Cecilia Young Denning Sneed

Being a wife, mother, grandmother, and daughter was everything to Cecilia. She was married to the love of her life, Henry M. Sneed, who preceded her in death. Cecilia is survived by her loving daughters, Margaret Denning Sneed of Raleigh and Elizabeth Denning Van Noordt of Southport, N.C., and by her grandsons, Robert G. Byrd of Charlotte and William H. Byrd of Raleigh, who brought her immense pride. She is also survived by many beloved cousins and dear friends, as well as Henry's family of children, siblings, nieces, and nephews, whom she embraced as her own.

Born and raised in Angier, N.C., Cecilia was the only child of Margaret Green Young and Robert L. Young. A proud daddy's girl, she was spunky, intelligent, determined, and endlessly outgoing from childhood. Her talkative, carefree, and often silly nature was a frequent source of amused disbelief to her quiet and conservative mother, a contrast that became a cherished family story. Many people throughout her life knew her affectionately as "Bumsy," and in Angier, some knew her by no other name.

Cecilia attended The College of William & Mary before transferring to Meredith College, where she completed her undergraduate degree. She began her career as an elementary school teacher in Harnett County public schools, where she was a passionate and devoted educator, before becoming a librarian. She loved books, telling stories, and witnessing the spark in children's eyes when learning clicked.

In the 1970s, she relocated to Boone, N.C., to earn her master's in library science at Appalachian State University and subsequently served as the librarian at Hardin Park Elementary. Later, after her daughters left home, she returned to Raleigh to be closer to her mother, who lived with Cecilia and Henry for many years until her death. There, Cecilia joined the N.C. Department of Public Instruction, focusing on library policy and engagement, until her retirement. A steadfast advocate for intellectual freedom, she successfully fought to keep fantasy novels such as Harry Potter available in state school libraries when they were challenged.

Retirement did not slow her love of learning or people. Cecilia became a dedicated docent at the N.C. State Capitol, where she once again delighted in sharing history with children and visitors, striking up conversations with anyone willing to listen.

Music and stories were inseparable to Cecilia. She believed that playing the piano was simply another way of telling a story, and she was a remarkably talented pianist with an extraordinary ear. She could hear a tune once and play it back beautifully without sheet music. Music was always with her, whether she was humming softly or tapping her foot to a melody playing in her head. In later years, she especially loved attending the symphony and musical theater, delighting in how music and narrative came together on stage. She also loved crossword puzzles, her dogs, gardening, and sitting on the beach with her toes in the sand and a good book in hand.

In her later years, Cecilia was supported through her long battle with dementia and declining health by devoted caregivers who treated her with compassion, patience, and respect. She formed especially close bonds with her caretaker Aschala Semu and companion Natasha Cameron, and remained deeply grateful for the warmth and companionship they brought to her days.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Dementia Alliance of North Carolina ( https://dementiaallianceinternational.org/get-involved/donate ) or Heartland Hospice ( https://app.etapestry.com/onlineforms/GentivaFoundation/GHS.html ).

A funeral will be held at 11:00am on Monday, February 23, 2026 at Brown-Wynne, 300 Saint Mary's Street, Raleigh. The family will receive at 10:00 am. Graveside services will follow at Montlawn Memorial Park, 2911 S Wilmington St, Raleigh, NC 27603, immediately following the funeral.