It's been 5 years today since you left us. That time has gone so quickly. Taylor and I miss you and we talk about you every single day and we see you in our grandson in multiple ways. ❤️

You're heavy on my mind and light in my heart today and always. Happy 47th birthday, Robby ❤️

I can't believe today is 2 years since you left this physical world. So much has changed. Everything has changed. Thank you for welcoming Mommy home. I love you and miss you every day ❤️

Merry Christmas, Robby. I know you're so proud to see the house all lit up, and the tree in the window, just like we both always wanted. It was a beautiful day. We miss you and love you 🎅❤️

Today's a big nervous day for me. I got in the cab, and can smell you next to me. ❤️

We all miss & love you dearly Robby!  We celebrate you and will continue to keep your memory alive. You will never be forgotten. NEVER!!! Some day we’ll be together till than continue to watch over us and protect us.  All of our love always & Forever XOXO 💖💖💖

I know they reached you, I got your signs. Keep them coming. I will keep your memory alive always and forever. You will never be forgotten, it’s impossible you have touch all of our hearts. 💖💖

It’s been a year with out you here. I’ve done so much that I’ve wish you could see throughout this year. I miss your voice. I miss your hugs. I miss your laugh. I miss dancing with you. I miss spending Halloween’s with you. I miss watching movies with you. I can’t wait to see you again. I love you daddy I miss you so much!

The last message I just wrote took up too many characters, and when I moved to fit it all in, it was deleted. I freaked out for a minute. Then I realized: that's between you and me. YOU already read it! So, I'll just say that it's been 365 days without you here. 365 days of change and tears and inspiration in the weirdest things. 365 days of talking to your Urn, the butterflies, the sky, and the veggies I'm growing in my garden. 365 days of seeing you places I know you're not. 365 days of things forever left unsaid. The only constant is your absence, and that's not okay.    But the lessons keep coming, and I'm taking notes. I miss you every day. I know I'll never not miss you. I'll love you forever and ever. I'll see you again on the other side, when I'm ready. ❤️

Today is 6 months since you left us. It's another beautiful day. The weather is about the same as it was your last day here. The birds are singing and the sun is shining. This would be a day for us to drive. Anywhere. Nowhere. Just get in the car, put the windows down and the volume up, and just go. You love this weather almost as much as 2 feet of snow. And driving in both. But now you fly. I can't describe how much I miss you or how much it hurts every day that you're gone. I love you. 

I spent so many years just wishing I could make a decision about my own life, without needing to consult you. And now, here I am, making decisions about my own life....and can't consult you! Every time I've ever been uncertain about what moves to make, you've helped me figure it out (or stopped me in my tracks 😏). Even being sure of myself, I feel like we need to sit across the table about it first. But I know you're with me. You're supporting my decisions, and watching my back. Mariah narrated our entire life together, and she still is. These last couple weeks, I have the same verse running through my mind on a loop. And I know you put it there.:

Guardian Angel, I
Sail away on an ocean 
With you by my side.
Orange clouds roll by.
They burn into your image and you're still alive.
But I closed my eyes,
Steadied my feet on the ground
Raised my head to the sky.
And though time rolls by,
Still I feel like a child as I look at the moon.
Maybe I grew up a little too soon.

Thank you for being my strength. I love and miss you so much. 

Happy heavenly birthday my little brother. Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you and miss you. I think of you and see your smile. Oh, how I miss that joker smile!!! Your smile would light up any & every room you walked into. It helped that your personality was just as big as your heart. You had a heart of gold, That’s why you were who you were and everyone who knew you loved you. When you loved you loved whole heartedly and unconditionally. You were the greatest brother, most loving son, an amazing Uncle. I am so lucky to have you as my brother. We all miss you and love you so much. I know you are still with me and you will forever remain in my heart. I cherish all of the times we have shared and miss them so much. This has been the hardest thing I have ever gone through in my life. You were not only my brother you were my best friend.  We had been through so much together, it was always you and I against the world. There is a huge piece of my heart missing that only you can fill.  I want you to know I hear you and I know you are still with me and you always will be. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone to call you. I would do anything to just hug you one more time my little brother. I don’t know what’s gods plan but I know it must be big for him to have taken you home so soon. I love you whole wide world my little brother!!!! Sleep in peace 💖🤗😘🙏🏻

So, this is our first Christmas without you here. I never thought I'd see the day. I wish like hell I never had to. Of all the things that will never be right again, without you here, Christmastime will be at the very top of that list forever. I've never seen anyone love this day as much as you. You made me love Christmas because I loved watching you love Christmas. You reminded me to be a kid and enjoy it, too. Thank goodness Taylor took after you on that one! She's the most amazing gift I've ever received. Thank you so much for my favorite Christmas gift of all time. I promise to take the very best care of her. I love you. I'll be checking the clouds for shapes of snowmen. I'll know that's you. Merry First Heavenly Christmas. ☃️🎄❤️

I keep hearing "how has it been a month already?" But, how does it feel like the longest decade? I still can't believe it's you in here. I never knew I could hurt like this, but I find strength in knowing your pain is gone and you get to be free from everything that didn't serve your soul's happiness, and I'm glad to know that I got to be such a major part of your happiness. Even in our worst moments, Robby, our egos took a backseat to our souls. Thank you for sharing a lifetime of unconditional love with me. The good, the bad, and the ugly, there's nobody else I would have rather traversed these last 30 years with. Thank you. I love you always. 

Robby, Growing up you were always with us. The cutest sidekick a girl could ask for. We had the best childhood just being kids.  If I wasn't at your house you were at my house. If we weren’t roaming the streets of QV we were at Braddock park or on some crazy adventure to the city. We had the best times living the best years of our lives. Those memories will live in my heart forever. I will never forget the sweet, kind, brave, loving man you were. I’m so glad I got to see you recently. That means a lot to me. We all celebrated you upstate last week and all shared our stories. We even sang your song. You will never be forgotten and I will always love you. Rest easy my little brother and watch over your family.  

I love you,
Heather xo

With  all love and pain comes into the meaning of Life.  Suffer no more , spread your wings and fly. 
I will see  you in the stars above. I will hear you when life is at its darkness for protection and feel you when life is at its best for love and happiness. 
Till we meet again.
Love you always your Big brother 
Tomboy. 

Tom and Family, My Condolences To You And Your Family 


Love, Michele Amento
And Xavior Cognata

This is how I'll always remember us. How we were always meant to be. Our souls were married long before our human bodies ever met. Our souls will be reunited another thousand times, eternally. I love you, Robby. Thank you for always choosing to love me, every day, in this life, and all others. I'll celebrate you until our souls meet again. 

Me and my daddy at my baptism. 🥺👼🏻 I miss you daddy I’ll see you soon. 

My love , thoughts and many prayers go out to the whole family

I can't understand why God would take Robbie

I'm thinking about all the memories we share
Now I just sit here and stare

Your family to me, welcomed me with open arms
Robbie, you just had that charm 

You had that laugh and smile I will never forget
Not seeing you one last time is my only regret

I'm grateful to have had you in my life, because when I was in the darkness, you were my light

It all started when you asked me to play pool, thought you had skill and was cool(haha)

I surprised you and won
Robbie, we sure did have a lot of fun

If it wasnt for you, I would have never met your family
You touched so many lives and you will be love,missed and thought about by many

I'll stop now cuz my brain is foggy
Till we meet again, I'll always love and miss you Robbie



Robbie only God know heaven has gained another angle it been along time since I seen you my prays to your beautiful daughter and to the family that loves you beyond word  you will truly be missed but never forgotten till we met again my fine friend may your soul rest in eternal peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️ 


Uncle Robbie ! I love you so much, much more than words can speak. Growing up I had the best times with you, To the man I am today I carry so many things that you taught me that I can take forever with me, your forever with me. I miss you a lot until we meet again, love you uncle Robbie !! 

Uncle joe is always going  to love you and remember  you  rest in peace pal

Ohh my baby brother I already miss you so much!! My heart is broken, it will never be the same. God called you home and it still seems surreal. I cannot believe that you’re gone and I will never be able to hug you ever again and hear you tell me I love you sis!!! It was always you and I against the world.  A piece of me is missing. A huge piece!!! No one will ever replace you baby. I hope you and daddy are enjoying a ice cold beer and listening to Mariah Carey. I will always hold you in my heart and keep you alive in my memories. I love you WHOLE WIDE WORLD 🌍 You are forever in my heart!!! 

Thank you lord for Robby. He was there for me when no one else was.  He is proof that you use us to help one another. Lord please bless him and keep him until we meet again.  Bless his family for 1,000 generations and turn your face towards them during these times. Amen!

Love John a.k.a Shorty Rock 

She's her father's daughter, alright! Taylor age 5, Robby is probably about 5 also. 

OBITUARY

Robert Thomas Vaughn

January 30, 1979 – September 16, 2021

R. Stutzmann & Son

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