I miss Amy, I miss her smile, her humor, and her friendly kind nature!  I know there is no rhyme or reason why she was taken from her loving husband and children so young.  I know that she is watching down on them each and every day from Heaven.  I believe her strength is also with all of us.  She lived life to its fullest, and was one of the most genuine persons I have ever met.

Not a day goes by that I do not think of her and miss her!

On this anniversary I hope that some peace can be bestowed upon Brody and Cooper and Darby and that they can remember all the good times with her and know that she loved them all so fiercely!

I haven’t been able to find the words to write... Whenever I needed help finding the words, I would text Amy.  But now, I will need to find them on my own...  
She called me her unicorn, but she was the magical one...  she was the one that made everyone feel like they could do and be anything.  She saw glitter and rainbows in everything.
I will miss her sense of humor, positive attitude and smiling face. I will miss her...
She’s not crying, we’re crying.
#hmml #hmmw #hmmf 

I have known Amy, well, since as long as I can remember.  Our parents are best friends and our families vacationed together growing up.  Amy has always been like ray of sunshine.   She always had that beautiful smile, contagious laugh, positive outlook on everything and zest for life.  I admire that she continued to smile that beautiful smile and maintain such a positive attitude as she battled so hard.  This quote reminds me of Amy:  "There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains."  Amy's light will continue to shine on for a very long time.  It is very clear that she has left such a lasting impact on so many people.  And without a doubt, that light will shine on in Cooper and Darby.  

Keeping the entire family in my thoughts and prayers.

Sending love,
Jennifer (Debus) Hamers

I am so blessed to have known Amy for quite some time. We go way back as I was the neighborhood best friend of Kristy.....which meant I was friends with Amy. I will never forget growing up with Amy, dancing together on the dance team at Roseville High, watching her rap to Kid Rock at her wedding reception, meeting Cooper when she became a mom.  Amy truly lived and had a beautiful way of making others want to experience that level of life. Amy was fearless, bold, and demanded the most from everyday.  I am a better person today because of my many yesterdays spent with my friend. Amy, thank you for showing me how to be a fighter, how to be a warrior, and how to live.  Until we meet again....Love, Anna

I met Amy at Landmark.  She was this dynamic instructor who everyone seemed to love.  She had this energy and joy about her that was magnetic.  I knew I wanted to be her friend the first day I met her.  And I’m so thankful that she let me into her massively huge circle of friends.  

Amy always inspired and amazed me for more reasons than I could ever list.  I’m so honored to call her my friend.  My favorite memories with Amy were our runs on the Rock Island Trail.  Somehow the miles ticked by so quickly when we were talking each other’s ears off.  I don’t think one run passed that we didn’t both giggle and cry at some point.  Her love of life, her determination and optimism, her infectious smile, her fierce momma-ness, her compassion and empathy, her desire to help others.... the list is so long of things that I will miss about her.  She was and is so incredibly missed.  

I spent my growing up years trying to play with Kristy and Amy. They have been best friends for as long as I remember, and I was the little sister. As sisters do, we had our fun times, mixed with all the times I just wouldn’t leave them alone.

What you might not realize is, Amy and I cheated on Kristy, TWICE.

Amy and I had a semester in college where we  carpooled to OU, worked at Star Theatre, and played Volleyball together. We proudly told everyone the story of our cheating. I even met Brody in the early days of their dating. 

Years later, Amy and Brody moved to Michigan. Like a moth to a flame, I was drawn to spending time with Amy. I would hang out and play with Cooper, go to Book club, and generally just enjoy the time we spent together. Our second affair was as fun as the first. 

Amy and I have always been friends. I thank the heavens that Amy and Kristy found one another. Amy has been my sister’s best friend my whole life. She is my sister. And I love her.

My heart breaks at the loss of a treasured friend and coworker. I will forever remember when I first started working with Amy at Landmark Health Club in 2008 and I will also remember how she taught her classes as long as she possibly could, showing strength and courage and inspiring everyone she met.  Her passion, love and zest for helping others was such a gift.  She always had a way of making people feel special. 
Our friendship grew outside of work when she and Brody welcomed Tom and I into their world where we grew to love them and their family and friends. I know that God brings people into our lives for a reason and I can truly say that knowing Amy changed our lives for the better.  I pray that she knew how much we loved and adored her.  I know that I will never find another friendship like the the one I had with Amy. 
Amy, we love you deeply with all of our heart and soul. Thank you for the light that you brought to some many. You will never be forgotten.  xoxoxoxo

I first met Amy in a moms group here in Peoria. Unfortunately, Amy did not stay in the group and we lost touch. 
Campbell and I were visiting Bradley’s preschool program. Hey, I know that kid! Cooper was playing on the other side of the room. This got me thinking about Amy, but I had no idea how to contact her. 
I may have known she lived close to me, but I don’t remember running into her at the school playground or seeing her walking the neighborhood. For some reason though there was this part of my brain that remembered her. In 2010 Campbell started kindergarten at Charter Oak. I went to my 1st PTC meeting. I am a sit in the back and try not to be noticed kind of person. My introvert self was in full force in front of these moms who all knew each other.  And then there she was! The person I remembered was in the room. When she realized who I was and that my son was at Charter Oak it was like Mom’s Club was yesterday and we had never been apart. 
She taught me all there was to being a Charter Oak parent. Amy was part of a handful of moms, and Bill, who walked their kids to the drop off line. This was a highlight of each morning and I was thrilled to be included. She was involved and she got me involved. Her favorite was Grandparent’s Day. She ROCKED that event every year. Book Fair was another event where she shined. Amy’s Super Heroes theme was one of her best. She also knew how to hook someone into taking over. Amy had a way that made you forget you were even thinking no. Book Fair became mine. I took over School Store and once again Amy was there to help. That was the year I got to hang with pregnant Amy. It was truly magical.  
Our sons became friends and sleep overs and swim dates were a norm. With Amy it was breakfast dates, BNB, Brody’s gigs, Darby duty, or hanging on the deck.  Always fun and full of laughter!
I will cherish every memory of her and I am honored to be her friend. 





Like so many people, I met Amy at Landmark.  She taught a class called WERQ which is basically exercise/dance to pop, rock and hip hop music.  Boy, could she move and make flirty faces while teaching .  One of my favorite memories was during a cool down song, looking up and seeing Brody dancing with Darby.  It was so sweet!  Amy would always a make a person feel special.  Another time on my birthday she did her cool down to Bette Davis Eyes (my name is Bettie Davis)  Always thoughtful.  She was such a fighter and that smile always lit up any room she entered.  She will be so missed.  Sending thoughts and prayers to all her family and friends.


Share your memory. That's my written prompt.  Share.your.memory. The thing is, I have too many to share. How do I pick just one? How do I sum up my friendship with Amy in 200 words or less? I can't. I can't even begin to try. All I can say is I am BLESSED to have known her. She.was.the.best. She was Amy, through and through. Forever and always.
To the Poiriers and Bjornstads, my heart breaks for you. You are in my thoughts as often as Amy. Love to you all! xoxo 

Fire-starter.  Spitfire.  Full speed ahead.  Smiles and laughs.  Never wavering.  Those are forever stamped in my heart for you, Amy.    You are forever a real Wonder Woman in my mind.   Your strength and charisma are truly admirable and will continue to motivate and carry us all.  Rock on, sister. We'll hear you in the wind, see you in the rain, and feel your presence forever...  I truly thank you for being a wonderful human being.  We shall drink again... for now, we will do our best to keep on truckin' in the physical world... cheers (insert natty light cans clinking)

I met Amy at Landmark gym where for the fist few months I attended her classes, she called me by the wrong name. Randomly we decided to take a weekend trip to Chicago together to see Bens Fold and to run a mud obstacle race. As I jumped into her bright blue car, she mentioned the realization that we had A) never hung out outside of the gym and B) that she had been calling me by the wrong name for several months without correction. We laughed off both topics and it was always an inside joke. After our first getaway, we had many more fun times of running 5k's, a couple half marathons, lunch and gym dates, and random nights out. I will miss her joy for life, her genuine love for her family and friends, and her sarcasm. She impacted my life more than she will ever realize and I love her dearly. Fly high APB, until we meet again.  *Beer*

Amy was an amazing mom and friend to all. We will miss her so much! I loved getting to know her through our times at Charter Oak school. Our boys, cooper and Spencer, were good buds and we really cherish those memories of great elementary school days. Amy inspired and encouraged so many. Especially me. I miss her. Sending the biggest hugs and love to Brody, Cooper, and Darby. As well as Amy’s parents. We are praying for you! Love, the Raw family 

I first met Amy and Brody at Babies and Basketball. My husband, AJ, had tried his best to prepare me for the beautiful chaos that is the BNB experience, but I’m not sure anything could have. I waddled in the door, 6 months pregnant with a hostess gift in hand and ready for a “nice to meet you” handshake, but Amy would have nothing to do with these formalities. I just got SWEPT UP in the chaos – and like an amusement park ride, I wasn’t quite sure if it was fun or scary. There was this group of intelligent, funny, LOUD people drinking copious amounts of alcohol betting on everything that moved, and there were A LOT OF THEM. Every nook and cranny of that house was crammed with people who had come from near and far to celebrate; and their leader was Amy.

I was a bit intimidated by her at first. Here was this firey, red-headed, strong-willed woman who used a diction I wasn’t completely familiar with (amazeballs?????). At the time, I wasn’t quite sure I’d met anyone like her in my life, and now, a few years later, I am quite certain of it. Amy exudes energy and light. She’s confident in her own skin and the love of those around her. She’s beautiful and strong and loves hard and openly. She’s a cheerleader and a drill sergeant. And, she is just so OPEN – there is no pretense or pleasantries; Amy just loves from the heart and calls the situation like she sees it. She a connector -the proverbial glue of the group.

Over the last few years, I’ve learned to adore the BNB experience and understand why this tribe holds Amy up as their matriarch and leader. Amy and Brody have cultivated and curated a group of friends over the years that are simply good human beings. And, in their presence, we get to laugh, we get to think and we get to cry – and maybe we gamble and drink a bit too. And that’s a full day. That’s a heck of a day.

Love to you Bjornstads.

To Brody:  You have lost the love of your life.  I pray that your inner strength with sustain you and give you the courage to face each new day.  Much PEACE my friend and remember, Love Does Live On…
To Cooper and Darby:  Each of you possesses her spirit.  As you travel through life, her absence will at times make you feel uncertain.  That’s OK and to be expected, but when you both feel that, remember the unconditional love she had for you both and it is my HOPE that you will be comforted.  You are her legacies; make her proud…
To Mr. & Mrs. Poirier:  Thank you for sharing the gift of your amazing daughter with us.  As parents, you have been faced with the most difficult experience:  the death of your child.  There are no adequate words that will lessen your pain, however please know that you are loved and it has been my honor that our paths crossed and that I always looked forward to your school visits at Thanksgiving and your return in the spring.  My deepest sympathies to you both…


“The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell.”
Amy sent this message to me at 10:37 a.m. on December 10, 2013.  Twenty-four hours earlier, my life and career were drastically altered.
In August 2008 I had the opportunity to meet the young, vibrant Amy Bjornstad.  Her son Cooper was starting Kindergarten at Charter Oak Primary School where I served as the school’s principal and I vividly remember thinking to myself… Wow, now there is one lady who has it all together:  determined, attractive, passionate, and has an incredible love for her little boy.  Little did I know that day, that I would become more than just her son’s principal, but one of her many friends.
As soon as Amy heard of my departure from Charter Oak Primary School, she went into full action.  Like an engine at full throttle, she organized the troops and the “Wetterauer Warriors” were prepared for battle.  Later that afternoon, Amy sent me the shirt layout via email.  I remember pulling off to the side of the road to read her email.  I contacted her and after giving my approval, I started sobbing as I tried to tell her how much I appreciated her efforts.  Our conversation and her email gave me the HOPE to get back up after falling.  At my lowest point, she knew what I needed, and I remember telling her that I now know how George Bailey felt at the end of “It’s a Wonderful Life”.  I was George Bailey; Amy was Clarence.  
And to think, she did not need to do any of this because Cooper was in fifth grade when this happened.  In the face of adversity, Amy stretched out her hand to help me from the raging waters.  Not because she had too, but because she wanted too.  Can one receive a better gift than this?  
For those that loved and admired her, our lives are forever changed and the world is a bit dimmer without her presence…


Love to the moon and back! We all do. With Anthony Oedewaldt, LaRynn, and Tanner Hall

What a beautiful soul! Although I did not have the pleasure of knowing her as well as I would have liked, I knew as soon as I met her what a special and wonderful person she was. I am thinking and praying for her family and friends daily. 

God gained the coolest warrior angel 😇😎! You were such a blessing to so many people. You had powerful energy that was magical. 🌟Thank you Amy for being my superhero. 💪🏻💥 I love you and until we meet again my beautiful friend. 😘✌🏻💜🙏🏻  

I would also like to thank her soulmate Brody. Thank you for always taking care of Amy with so much love and patience. We couldn’t of hand picked a better person for her. 

Brody, Cooper, Darby, Karyl, Phil and Tony we love you and may you find peace knowing Amy is in peace and free. We are always here for you all of you!
Love, 
Danielle, Dave, Olivia & Molly xoxo
Cheers 🍻 #hmml #amysarmy #always

Always encouraging. Always real. Always Amy. 

So many words and emotions come to play when thinking about Amy. 

Who was Amy? 

A wife and mother: Brody, you were her rock. She always bragged about how wonderful you are. Cooper and Darby, you were the center of her world. She loved you with all her heart and more. 

A Fitness Instructor: Amy kicked everyone's butt on a regular basis and was proud of it! She pushed people to come to the gym... and wasn't afraid to throw a little guilt out there once in awhile. She made a fitness class into a party, a family affair and just an overall good time. And remember the butt kicking? That too. 

A Friend: Amy made everyone feel important. Personally, she encouraged me to be more outgoing. Road trips, craft nights, adventures, dates, conversations...we did so much and had plans to do even more. When we were together the conversations we had... meant the world to me. You mean the world to me. But what's even better-- you were a friend to so many people. I am forever grateful to you for bringing me into your circle and making me feel like a part of your family. 

Always Amy. 



As I think back on some of the fondest memories of Amy, I have to laugh... because a great many of them involved beer.  Not all, of course.  We had great times coaching soccer and baseball with our boys, Brody & I laughing at she and Meg crying over some bonding moment, etc., but man are those beer memories fantastic!  

Introducing Amy to Beerfest proved to be unforgettable.  My brother & I had planned on showing Amy & Brody how to drink quality beer, and she walked around the Expo Gardens looking for the Natty Light tent.  Then, as Meg was driving the four of us home (completely blasted), we halted the van to run into a random garage party and crash their game of beer pong.  It was the introduction to a yearly tradition everyone enjoyed.

But the best times were those more “laid back”.  Like the time Amy & Brody were going to drop Coop off for a tent sleepover and then somehow, we sat out by the fire until 2 AM, telling potty mouth stories, and finished a case of Coors.  Or the late nights playing Rock Band where Brody would have his geetar skills on full display and I’d try to hit all of Jon’s high notes in “Livin’ On A Prayer”.

You were so loved, lady.  The outpouring from everyone is such an amazing tribute to the legacy you leave.  Not a dry eye exists, but everyone laughs and smiles as they remember you.  Now that’s as good as it gets.

And Brody, there are few men I admire as much as you, man.  I can’t even imagine what you’ve been through, and the poise, patience, and steadfastness you’ve shown is a testament to being a true man.  We’re praying for you and the kids.  We love you guys like crazy, and I hope when you come down to AZ for spring break, you guys can swing by some night so we can sit out by the pool, stare at the stars, kill a case of something better than Coors, and relive stories of an amazing woman.

My memories of Amy go back to whatever year she and Kristy were 8 years old. Those two girls bonded and never looked back. Jannis was the little sister (and never really lost that designation), while Tony & Brian just put up with the girls. The love that existed within this small circle of children was obvious, and never wavered through elementary, junior high, high school, college, and on into adulthood. Phil, Karyl, Hank, and I watched our children blossom into amazing people. Amy was the lead - she glowed with life and love, and wasn't afraid to show it. Our families were close, and parenting sometimes included all 5 kids - from whichever parent was available at the time. 
As we all know, Amy continued to share her vitality for life, liberally sprinkled with lots of love, to each and every person she met. With Brody at her side, there was nothing that could ever stop the generous love Amy had to give, both to her beautiful family, and all of her friends.
Amy, my love -  daughter of our hearts, you will forever be celebrated for the woman you were. We will love you forever.
Hank & Sharon Litz

There are no words to express our feelings and love for the Poirier and Bjornstad families.
Amy has brought so much love and laughter to so many people. Wishing Brody, Cooper, Darby, Karyl, Phil and Tony peace, courage and comfort for the days ahead. I haven't been able to get the song, "I hope you dance", out of my head. I guess all we can say is Amy Poirier Bjornstad, "you owned it!"
Love you❤️
Jerri & Dan Debus

We met when we were neighbors in Peoria, before they were married. I will never forget when I first noticed her, doing a slow walk around the neighborhood, dressed in big baggy sweatpants & a hoodie. Around and around the hood she went, day after day, week after week, month after month, until soon enough, that slow walk had become a fast run. Baggy sweatpants & hoodie soon was replaced with the work out wear & bandana she wears so well. I was intrigued by this strong, ambitious, beautiful woman & just had to meet her. I saw her running one day & when I knew she was at the end of her run, I conveniently went out to do some "yard-work" & introduced myself. She was exactly like the person I envisioned her to be & more. Full of energy, laughter & love, oh so much love. 
Over the years we became friends & I have had the honor of photographing little bits of their lives, wonderful memories made each & every time. She loves her friends true & hard & she was such a support to me & my work. After every session with them I left with a full heart, seeing the love & bond they have for one another is truly a gift they have given me. 
My dear Amy, you fought long, you fought hard. I love you & yours so much! Thank you for your gift of friendship, support & love. You will always be my HERO!  

~Tonya or as she always called me, "Jibbs" 



I have shared my thoughts and memories of Amy, but I would be doing a disservice to good men around the world if I did not talk about her partner in crime, her biggest supporter and the love of her life, Brody - affectionately known as #myBroheim to her. 

Amy was Amy before Brody, but Brody lifted her up and let her shine. As long as I have known them, he has been her biggest fan, and his love for her has always been evident. 

Over the years, Brody has endured what no husband or partner should have to endure. He saw Amy when she wasn't funny, or smiling, or optimistic or bubbly. He saw her when she cried because of the pain, or the exhaustion, or just the incredibly harsh realities of cancer. He took over her half of the partnership when she wasn't able to parent, or cook, or clean, or run errands. They were partners - but he let her take center stage - always. But he was always there making sure everything was OK - quietly and with his dry, as-inappropriate-as-his-wife's humor. 

I cannot think of a better match for Amy than Brody - and he needs to be recognized for the hero he is and the labor of love he has given his life to for so many years. What I know about Brody is he truly cares. He cares how you're feeling; he cares how your kids are. He was a source of strength for me when my son was going through some hard times. He ALWAYS asks how he - how both of them - are doing. He offers advice and help if I need it. I have always known that if I ever needed ANYTHING, I could call Brody. 

My heart shatters at his loss, but if anyone can somehow put together a new normal at some point, it will be him. He will need help - and I promise to be there for him as he has been for me - quietly, with inappropriate humor, and lots and lots of love. I'm so sorry, Brody. Know you are loved and will not be alone as you learn to navigate this life without your beloved Amy. xoxo


I loved Amy. I was also envious of her. Not jealous; envious. There's a difference. 

I envied her personality - bright, effervescent - she was like when you pour a soda and go to drink it and the bubbles tickle your nose. That was Amy. 

She was funny - no, not just funny - she was clever - and it was an intelligent, unique kind of clever, the kind where you make up words like "amazeballs" and "lady boner" and "totes adorbs" - words that if I used them would make me sound like some old lame 50-year old trying to be cool. With Amy, it was ALWAYS cool.  

People wanted to BE with Amy. They wanted to be friends with Amy.  When you were with her, she made you feel like you were her best friend - even if you knew you weren't because she had this incredible, lifelong, special circle of besties that no one could touch - yet her circle was so freaking wide that you always felt like you were spinning in it with her. 

Amy felt to her core. (That's what she said.) Sorry, I couldn't resist. But she did - she felt SO deeply, SO passionately. She cried when I talked about my son's problems. She cried when I rejoiced about his accomplishments. She cried because I was happy. She cried because I was sad. She cried at TV shows. Books. Commercials. Things that made her grateful. And she was so, so, so incredibly grateful. 

Amy made flaws, faults and idiosyncrasies seem like just quirky attributes that made you love her even more. Like always being late. (Real time vs. Amy time). Forgetfulness. Her self-professed lack of administrative abilities and organization. Heck, when her daughter was a baby, she took bets on how long she'd go without a shower. Girl wasn't proud - girl was real. 

Amy, thank you for letting me be your friend. Thank you for the impact you made on my - and my kids' lives. I will take a part of you with me wherever I go - and always hope that someday, I too can be what my kids called "the cool Amy." xoxo


11+ years ago, I’m sitting in Morgan’s Nursery School Orientation. After we’re done and the kids get to play, I look over and see none other than Amy Poirier. The same Amy who blasted Color Me Badd on our way to Dairy Queen, the same Amy who’s calves I envied, the same Amy who treated everyone she knew with respect and the same Amy who swore she marry Michael Jordon. Only she wasn’t just Amy Poirier, she was Amy Poirier Bjornstad. I’m so thankful for that time to reconnect. Our quirky kids got to hang out and I got to soak up more of your amazingness. 

Let me just say, we all know that Brody is WAY BETTER than Michael Jordon! Brody, you are the epitome of a partner. THANK YOU from each and every one of us who love and care about Amy. You’ve given your strength, patience and love, even though it’s “expected” not everyone can say they’ve had a rock as awesome as you to lean on.

Amy, I hope you feel our prayers, I hope you feel our love. This world has been so much better with you in it. I’m putting it out here that I think heaven will be so much better with you there, too. I’m hoping for another reconnection with you because you are just the absolute best.  xoxo

There are no words to ease the loss of a loved one. It's obvious that Amy Poirier Bjornstad touched each life she came in contact with and we are fortunate to have known her. Wow, what a woman! She will truly be missed but she earned her rest. 

To Brody, Cooper, Darby, Phil, Karyl, Tony, Kristy Litz and all those close to her - all of us who loved Amy are behind you. I pray for rest in knowing she is not suffering, peace in knowing she fought with strength and courage, love in knowing she loved you to pieces, comfort in knowing you were there for her and joy in knowing you brought her just as much happiness as she brought you. She couldn't have been more proud to be your wife, mom, daughter, bestie, cousin and/or friend. 

Ours hearts are breaking with you.👼 💔

Amy, I met you through our good friend Leigh and have always had a blast when hanging with you. From the best girl's float trip ever! (I don't think I stopped laughing the whole weekend.) To one hell of a good time in Nashville. And don't forget that one time we kissed for Kid Rock! 
You are amazing. You are a fighter. You are a hero. You are a warrior. You are a survivor.
 ❤Much love my friend.❤

The first time I met Amy was at Brablec's Poms tryouts for the 88'-89' school year. She was an incoming Freshman, and I was a Sophomore (soon to be a Junior). She stood out immediately to me, not because of her dancing , but, for her extremely, dry sense of humor. After learning the tryout dance, some of the younger gals felt like they needed some extra help. Amy wasted no time. The next thing I knew, we were in my living room, going over every 8-count, one by one! Amy wasn't leaving until she had it down perfectly. And, let's be honest, doing a routine to Debbie Gibson's, 'Electric Youth' was no small feat! 😄 We bonded immediately, and, of course, Amy nailed it, and made the team. The two years I got to spend with her on the dance team, were 'amazeballs.' She had me in hysterics, all the time, but she also made me feel good about myself. I was the chubby girl on the team, and Amy always made a point to tell me, how my routines, 'were the bomb' and how 'damn sexy' I was. 😂 She didn't have to do that, but she always did, and I will never forget how SHE made me feel. In fact...I knew we would be lifetime friends. 
For the last ten years, we became very close again though email, text, and social media. It was like no time had passed. She really helped me get through my son, Chase's, Autism diagnosis. I was lost and broken-hearted, and she was like my information booth. Her knowledge and support helped me become the Warrior Mom I am today. Amy made every, single person she met feel like her best friend. Her clever, witty 'Amyisms,' as I liked to call them, her fierce love for Brody, Cooper and Darby, and, her loyalty were just a few, of the huge list of things, I loved so much about her.         Amy was the picture of strength, courage, dignity and grace, and, I feel so lucky to have called her, my friend. What a gift...I will miss her terribly. 
Sending all my love to Brody, Cooper, Darby, Mr. & Mrs. P, and Tony. 
I love you, Amy ❤️ ~Bina (Ernest)

The love that one person has shown to so many is overwhelming.  I hope the Poirer/Bjornstad family is able to find some comfort in all of this. I will always be thankful that I was able to walk beside Amy in her journey of life. I know she is at peace. 
"A single lighted candle, can light a thousand other candles."  She gave us that gift.❤

Class act, beautiful and a woman who makes you wanna be a better you .. 
 “Amazballs”  ...I thank Facebook for allowing me to always be able to read Amy’s daily Darby stories , and showing all her Momma love /proudness of her baby boy Cooper,  and of course her unbelievable  motivational stories & laughs .
 She always made me smile when she would reach out just to say Hi and even a few times tell me she thinks of me and remembers special (hard) times in high school , her heart was unbelievable and huge. 
Amy was my High school neighbor who always looked out for the younger one . She wore #23 like no over , She was one of the loudest at pep assembly’s , 
and watching her throw down at Gus Mackers was always great!! We all Loved watching her play against good friends Dave (bud ) and frank (C) just to name a few . 
I know there’s basketball in heaven and she is slaying it !    Saying lots of prayers of strength for her true  love Brody (your loved for her shined)  and two beautiful children  Cooper  & Darby. I’m sure you both are a BIG part of her , for that alone you will get thru this just like she would want. Always be you , And Never give up! Wishing  that both of you always feel loved and extra special to have had one of the BEST moms in this universe . I’m also Praying for comfort for her  family and close friends.  She leaves behind one heck of a legacy in her short life . Amy ThanK You for making this world a better place . Melissa (Phillips) 

Hello my name is Sharon O'Grady. Amy and I were BFFs in high school we were basketball buddies we went all over the place together and had a great friendship I'm sad that we did not stay in touch. She was a great friend who had a never-ending smile and will be very missed! My prayers go out to her family!

One of my first memories was when we shared  Christmas with the family at Karyl & Phil's home. Amy was in high school and being admired by our daughter, Jenne (then 4 years old.) They were in Amy's room which was full of Michael Jordan posters, basketballs and many, many clothes. They were in that room a long, long time and as a mom would, I went to check on them. The door was locked! I knocked on the door and asked if they were okay and Amy's voice came out loudly, "we're okay Aunt Pam" and right after that I heard Jenne, "we're okay Mom", then lots of giggles! I left and went back downstairs even though my "mom senses" were still very much on alert. I mean, a 4 year old and Amy alone together, what could happen...right?  In that night, we enjoyed a Shania Twain concert.  Note: Shania herself was not present but, Amy and Jenne were both in Shania Twain attire  and sang "Any Man of Mine" to the top of their lungs. We had basketball games  on the stairs, food everywhere, it was just so wild and crazy. Somewhere in this time frame I was trying to get Jenne to calm down as she was really feeding off all this energy. Amy looked at me and said in a very calm voice, "Aunt Pam, just relax, I am going to take care of her (Jenne.) She is just fine, don't worry about a thing!" Little did I know that was the beginning of a very beautiful relationship. I have to say that at that time, "relaxed" was not how I felt about the two of them being so crazy. However, over the years, I have come to believe and am assured that Jenne was in the best hands and Amy watched over her like a fierce older sister.   The other story I could share is one of the "Barn Parties" but, I will just leave a picture and let your minds have fun with this one. Those of you who know Amy can fill in the blanks. To Karly, Phil, Brody, Cooper & Darby, Amy was GREAT beyond measure and we will never, ever forget her love, smile and infectious personality. Our prayers are with you all. Love, Pam

I’ve been addicted to reading the amazing Facebook posts about Amy for the past couple of days and have struggled to put into words what she meant to me and why I loved her so much.  This is what I’ve finally boiled it down to: Amy made me feel like I was special and loved.

It’s clear that she made literally hundreds of others feel the same.  That’s an incredible legacy to leave on this planet.  

To Brody, Coop, Darby, Karyl, Phil, Tony, Klitz: Amy created this army of love because she knew we’d be needed to lift you up and comfort you and grieve with you.  We are here.  We are armed with hugs and tears and listening ears and anything else we can provide to help you mourn but still remember and cherish the beauty of APB.  Thank you for creating and sharing her with us.

💔 My heart breaks for this family. Wishing Brody, Cooper,and Darby peace and love. You’re wife and mom was awesome. Rest In Peace Amy. God Bless.

Just sending my love and condolences to the entire family and all who love this amazing girl.  I met her in 1987.  She was a sweet, friendly, loving girl.  She grew and I had a child.  She was his babysitter for a few years in high school, splitting duties with Kristy.  Her parents are dear friends for many years.  My heart is heavy.  She was born to make an impact and leave her mark on anyone she met.  God sent us an angel and took her back way to early.  

Sometimes people cross your path briefly, but leave a big shining hilarious beautiful amazing kind and inspiring impression.   You battled so much longer than most of us could have.  

I got to know Amy through our Charter Oak Wetterauer Warriors.   We worked on the same goal, and I had the privilege of being on several FB messenger group threads with her.  This girl CRACKED ME UP.  She was freaking hilarious, always spot on with her assessments of the evil in the world.  And not just funny...she was SMART,  witty, with a spectacular vocabulary.  So many of her posts made me laugh out loud, cry, or yell “YES “.  I was wowed by how much she loved her kids, her truly epic love story with Brody, and how genuinely she loved everyone.  I’d describe her as a super cool, beautiful, fun, modern day hippie.  Her all accepting, inclusive love was contagious.  She made everyone in her life feel that they were perfectly beautiful and strong.  She fought with such grace and positivity that I’m not sure I even realized how bad the cancer had gotten.  Because she remained so funny and positive through every step, and lifted others up along the way.   She is a roaring example of how to battle cancer, how to live life the right way.   I didn’t get to spend a lot of in person time with her....and yet all these words were in my heart...?   THAT’s ’s impact.   Her spirit lives on.   Love and prayers and positive vibes to her family and close friends.

The world has truly lost an amazing person.  For anybody who had the privilege of meeting my cousin Amy Poirier Bjornstad even if it was only once I can guarantee you she left a lasting impression. Her spirit for life was infectious and she left an imprint on everyone she came in contact with. Amy was the strongest, bravest, most determined, strong-willed, caring, fun loving, and most positive person I have ever known. No matter what Amy was going through in her life she would always put others first and always have a smile on her face....From being a shoulder for me to cry on when my grandfather (her grandfathers identical twin brother) passed away, giving me my family nickname of “ A.J.” (AMY junior), Sneaking me my first alcoholic drink in a Diet Coke can at a family reunion, teaching me what March madness was all about, bringing me to a package store in Detroit  dressed in a bridesmaid dress and her in her wedding gown, giving one of the most hands down memorable speeches at my wedding, helping everyone discover DeAngelis family rules golf, battling cancer twice and beating all of the odds, and never passing up an opportunity to live life to its fullest; Amy was one of a kind and truly my hero!!!! She was the friend everyone wanted, the mother everyone hopes to be, the wife that every husband would love, the daughter that any parent would be proud of, and one of the most badass women to ever walk this earth!!! AMY I love you so much and I was so blessed to not only have you as my cousin and the the closest thing I will ever have to a big sister, but my real life hero.  Try to keep all of our crazy family members in line up there !!!! Love you and miss you already !!! Rest In Peace AMY you more than deserve it!!!!❤️❤️💔💔

What can I say about Amy that hasn’t been said already?  Nothing. She was one in a million. Her laugh was infectious and her smile was always genuine. It’s been so long since I’ve seen her. Our Bravo days are long gone, but, it was a time I’ll never forget!!  We had a lot of laughs in that place. I’m so lucky to have known you Amy!!  I thank God that there are people like her in the world!!  She was such an inspiration to me even before I had my own breast cancer diagnosis. She was amazeballs and fought long and hard trying to slay that dragon. Unfortunately even the fiercest of warriors get tired. Rest In Peace and know that  you are so loved by so many!!  I will miss your posts which always brought a smile to my face. I will forever think of you when I see any humorous Harry Potter posts, a well placed that’s what she said, and I will dedicate all future workouts to you. I am a better person for having known her. I wish there were words that would take some of the pain away from her family and friends. I will pray for all because it’s the only thing I can do. Until we meet again fly high. 

"Who is the perky mom who comes to school wearing spandex and eating fruit?"  That was my first reaction to seeing her at Charter Oak School.  I have to admit that I was slightly intimidated by her confidence, not to mention her physique.  But, eventually she made her way to the office and introduced herself and I realized that she was pretty awesome.  She was an inspiration to me.   Not because she fought cancer, but because she lived her life joyously.  When I look back on the photos she shared over the years on Facebook, there are so many people smiling.  But, no one smiled like her.  She could light up a room, and her spirit was infectious.  It is my joy to say that I knew her.
My wish for you and for your family, is peace.

Whatever I write in this post won’t be enough to express what it felt like to have Amy Poirier Bjornstad as my friend.  I immediately wanted to be her friend when I first saw her in RIPPED class. Everyone was her friend. I feel lucky that I had this amazing woman as my friend.

I feel she made this world brighter with her presence. Amy was one of my favorite people to share my good news with.  She always experienced “great joy” when one of her tribe would tell her about their exciting news. She was compassionate and understanding when a member of her tribe was experiencing something that wasn’t all that great. 

One of my favorite things in life was spending time with Amy.  I loved being around her. I miss her so much. She will forever be in my heart! I love you Amy! RIP

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I’m at peace that you’re not in pain anymore. You are whole again and I’m sure was welcomed into heaven by Papa Dickie and my dad. I know that we had different views about religion, but you never once questioned my faith or tried to make me think otherwise. So for me I find comfort in believing that you’re in heaven reunited with all that you loved and passed before you and you’re flying again, happy and free. 

I miss you already, but I will relish in looking at our pictures and all the fun we’ve had for the last 19 plus years. I am who I am, because you’ve been a part of my life for so long. I’m a better person, because of you. I will look back on our FB relationship and read and reread all the times you tagged me or I tagged you. These memories...you...are in my heart, forever and Always. 

Love, Always your Margarita

Please keep Amy’s family and friends in your prayers. I love them all so much. 💜

#always #hmml #hmmw #hmmf #AmysArmy #cancersucks



Part 1 of 2
Where do I begin. Amy has been one of my best friends for over 19 years. When Brody first introduced us to her through an email and he described her as this cool chick that likes to watch football and drink beer at a bar & grill all day on Football Sunday’s...I thought this chick is the perfect girl for Brody! I was Team Amy from the get go. So Brody thank you for bringing this amazing woman into my life. When she arrived in STL to celebrate New Years Eve of the in coming year of 1999 she was a tad tipsy, (use to not be a fan of flying)...this was the first time I got to meet her. She was Amy in all her glory and I fell in love with her instantly. It was magical...she is magical. So full of life and love for it and all who knew her. She honestly is amazing. So caring and selfless...always reaching out to friends and family to build them up. She defended her tribe to the max and always gave 110%. There is so much I’m going to miss. 

I’m going to miss your laughter, your hugs, I’m going to miss reading your post..you have such a way with words. Again just magical. I’m gonna miss texting each other about over packing for trips and you always informing me that it’s double star day at Starbucks! For always pushing me and giving me the perfect words when I needed them. I’m gonna miss how you loved my kids and oh how they love you. Their beloved Auntie Amy...they’re heartbroken and worried about their cousin’s, Cooper and Darby, but I assured them that we will be there..we will be there to help with whatever is needed..we will continue to watch them grow and be a part of their lives. Cooper will make you so proud and little Darby is definitely Amy #2...she is here for a reason and will continue on your legacy..I’m convinced she will do great things. 


Life should be lived as you lived yours.  My life is changed because of you.  Have fun with my bestie up there, you are both going to light up the sky.  #teamjill  #amysarmy

    Amy has held many roles in my life. When I was really little she was the cousin I knew my sister Courtney wanted to be just like and so to me she was the coolest person around, this thought has never changed. Amy taught us how to have fun, enjoy life, and be see the positive in every situation. 
    Then when I was 10 my Gramps passed away. It was at the gathering after the wake and funeral that Amy took myself, my sister and other cousins out on the hill at my grandparent’s house and taught us “the spoon game”. She became my break from a very sad and trying time. 
     She then became someone who I could confide in and go to when I first got sick about 10 years ago. Amy was one of the first people I felt comfortable talking to because she understood what it felt like to be sick but not wanting to be known as the “sick friend/family member” to still want to be just regular ol’Cara and still have fun and Do life. When I was able to make it to a family wedding in Florida right after a hospital stay Amy helped me out of bed to go enjoy the time with all of our cousins. That night is filled with memories I will have forever and that Amy helped me be a part of and not miss out on. It was also that night that she let me sleep at the foot of her bed because Courtney and my hotel room was destroyed. Amy gave me and will always continue to give me strength and motivation! 
      She would remind me it was okay to be scared, nervous, confused and even mad. She told me to give myself time to feel all of those things and then make a plan and put it into action.  Anytime I have to do something or go though something I say What Would Amy Do, and the answer is always “Amy would fight”.  
      There will never be anyone who encompassed all the words: wife, mother, daughter, sister, cousin, warrior, survivor, hero, niece, granddaughter, friend all completely whole-heartedly as Amy did and her light will shine through each person she had an impact on. WE LOVE YOU FOREVER AMY

Amy always made me smile.  Her sense of humor was so like mine that sometimes we would make the same joke almost at the same time.  She was so much fun to hang out with.  We went to the movies and drank wine out of tiny bottles and I watched her eat more popcorn than a woman her size should have been able to.  We both have boys with Aspergers and we could always get what the other was going through with them.  I promised her a long time ago that I would always watch out for Coop in school.  At the RHS girls championship basketball game we text back and forth the whole time while I reported back to her on how great he was doing and how proud of him we both were that he went to that game.  I will continue to watch out for that boy Amy as long as I can..I promise you this.  I love you lady.. you made my life so happy and I will miss you terribly.  

Death is but just a goodbye for now and a see you somewhere beautiful in the future. May your physical pain be lost and the pain of those who loved you be short. We are all better people because we knew you Amy Poirier Bjornstad. You are such a beautiful soul.  I but can only hope that one day when I see you again you are rocking an amazing playlist spinning in the clouds. You will be so deeply missed. 

Today I workout twice for Amy Poirier Bjornstad because it’s what she would understand, and I send all the strength and love I have to Kristy Litz. I am absorbing my friend!

Today I lost my best friend of 35 years. 
There is a good chance she was one of your best friends, too. We weren’t exclusive. She gave out love and attention honestly, unabashedly, and sometimes forcefully. 😉 I have met some of the best people on earth because she loved so fiercely and collected awesome people. I am so grateful for all the years I got to spend beside her. 
We are changed; we saw the amount of love and strength one person is capable of.

July, 1983
First known picture after our commitment ceremony. The vows went something like this:
Amy: You’ll be my best friend
Kristy: I Will

For always.

If you’ve had the pleasure of meeting Amy, I think you’ll agree with me when I say she is a fierce individual. It’s astonishing to see all the things she did, knowing she battled a cancer Voldemort every single day. And with everything she had going on, she never passed up an opportunity to take a selfie with her kids...or her dog, thank a friend, and was ALWAYS very quick to give shoutouts to her husband for doing superhero-ish things on a daily basis...because if you don’t know him, he is one of a kind and he is the exact representation of a superhero.
We are blessed to know people like this, you know. We are blessed to interact with these people on a deep, raw level and see everything good they bring to the world. We are blessed to have family and friends that make life worth loving, and living and fighting for.

I have never seen someone take on such a battle, so elegantly, with a smile on her face every day.
Her force was powerful.
She had a quiet confidence that screamd loud. She was humble, but strong. She was stable, but rebellious. She is my cousin, she is loved and she is fierce.

My heart is just broken. 💔 Rest Peacefully, Amy Poirier Bjornstad. I have never known a stronger, more positive person in my life. You fought so hard. Life just isn’t fair. My condolences and love being sent to your Brody, your beautiful children, your parents, Tony Poirier, the entire Litz clan and everybody who loves you, which is anybody who has ever been lucky enough to cross your path. You have left a legacy. ❤️

I don’t ever remember not knowing you. From my first memories, I was going to Patton with my mom when she helped in the school and I can remember you and Stevi and Mary the most, well besides my brother. Lol. Amy always had the long pigtails and always talked to me. As we grew up I realized you were actually, but not really, but really, also a Litz. You were so cool; Awesome at sports, always so kind to me, and had the best smile! Those were the things I remember growing up. As an adult, I’m so glad we stayed connected through FB. I have never known anybody as positive, as kick-ass, and as hysterically funny as you. I will never forget how you showed concern while I was going through my divorce and the kind and hilarious messages you would send me. I envy your strength and your fight. Those 2 offspring are the luckiest kids ever to have YOU as their Mom. Find comfort in everybody’s lives you have touched and the lessons you have taught. Thank you for that. I love you, Amy Poirier Bjornstad! ❤️ You are just so cool. 😎

When I see all the outpouring of love, both in words and deeds, I am reminded of my favorite line in all of music, from the Beatles’ Abbey Road, “...and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.”  Our Amy must have sent a lot of love out into the world in order to receive as much as she has.  It was truly a life well-lived.

My little sister.  My rock.  My strength.  Amy was a gift.  Amy IS a gift.  To have known and loved someone like her makes us all better people.  Thank you for sharing her.  That great big soul was too much for a frail human body and now she can be everywhere and do everything, which is the way she would have wanted it.

My love to all who are suffering right now, especially her husband, her children, her parents, and her brother.  Knowing how deep this loss hits all of us, I cannot imagine.

"According to the law of the conservation of energy, not a bit of you is gone.  You're just less orderly."

I love you.

You know.

My heart breaks for Amy’s family and close friends. I had the honor to grow up with Amy at our moms softball games. I keep telling people how grateful I am for all of my memories  I have with Amy. But one of my most fondest was playing barbies. I keep saying if it weren’t for MY cousin Deanna DeAngelis (Amy’s cousin) for their amazing Barbie collections my memories with barbies would have been so boring. God bless to the family and you will always be in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your precious warrior with me. 
Lynn (Bechill) Dujardin

As a fellow instructor at Landmark, Amy was a constant shining light. A beam of inspiration to all she met.   Her love of life and giving of herself so unselfishly touched so many. GOD truly blessed those who came to know and love her.   She will fly high with the angels  ..Love and hugs dear dear Amy. 

Amy inspired me on the spinning bike. I can remember her saying "turn it up!".   When you feel the burn "turn it up!" I enjoyed her strong , can do motivational spirit so much. Thank you, Amy. May god bless you and your family. RIP Amy B!

OBITUARY

Amy Lynn (Poirier) Bjornstad

December 16, 1974 – March 27, 2018

Davison-Fulton-Woolsey-Wilton Funeral Home

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