Name: Chapel of the Pines
Address: Placerville, CA

Bear, Not a day goes by that I dont think about you or tell someone a story about you. It is so hard to believe that you are gone. I wish I could reach out and bring you back to us. Everyday I wish I could pick up the phone and call you. I have so many things I should have told you while you were alive. I should have told you how precious and priceless you were. I should have told you how everyone was amazed by your beauty, your talent, and your amazing personality. I should have told you how proud our family was to have you in it. I should have told you that you changed our lives forever when you were born! I should have told you to be safer. I should have told you that losing you would be unbearable! Don't think it gets easier as time goes by. It will never get easier. I love and miss you so very, very much Terany Ashley! Aunt Mindy is loving you forever!

i miss you terany:(
i can't beleive you're gone.
i don't want to beleive it.. i never took it seriously when people say you can be gone any minute...
i miss you so much. i wish you could come back. 
- you're little sister):

 We met when I was 11, half my life's first experiences (boyfriend, drivers licenses, having children), laughter, and tears were shared with you. I miss you, and feel like I will always miss you and feel the pain from you not walking and sharing this world with me.
 I hope you hear me talking to you. If you do, you know how much you meant to me, and still mean to me.
Love you Bear.

Terany, I miss you very much! I'm taking NCLEX tomorrow and just wanted you to know that I'm taking your picture with me for good luck. I wish I could hear you tell me that I am going to do fine on it. I love you and I miss you terribly. It's hard to believe you are gone. I love you very much. Love, Aunt mindy

Rest in Paradise terany. I'm so glad we reconnected after high school. To the family...I am so sorry for your loss. I know first hand the pain of loosing your child - you're loved one. You all will be in my thoughts. <3

Bear, I have just been sitting here thinking about all the things I never got to tell you.  (Probably, because you never let me get a word in on our phone conversations.)  LOL)  I didn't mind though, I loved listening to you talk.  You had great stories and you told them well.  (By the way, you got that from me.)  We could always make an ordinary story funny.  
You used to tell me all the time that you couldn't wait for me to meet your baby girl.  I am sorry I didn't come home sooner.  She is just perfect; she can light up a room like you.  I can't wait until she gets older and I can share all the great stories I have of you.  (Especially the "booby" story with the woman in the locker room, when you were about a year old.)  
 I have finally mastered the silverware tri-pod that you taught me!  I promise that every holiday I will tri-pod silverware and tell the story about how patient you were in teaching me.  
Do you remember when you ran back into the pizza place just to get all the chocolate mint hard candies from the basket because they were my favorite?  Well, they had baskets of them at your service.  Need I say more?  LOL.  I love you very much!    Love always, Aunt Mindy

her time has come have no regret her life she lived we all know a better place she has to go rejoice today its at an end and she will see you once again rest in peace terra your brother    vick

Terany,
When I first heard this today i could not believe it.  I have so many memories with you and always thought about you over the years we were not in touch.  You were a childhood friend!  I remember being in the same dance class together when we were little.  Many slumber parties making up dance routines and up all night giggling.  When we were in high school I remember getting together with all the girls at Jackie's house talking about boys and laughing until we cried.  You were loved by many and will be terribly missed! My deepest condolences to your family. I hope time will eventually bring peace and comfort to all who are grieving this tragic loss.

I can remember just yesterday how much I looked up to you. Jess and I were kids back then and I thought you were the coolest person ever, gosh how I looked up to you. You were a beautiful person and touched my life. Just the other day I ran into your mom and talked about trying to catch up, I wish we got the chance. You will be missed.

Terany, you had an amazing spirit and a zest for life!  May these qualities be remembered and cherished by all who knew/loved you.


I am so sorry for your loss. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.

You will always be missed... thank you for being such a good friend and co-worker. Love you.

You will always be in your hearts, and your infectious laugh in our heads. You lit up a room and were a joy to be around, we had some good times at Bella Vista. Your spirit will live on. I send my deepest condolences to your family. Rest in peace Terany

I am so sorry this has happened.  I remember her attending functions at Travis AFB with her family.  Her smile was radiant, such a beautiful young lady.  My prayers and thoughts are with the family.  I know she will be missed by so many.


Pam.............I can't imagine what you must be going through. Terrany will always be seen through the eyes of our beautiful Grand Daughter. Laura and I are here for you and Jim................please, do not hesitate to ask anything of us. .......................remember, WE are family....................Love Don and Laura Nasca

Terany and my daughter were very close. My daughter Jessica is on a mission in Sweden right now and when I contacted her to let her know she was heart broken. She was so good to Jessica. Her smile was contagious. She was very protective of my daughter and always let me know how much she loved her. We will both miss you Terany. Our prayers are with your daughter. Love ya

Terany Ashley, From the moment you were born we knew you were unstoppable. You amazed all of us with you talent, wisdom, and your beauty. I loved you like you were my daughter. I am so lucky to have had you as a niece. We were all very fortunate to have you in our family. You shined Bear! You stood out in crowds. You had a personality like no other. It breaks my heart that I can't ever tell you this in person. I lost a part of me today when you were taken from us. I love you with all my heart. RIP my sweet baby girl.

Gone too soon... prayers to you Pam and Jim...

Terany sweetheart you will be so sorely missed, you were such a joy to be around, you were there for me on more than one occasion to watch and care for my little man Caleb when he was just a tot, you showed him love, kindness and laughter, and for that I will forever be in your debt. I feel so blessed to have been a part of your life, if only for a short time. I will love you forever and will miss your spark everyday!

Pam, we are so sorry for your loss. Know that we are praying for you always.

Terany, your beautiful spirit and heart will be dearly missed by all who you touched.  Your funny quirks and bright smile, including your volleyball rules, will remain in our hearts and thoughts forever.  All your sad moments and heartbreaks are gone forever and only your love and joy will stay with everyone, bless you and watch over all of us from your special place in heaven.  Love you always.

I'm very sorry to hear about Terany, I didn't know her personally, but i remember Pam when u was pregant with her and the pictures of her when she was a baby. She was soo beautiful!!!  She will be missed very much.  Love your cousin, Kristi Castaneda

I'm sorry to hear about Terany, although I didn't know her;  I remember Pam when you were pregnant with her and how we would listen to her move with a tethascope at Uncle Marvins in Nevada.  She will be missed!

Dear miss Terany I will always remember you as the young happy girl that was at my side when grandpa was sick...At least i know that your not alone because your up there with grandpa and i will see you both again some day

OBITUARY

Terany A. Widing Vessey

October 17, 1987 – April 10, 2012

Chapel of the Pines

Show your support

Add a Memory

Share Obituary

Get Reminders

Services