OBITUARY
Fred Alphin , Jr.
January 2, 1936 – February 18, 2021
Fred Alphin, Jr., 85, was born on January 2, 1936 in Duplin County and passed away on February 18, 2021. He was the son of Fred and Clara Alphin, Sr.
He is preceded in death by his parents, four sisters, Peggy Alphin Swinson, Viola Winstead, Norma Ray Summerlin and Sallie Ruth Greenwood and one brother, Don Alphin.
He is survived by the love of his life, Virginia Glenn Price Alphin, who kept him straight for 58 wonderful years. Their two sons, Fred Alphin, III and his wife Christy and their children, Madison, Fred IV, and Caroline; and Ashley Brock Alphin and his wife DeAnn, Alexandra, Emma Grace and Brock. He is also survived by brothers, Reevis (Barbara), Oliver Wendell (Eva), Jack (Linda Carol); and sister, Linda Alphin Smith and numerous nieces and nephews.
Fred Alphin was a graduate of Kenansville High School in 1954, graduated UNC-Chapel Hill in 1959 and NC Central Law School in 1986. Fred also served in the U.S. Army from 1959 to 1962. He was in the banking industry for many years and then an attorney for 19 years at NC Farm Bureau Federation until retirement. Fred had many interests, he loved woodworking, the Angus Barn, watching westerns and cowboy movies at the NC State McKimmon Center. He was a master gardener and often found in his backyard with his beloved Chinese Pugs Snoopy and Smokey. He enjoyed having Friday lunch with his buddies at Chick-fil-A. He had a lifelong love of history and museums including the North Carolina History museum, Smithsonian and the North Carolina Zoo where he enjoyed taking his grandchildren.
Fred was also proud of being appointed to the Board of Directors of North Carolina Advanced Energy Corporation by Governors Easley and McCrory. He was an active member of Highland United Methodist Church where he served on numerous committees and was an usher for many years. Of all things Fred loved, he loved his family the most and the precious time spent together.
A memorial service will be held Monday, February 22 at 11:00 am at Highland United Methodist Church and can also be attended by live streaming in accordance with Covid regulations. A graveside service will be held at the Alphin Family Farm in Mt. Olive, North Carolina following the service at 3:00pm.
UPDATED 2/23/21, Recording of the Funeral Service; http://humcralnc.sermon.net/main/main/21748520
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Highland United Methodist Church.
Services provided by Brown-Wynne, 300 Saint Mary's St., Raleigh.
PALLBEARERS
- Ashley Alphin
- Fred Alphin, III
- Robert Alphin
- Will Alphin
- Brock Alphin
- Fred Alphin, IV
Services
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Recorded Funeral Service
Monday, February 22, 2021
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Graveside Service
Monday, February 22, 2021
Memories
Fred Alphin , Jr.
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ADD A MEMORYDon McCoy
February 23, 2021
I never had a better friend than Fred Alphin.
The best advice I ever heard him give:
“If there is any way possible, try not to get any lawyers involved.”
A life-long learner, mentor, and counselor — this old world needs more like him.
Rest in peace, my friend.
Peggy Robinson
February 23, 2021
My thoughts and prayers are with you. He surely will be missed at Pam's Farmhouse Sincerely Peggy Robinson
Caroline Alphin
February 23, 2021
My best friend forever🤍
Billy. And Sue Jones me hi
February 23, 2021
SUE AND BILLY JONES
WE SURELY WILL MISS FRED. HE AND WIFE GLENN WERE OUR DEAREST FRIENDS WHO SHARED OUR LIVES FOR MANY YEARS. WE ATE TOGETHER AT CAPT STANLEY SEAFOOD ALMOST WEEKLY. FRED WOULD ALMOST REGULARLY GET HALF AND HALF TEA.. WE ALSO ATE AT CHICK FIL A , BOJANGLES, SMITHFIELD’S OUTBACK.,D & S AS WELL AS OTHERS. WE BECAME MORE LIKE FAMILY. WE DEARLY LOVED FRED LIKE A BROTHER.
HE WOULD DRIVE HALF THE TIME AND MOST TIMES WOULD TOUR RALEIGH SITES. WHEN WE PASSED HIGHLAND CHURCH I WOULD CALL IT “FRED’S” CHURCH. IT WILL ALWAYS BE “FRED’S” CHURCH. FRED TRULY LOVED HIS FAMILY , CHURCH AND LIFE
GOD BE WITH FRED AND GLENN AND FAMILY FOREVER
ALWAYS
BILLY AND SUE JONES
Patricia McDonald
February 22, 2021
Glenn and Ashley,
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Patricia
Doug and Janice Alphin Powell
February 22, 2021
Please know that you are all included in our thoughts and prayers.
Doug and Janice (Alphin) Powell
Lillington, NC
Ken Updegrave
February 22, 2021
Glenn,
Barbara and I were so very saddened to read of Fred's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers and we hope that through your grief you are able to delve deeply into the precious memories of your shared lifetimes.
Jo Anne Sanford
February 22, 2021
What a wonderful service for Fred.....he is so alive in your great memories and your overwhelming love for him. I enjoyed hearing about him from all speakers, and reflecting on the first thought I had when I heard of his passing, which is that he was such a nice man.
Condolences and very best regards to all of you.
Jo Anne Sanford
DOUGLAS KEARNS
February 22, 2021
Fred,
Thanks for your friendship and memories. I will always remember our ushering services at the church, our group lunches after Sunday Sermon, Friday lunches with Mike, when we resolved all the world problems, and the Thursday Nite Western Movies.
We will always remember you and the memories we have made.
Sincerely, Doug
Betty Calton
February 22, 2021
Dear Glenn,
I am so sorry to hear of Fred's passing. I wanted to share this picture of all the cousins at Ma and Pa's, many years ago. I have fond memories of you both stopping by Hudson Belk, where I worked. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. God Bless you and give you comfort.
Love, Betty "Blue" Calton
Nancy Lambert
February 22, 2021
Oh, Glenn. I am so very sad to learn of Fred’s passing. My heart hurts for you and your entire family. My thoughts and prayers will be with you in the upcoming days.
Fred was such a fine gentleman. Always friendly and kind. May your memories sustain you until you meet again.
I will be at the funeral virtually today, due to Covid, but hope to see you soon after the funeral. Love you dearly, my sweet friend.
Emma Grace Alphin
February 21, 2021
Brock Alphin
February 21, 2021
DeAnn Alphin
February 21, 2021
Louise Lamm
February 21, 2021
Glenn, I was saddened to hear of Fred's passing. He was not just my co-worker at Farm Bureau, he was my friend. He was the epitome of the Southern gentleman. My fondest memories are of the time we all spent together in Hawaii. Thank you for sharing him with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
CHRIS GLOVER
February 21, 2021
Glenn, I am so sorry to read of the passing of your husband. May God comfort you with happy memories.--Chris Glover
Chris Harrell
February 20, 2021
Oh, “Mr Fred” - my heart breaks to just now learn about your passing. I wasn’t able to do my normal 2 mile walk with our golden, “Snow” by your house on Thursday because of the weather, but I knew something wasn’t right when I walked by just now. Your precious daughter-in-law, Christy, knew I was the infamous lady with the white hair and golden retriever that you used to speak to in your front yard so many times. I’m going to miss see you, discussing what I might do to improve my yard, and bringing your morning paper up that steep driveway. God Bless you. I’ll surely miss you, my friend.
Melanie Chunn
February 20, 2021
Aunt Glen, Fred and Ashley, my heart goes out to you. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers, with sympathy & love Melanie Chunn and family