

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Pamela beloved wife of Joseph, devoted mother to Kristy (Sam) and Kayla (Mike), and cherished grandmother to Millie. Pamela, who was also a loving sister to Billy, Donna, and Vicki, as well as a dedicated aunt to many nieces and nephews.
Pamela was known for her unwavering love for her family, always putting them first. She shared a special bond with her husband, Joseph, and their relationship was an embodiment of deep devotion and affection. As a mother, Pamela was both nurturing and playful, finding joy in the everyday moments with her daughters. She embraced every role in her life with grace and enthusiasm, and as a grandmother, she found immeasurable joy in the little moments with Millie.
Outside of her family, Pamela had many passions that made her unique. She enjoyed crocheting and had a soft spot for giraffes, bringing smiles to those around her with her quirky sense of humor and infectious laugh. Pamela loved life, cherished her many cruises, and was always eager to share a story or lend an ear. She was a natural conversationalist and a patient listener, qualities that made her beloved by everyone who knew her.
Pamela’s generosity knew no bounds. She gave of herself freely, always ready to help others and share her warmth. Whether with her family, friends, or work colleagues, she was loved by all. Fiercely strong yet gentle, Pamela’s spirit will live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know her.
In addition to her family, Pamela leaves behind a circle of friends and colleagues who will miss her deeply. Her memory will be cherished, and she will always be remembered for her boundless love, her kindness, and her infectious spirit.
She was truly one of a kind, and the world is a better place for having had her in it.
A visitation will be held at O. B. Davis Funeral Homes, located at 4839 Nesconset Highway, Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776, on October 23, 2025, from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm.
A funeral mass will take place at St Gerard Majella RC Church, 300 Terryville Rd, Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776, on October 24, 2025, starting at 10:00 am.
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