Such a wonderful GOD fearing man, who loved GOD his wife & family & his church which was his extended family, He treated everyone like family and showed love & conpassion to everyone he met. He had such enthusiasm for life and always displayed a wonderful warm smile, a man with a BIG heart. We will miss you so much. Love from DJ, CJ & the Johnson Children

Les Simon

January 27, 2013

"Dear Brother Stan,
God will continue to bless you for wrapping your arms, leadership, and love around our entire Family. Peace and love forever."

preston prothro

January 23, 2013

Eddy, I just heard about Stan. My prayers are with you. Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not heal. Preston

Julia Davis

January 20, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

January 19, 2013

stan i'm going to miss you! you were always so thoughtful always sharing thank you for letting me share ever a small part of your life more parents should be like you! farewell.To all the koontz ballard family and friends my prayers and condolences to you all! always in loving thoughts derek wilson

Martha V. Cameron Gilbert

January 19, 2013

Edie
My heart is sadden to hear of the passing of Stan what a wonderful and true friend he was to Allen and remained special to me even after Allen's death. We loved Stan always a big hug /smile and encouragement whenever I would run into him. . . he was always the same. . . there is no question I will always hold beautiful thoughts and memories of Stan. . .my heartfelt love and condolences to you Edie. . . always my friend. . . Velve

Torrence Nivens

January 19, 2013

Deacon Ballard was a wonderful husband, a wonderful father, a wondeful friend and an extraordinary man of God. He will be missed here on earth but he will be celebrated in God's Kingdom. We didn't have enough time to laugh, to pray, to serve and to cry together, but when the King of all Kings returns we shall spend all of eternity together. Rest my friend. Your work here has been completed. We will hold up the mantle from here on out. The greatest deacon we have ever known. Our prayers are with Sis. Ballard and the entire Ballard Family. Pastor Torrence and Minister Rebecca Nivens Of Evangelistic M.B.C

Curtis Carson, Sr.

January 19, 2013

Curtis Carson, Sr. and Family sends our love and prayers to the Ballard Family, of which, the two Families have been made one Family for more than 37 years through the marriage of Michael and Pamela. We thank God for having known Brother Ballard as our brother in Christ also.

jesse khati

January 19, 2013

our deepest condoleences we will miss him dearly god bless his soul