Stacy was a brief but good friend of mine, we shared a unique bond. We would talk for hours sometimes. I did move away and got caught up in my own life, but I will never forget the times we spent together. She was a one of a kind, the very special kind. I hope like heck she is happy as she moved on from this life. This life never seemed to return the goodness that she endlessly gave to it. RIP Stacy, you earned it.

THIS article featuring Stacey was instrumental in my journey into women's bodybuilding when I came across it at the age of 15. I could relate to it so perfectly and at 22, competed in my first contest.
For years I tried to find the magazine that changed my trajectory through life.
I turned 60 last August,  found and bought the vintage magazine with this precious article.
 I NEVER forgot you Stacey.

To the family of Stacey Bentley.  Stacey was a very kind, compassionate and caring person who became a friend and she had accomplished whatever she attempted.   I will always remember her kindness and love of her dogs.
Roberta Turner 

Stacy cared for my daughter Ellen that is on life support at home. Stacey was a very compassionate nurse and became our family friend. We are saddened about her passing. She will be missed.

Stacy was a true friend to me. We worked together and for a short period I was her roommate back in the day of the 80’s Venice Beach, & Gold, a Gym. When I first started going to Golds it was on 2nd St in Santa Monica. At that time there were only two women there Stacy Bentley & Lisa Lyons.  I Love You, Stacy 

Forever your Friend 
Laura

Dear Stacey,

As your birthday approaches, the void created by your loss is far and wide.  I will miss our annual catch up call.

I don't know your address in heaven, so I hope this gets to you...

You were my "bestest" friend.   No matter how long it was between visits or calls,  our bond was immediate and enduring.   

We grew up together giggling, dancing, swimming, and oft times struggling our way through sticky stuff.  When my Dad drove us to school, we rejoiced secretly whilst protesting that we did not have  "green hair".   

You always climbed higher than me and Beth when scaling trees in our neighborhood.   

You learned to do a backflip before either of us and your water skiing skills were excellent, especially  when riding by Camp Tecumseh.

We all struggled to pretend to be ballerinas and danced at the annual recital at the Academy of Music.  Perhaps that stage helped prepare you for your later appearance as a pioneer and legend in Women's Body Building!!    Bravo, Stace.

Remember when we got flour EVERYWHERE when we baked refrigerator cookies from scratch?  Your Mom wasn't happy but Rosie rescued us.

So you passed in your sleep with Gus by your side.  Not a bad way to go.  Tommy and Jamie held an amazing service for you and the chapel on the hill at St Davids was full.  

It was an AA format and so many people were able to share.  

I read from the "Language of Letting Go" which you sent me years ago.  All your scribbles, underlines, dog-eared pages seem to call to me daily as I read the reflections.

We all miss your Daily Reflections.  You touched so many for so long and in so many far corners of the world.    

Thank you.

You made a difference.

I love you, Stace.

Happy Birthday on Wednesday.

Leslie





We packed our trunks every summer and rode our way through horseshoes.   Remember when you fell off  Angus and he stepped on you?  We adapted to rhythm of bugle calls, inspection and campfires.



Hello. I am totally surprised and saddened to learn of Stacey's passing. We met on Nantucket Island in the mid 70's, remained friends for several years. I had the opportunity to visit her both in Venice and later on Narberth. I live in San Francisco.  Last I knew she married and moved to N Carolina.
My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. She was an earth angel.

My husband, Jeff, and I are in still in shock and struggling to process Stacey’s sudden death. Stacey was an important part of our family for the last 18 months.  She took Jeff to Surrey to exercise and have lunch twice a week on a regular basis.  She provided support and guidance for Jeff in the fitness room. Stacey was more than a caregiver to Jeff.  Stacey was our friend, confidant and bright light during a very challenging time for our family.  Stacey’s last day with us was on December 30. I gave her a gift before she left and she said “You already gave me a Christmas gift!”  Stacey was a very spiritual person and I thought she would like “I’ve Been Thinking…” by Maria Shriver.  She had told me that she knew Arnold and Maria “way back when...” She was happy to have Maria’s book. We hugged and cried when she left our apartment. Stacey sent me a long, very positive and supportive text around 4. I have re-read it often and tears start flowing.  Stacey was a very special part of our life. Stacey was a golden gift to us. I sent a long text reply to Stacey. I am keeping those texts on my phone. Stacey’s goodness, kindness and support will remain in my heart forever! Jeff and I are deeply saddened by Stacey’s sudden death.  We send our deepest condolences to her beloved family and friends. 
Carol Cancelmo Wortman


I was Stacys client when she passed. For the last 9 months she spent Wednesday afternoons assisting me with errands and chores, arranged through Surrey.                                                                            

I knew nothing about her background, but I did know she was one of the nicest, kindest dearest persons I'd ever known.

How wonderful that such an accomplished lady would spend time assisting the elderly. ..I'm 88, little children and the underprivileged. 

She will be missed by the many lives she touched.

Nancy Carter



Mary, Chuck and Jack. Thank you for your thoughts. I get very raw when I hear how much other people loved her... but it’s good. God bless. 

I have great memories of Stacey. She was a fighter and despite some of the problems she had she never gave up. She died happy, and sober. She had a quick and quiet passing with dignity. 
I am proud of her in every way. I am grateful and thankful that we had our sober time together. It was everything we wished and prayed for. 
I know that she would love everyone to know her successes. Please take the time to google her on the internet and see what this quiet sweet lady did in her life.  I’m proud of you sis.  Xo, Pie. 

Tom and family, I am still finding it hard to imagine our dear Stacey is gone. What a beautiful picture you’ve posted of a woman dedicated to her Program and to helping others. I think of her every time I go to Surrey...I used to see her coming into the fitness center with a client, guiding him through the exercise machines (and always reminding of a better way to do my free weights). Or I think of her when I drive past La MAISON apartments, remembering taking a few meals to her after her back surgery. Stacey was so transparent in sharing her ups and downs with us, and  we rejoiced that she was eventually free of her debilitating back pain.  May all of you feel the love she gave us and continues to give as she lives in our hearts. With love and prayers...Mary & Chuck

Stacey showed us all where courage to carry on can lead to a life of good works -- helping the elderly, extending kindness to the under privileged, counseling people in need and encouraging action to succeed in life. Her accomplishments were understated as she addressed the needs of those less fortunate.  I will miss her smile, her style and her winning ways.

OBITUARY

Stacey Logan Bentley

July 1, 1956 – January 3, 2020

Alleva Funeral Home, Inc.

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