David John McCarthy

David (Dave) John McCarthy, 56, died May 12, 2026. Born March 29, 1970, in Pittsburgh, PA, David lived most of his life in Portland, Oregon. David’s early years and education carried him through St John Fisher Grade School, Robert Gray Middle School, and Wilson

High School, and later to Clackamas Community College and Marylhurst College. He brought a steady, hard-working spirit to each chapter—showing up, putting in the effort, and offering a hand to others along the way.

At Clackamas Community College, David studied web design, a pursuit that reflected both his practical skill and his willingness to keep learning and building. Those who loved him knew him as someone dependable and capable—good with his hands, generous with his time, and quietly proud of doing things well.

Recently David shared life with his caregiver, Sara Carson. Through the challenges of illness, their bond was marked by loyalty, kindness, and the sort of everyday devotion that speaks louder than any grand gesture.

He also found joy in creativity and music. David took college classes in photography and loved capturing images of rock bands—moments of energy and artistry preserved through his lens. A big BB King fan, he carried a sincere appreciation for music that could lift a room and speak straight to the heart. And in true David fashion, his humor could do the same—offered at just the right time, often when it was needed most.

The hallmark of David's life was that he formed deep bonds of friendship with a wide variety of people he encountered. To know David was to know a caring friend and a joyful companion. David's view of life and human interaction was famously unfiltered. You were sure to have lively conversations with David; no mundane talk. He made every interaction a personal event and was loved for it.

David’s legacy is one of love in action: helping all family members, showing up with steady loyalty, and giving what he could without keeping score. He was beloved not only for what he did, but for the warmth and goodness behind it. David will be remembered with deep affection and enduring gratitude by all who knew him. He was an advocate for recycling, inspired by his uncle Richard, and told others they should follow suit. He had a love for travel, especially to Thailand where he visited shortly before the onset of his illness. An avid Blazer basketball fan, he often attended games with his dad.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to the countless friends and family who helped David through his time of illness. Special thanks to Sara, for taking such good care of David through his illness; as well as family members who assisted (his aunt Linda and cousin Jesslyn). His closest friends Ian Yaklich and Paul Clunie were there for Dave before and during his illness.

David is survived by his father Michael McCarthy (Ginger), his mother Mary McCarthy Holloway (John Holloway), stepsiblings Katy, Will, Amanda, Miki, Piper, and Brandon. Also survived by nine maternal and 6 paternal aunts/uncles plus many cousins.

A celebration of life will be held mid–summer, date too be announced.In lieu of flowers please donate in his memory to your favorite charity.