I just became aware of Eugene's passing.  I was ready to reach out to see how he was doing.  I'm so sad to learn that he has passed away.  My deepest condolences to his family.  Wendy KTA.

Ladies and gentlemen, family and friends…
Today we gather with heavy hearts to honor a man whose presence, friendship, and spirit touched my life in a way that words can barely contain. My best friend, my brother in every way that matters — Eugene Esene.
I met Eugene in 1982, and from that moment on, we were inseparable. We went to the same college, walked the same halls, chased the same dreams, and somehow always found ourselves side by side. We even ended up living in the same apartment complex, like it was all meant to be. Our friendship wasn’t something that faded with time — it grew deeper, stronger, and more meaningful with every year.
Life took us on similar journeys. We both got married, started families, and soon enough our kids were growing up together just like we did. And when our kids had kids, the celebrations didn’t stop — the birthdays, the holidays, the cookouts, the simple everyday moments. Eugene wasn’t just a friend; he was family. Our lives were woven together through decades of laughter, milestones, and memories that I will carry forever.
One of the most beautiful parts of our friendship was that, even though we followed different religions, it never separated us — it brought us even closer. We were both God-fearing men in our own ways, and every single day we talked about our Creator, about faith, about life, and about gratitude. Those conversations strengthened our bond. They reminded us that while our paths of worship were different, our hearts were united in the same belief in God. Our spiritual connection was one of the deepest parts of our friendship, and I will always cherish that.
In his final months, when he was fighting brain cancer with the same quiet courage he carried throughout his life, I was blessed to be able to be with him almost every day. Even in pain, he never lost his warmth, his humor, or his heart. He taught me what true strength looks like  not loud, not boastful, but calm, steady, and full of faith. I miss him everyda

Tribute to Uncle Eugene Esene

Today, I remember a truly kind and generous soul.
Twenty years ago, when I came to Houston to have my baby, you opened your home to me without hesitation. You made me feel safe, welcome, and deeply cared for during one of the most vulnerable and important seasons of my life. Your kindness was not just in words, but in your actions — in the comfort you provided, the support you gave, and the warmth you showed every single day.

You may not have realized how much that meant to me, but I have carried that gratitude in my heart for two decades. Your generosity became part of my story, part of my child’s story, and part of a chapter of my life I will never forget.

When my family and I later relocated to the United States, you continued to look out for us, sending job referrals and checking in to ensure we settled in well. We are extremely grateful for your constant thoughtfulness and care.

Thank you for your selflessness, your hospitality, and your beautiful heart. You were a blessing to us and your kindness will always be remembered.

May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace. You will never be forgotten dearest Uncle.

From,
Adeola Oke

As we celebrate the life of our Brother and Friend Eugene, there is one thing we all knew and remember about him. Eugene was a gentle, friendly, and a kind man full of humor, and he loved life. 
Personally, we shared a lot as young men. I remember    when we first met, and I being in Houston for the first time, he welcomed me with an opened heart and I joined a group of friends who loved Eugene dearly. Those fun times, the jokes, the laughter, the exchanges of ideas, and his greatest work ethics will forever remain in my memory. Although you're no longer with us physically, we will all remember you for all that you did and for all that you stood for. 
We thank God for his life and his gentle Soul. Rest in Eternity. To the family, may you find solace in the Lord during this trying time. 
Fare thee well Brother. You will be greatly missed.
Rest in eternity, Eugene. 🙏🙏
Sylvester (Shina) Fadojutimi

Eugene, you were not just a childhood friend, you were  family. We grew up in the same neighborhood with warmth and family ties.
You were one of those rare souls whose presence made life warmer, lighter, and better. Your kindness was natural, your smile was not only contagious but genuine, and your heart was always open and charismatic.
You had a way of showing up when it mattered most. Whether with a word of encouragement, a listening ear, or simply calm presence, you made everyone feel seen, valued, and cared for. At every occasion you could, you made people smile and laugh. You sure loved the Lord.
Some people pass through our lives quietly, and others leave footprints that can never be erased. Eugene a friend and brother so dear was that footprint. You shared about your family like your life depended on it.
You wanted to show your grandkids all the love that a grandpa could give. Your heart for all your kids bled with burning love. I remember you say, “I love my kids like  I love my life. Dupe you know nah, my blood flows in them.” Now you are up there looking over them with greater love and protection when needed
You will be remembered for your  laughter, charisma and joys that you brought to the world around you, your loyalty and most of all, how deeply you loved the people around you
Alhough we wish you had more time, we take comfort in knowing that your life mattered. 
As I made that last call to check on your progress with your health and you said, I will call you back, I was happy and said waoo his voice sounded really strong today. Little did I know that we were speaking for the last time and that you were set to go to the other side of heaven. 
Eugene, with a very heavy heart yet with deep gratitude to God the author and finisher of our faith I say like many others you will be greatly missed.
Thank you for stopping by us on this side of heaven.
Until we meet at the bossom of the Lord, 
rest on bro.
Sun re ooo!
Dr. Dupe Giwa Utsalo

Eugene……My friend, my brother, eniyan mi,… odìnma-ekolo gbęjá mi alàyín(our joke, when greeting😜).  My brother of more than forty plus years. Eugene, you were one of those rare souls whose love, smile, and spirit could disarm even the most stubborn person in the room — including me. Yet you claimed I got away with one unusual event which I do not remember 😜. Your presence was real, warm, and wonderfully infectious. Anyone who spent five minutes with you walked away feeling lighter.
Since your passing, I’ve had a lot of time to think about you and come to a conclusion that you are a perfect example of our Lord's injunction to love our neighbours as we love ourselves. Eugene you lived out God’s command to love our neighbors as ourselves. You didn’t preach it; you practiced it. Every day. Every season of our lives, from our childhood mischiefs to our adult responsibilities, you showed kindness, patience, and generosity like it was second nature.
We grew up together, worked, laughed, argued, forgave, and kept moving — together. Our families intertwined, and through it all, God used you to shape many lives in so many ways.  You had a way of showing up right when you’re  needed, sometimes with wisdom, sometimes with humor, and sometimes with that look that said, “My friend, FUN’M Bello….behave yourself.”😀
You were a team player, a peacemaker, and a problem solver — the kind of man who could calm a storm without raising his voice. And even though your departure has left us crushed and asking, “Why now?”, we hold onto the truth that God knows best. Who are we to question the One who sees the full picture?
Scripture reminds us:
“But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope.”
— 1 Thessalonians 4:13 (NKJV)
So yes, we grieve — but not like those without hope. Our hope is alive because we know where you are by God’s gr ace.
Rest well, my dear friend. 
Steve ‘Funbi’ Soyebo. (Pastor)

Today, we gather to celebrate the life of our beloved brother, EUGENE ESENE, a man who embodied the values of love, kindness, and faith. His passing leaves a void in our lives, but his legacy of compassion, generosity, and devotion to God will continue to inspire us.
Eugene was a man who truly loved life. He was a jovial soul, always spreading joy and warmth to those around him. Above all, he had a great reverence for God, and his faith was the foundation of his life. He would often go out of his way to help those in need, embodying the spirit of compassion and kindness.
One of the ways he demonstrated this was through his selfless work with a non-profit organization he founded, God’s Providence and Light Foundation, which provided foodstuff for several underprivileged persons in Nigeria monthly. This initiative, born out of his own heart, reflects the depth of his commitment to serving others.
Eugene was happiest when he was in church, singing the Lord's praises. His love for worship and his devotion to his faith will be remembered and cherished by all who knew him.
Professionally, Eugene was accomplished, having achieved the highest accreditation in avionics and aeronautic engineering. He received numerous other accolades and established himself as a leading expert in non-destructive testing. The highlight of his career was the incredible opportunity to work on the Richard Branson Space Shuttle  project that took place in California in 2023 –a testament to his dedication and expertise.
But above all, Eugene's greatest joy was his family. He is survived by three wonderful children and two grandchildren, who were the recipients of his boundless love and support.
As we say goodbye, we take comfort in knowing that Eugene is now with the Lord. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
Eugene, you may be gone, but your memory and legacy will live on in our hearts. Your love for life, your kindness, and your faith will continue to inspire us all. Rest in peace, my dear brother

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Eugene Akhuemokhan Esene

April 6, 1963 – February 10, 2026

Forest Park South Funeral Home

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