

Born on December 6, 1941, raised in Pontotoc, Mississippi, Tom lived a life marked by hard work, creativity, service, and deep love for his family. Though our hearts grieve his passing, we rejoice in the assurance that he is now at peace and made whole in the presence of Jesus Christ.
Tom had a remarkable ability to build, fix, and create. As a student at Mississippi State University, he became the very first human mascot to portray Bully. Using a football helmet, chicken wire, and papier-mâché, he designed and built the original mascot head himself—creating a unique piece of Mississippi State history that reflected both his ingenuity and school spirit.
Following college, Tom enjoyed a successful career as an engineer with Shell Oil Company before retiring. His desire to serve his country led him to continue his career in the Army National Guard, where he faithfully served for 35 years.
He found joy in life’s simple pleasures. Whether he was working on his truck in the garage, carefully assembling model airplanes, or tending to his annual vegetable garden, Tom was happiest with a project in front of him. He loved working with his hands and took pride in doing things well.
More importantly, Tom faithfully served others. For many years, he welcomed worshippers each Sunday as a church greeter at Crossgates Baptist Church, faithfully serving at the crosswalk with a smile and a kind word. He also generously donated over eight gallons of blood through Mississippi Blood Services, giving the gift of life to countless people throughout the years. He was known for his quiet strength, gentle spirit, wisdom, perseverance, and unwavering love for his family. His steady presence and servant’s heart left a lasting impact on everyone who knew him.
Tom is survived by his wife Anita Lilly, his daughters, Candace Adams (Shane Adams) and Sarah Lilly; sister, Cheryl Simmons; sister in law, Jeanine Lilly; his beloved grandchildren, Lauren, Noah (Jayanna), Josh (Taylor), Morgan (Peter), and Hannah; his great-grandson, Jackson; and many cherished nieces, nephews, and great-nephews who will continue to honor his memory.
He was preceded in death by his father and mother, Thomas Jackson Lilly Jr. and Margaret Lilly; his brother, Houston Lilly; and his brother in law, Larry Simmons.
Visitation will be held from 11:00am until 1:00pm, Saturday, August 1, 2026, at Baldwin-Lee Funeral Home in Pearl. Celebration of Life Services will follow at 1:00pm.
While we will miss his presence deeply, we celebrate the legacy he leaves behind—a life of service, faithfulness, humility, and love. His hands built many things throughout his lifetime, but his greatest work was the lasting impact he made on the lives of those who knew and loved him.
“Well done, good and faithful servant.” — Matthew 25:23
Tom will be forever loved, forever remembered, and forever home with the Lord.
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