Raymond was the beloved partner and soulmate of 25 years to Sarah “Annie” Duncan. Their bond was one of deep love and companionship, and they were truly inseparable. In a heartbreaking turn of events, Annie passed away just a few short hours before Raymond, reuniting them together forever.
Raymond was a loving father to Donald (Sharon), Ronald (Deborah), Cindy Cavorti (Dennis), and Carl (Jennifer). He was a cherished “Poppy” to Brendan, Kate, Christopher (Samantha), Lauren, Julia, Samantha, Brianne, Kylie, Jake, and Cody, and an adored great-grandfather to Mason. He is also survived by his brother Patrick “Ricky” (Jean) and was predeceased by his siblings Eileen, Edward, Regina, Maureen, and Dennis.
Later in life, Raymond’s family grew even larger through his loving relationship with Annie. He became a devoted stepfather to Mary, Pauline, Amy, and Frank, and a proud grandfather to Ava, Fiona, Sydney, and Reese. Together, Raymond and Annie blended their families into one filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories.
Raymond retired as the Maintenance Supervisor of the Stony Brook Physical Plant, after which he continued to work at the Stony Brook Ambulatory Center. Never one to slow down, he then spent another 15 years working alongside his cousin Nick doing home improvements. There truly wasn’t anything Raymond couldn’t build or repair. His strong work ethic, determination, and pride in doing things the right way were qualities he passed on to his children, all of whom went on to successful careers—a source of great pride for Raymond.
Raymond had a love for travel and adventure. He especially treasured trips to Ireland with his late sister Regina, where they explored and connected with their father’s hometown. In later years, he and Annie enjoyed traveling and cruising together, visiting destinations such as the Panama Canal, Bermuda, and Aruba. They divided their time between New York and Annie’s home in Boston, Massachusetts, embracing life and family in both places.
A private service was held on Monday, December 22, 2025, with burial at Calverton National Cemetery.
Raymond will be remembered for his unwavering devotion to those he loved, his remarkable skill and work ethic, his generosity, and the quiet strength with which he lived his life. He leaves behind a legacy of love, craftsmanship, and family that will endure for generations.
