Betty Jo Light

Born October 20, 1938, in Nebraska City, Betty Jo carried Nebraska in her heart throughout a life defined by steady faith, open handed generosity, and a kind, honest way of being that made others feel safe, seen, and truly loved. A resident of Lavista, Nebraska, she will be remembered for the warmth she gave so freely, the wisdom she offered so quietly, and the resilient spirit that helped her meet each season with grace and gratitude.

Betty Jo began her working life as a kindergarten teacher in Omaha, Nebraska—an early calling that reflected her compassionate nature and thoughtful attention to others. She had a gift for encouragement and a loyal steadiness that stayed with her in every role she took on, whether in her family, among friends, or in the wider community she supported with selfless care.

In February of 1980, she married the love of her life, Donald, and together they built a life that was both devoted and adventurous. Inseparable in the truest sense, they danced their way across the world—from Italy to Australia and other places in between—collecting memories with the same joy they brought to everyday life. They spent winters in Hawaii together and, with shared determination and pride, built a log cabin in Decatur, Nebraska. With their boat named “Betty Jo,” they embraced the simple, beautiful art of enjoying life—fulfilling dreams side by side with a faith-filled gratitude that never seemed to run dry.

Betty Jo’s interests were as lively as her spirit. She played piano and loved country line dancing, and she and Don brought people together through food and fellowship—running booths at carnivals selling burgers, hot dogs, pulled pork, and Don’s award-winning chili. Their catering business, “D’Lights D’Lights,” served everything from small events to large weddings, reflecting Betty Jo’s generous heart and her delight in making others feel cared for. She also took the Queen Elizabeth II, sailing from England to New York; when the ship pulled into harbor and she saw the Statue of Liberty, she put her hand on her heart and sang “God Bless America,” a moment that captured both her faithful patriotism and her sincere, heartfelt way of meeting the world.

She remained connected to education and community as an active member of Kappa Kappa Iota, an organization for educators and prospective educators devoted to networking, professional growth, and encouraging others. Betty Jo and Don also took pride in supporting local Veteran groups. They were proud members of The Forty and Eight and other Veterans clubs, honoring service with loyalty and respect.

For the last 26 years, Betty Jo and Don were lovingly nicknamed “The G Dogs” by granddaughters Traci and Justine—because they would sing “Who Let the Dogs Out” whenever the girls came to the house. And if they ever got separated in a store, or if they weren’t sure anyone was home, their cheerful call of “Woo hoo” was a signature of the joy they shared and the light they carried into ordinary moments.

Betty Jo loved bedazzles and sparkles, and that shine was more than style—it was a reflection of her spirit. She went to the Kentucky Derby and had a hat made with feathers and sparkles, and those who knew her best will remember that she was as sparkly on the outside as she was on the inside: beloved, kind-hearted, and quietly wise, with a selfless devotion that never asked for recognition.

Betty Jo was preceded in death by her loving husband, Donald Light; her parents, Jesse and Evelyn Parker; and her mother, Gladys. She is survived by her loving children, Terry Conyers (Tabitha), Larry Conyers (Susan), Kathy Mock (Tim Trudell), and Jesse Conyers (Michael); eight grandchildren; nine great-grandchildren; and many other loved ones.

Betty's Celebration of Life will be held on June 26, 2026, at 11:00 am. at Kahler Dolce Mortuary, 441 North Washington Street, Papillion, Nebraska 68046. The Committal Service will follow at Cedar Dale Cemetery in Papillion, Nebraska.

In celebrating Betty Jo’s life, those who loved her will remember a woman of faith and courage, tenderness and honesty—someone who gave generously, loved deeply, and met life with a bright, uplifting spirit that will not be forgotten.