OBITUARY
Randall David Avram
January 14, 1958 – January 14, 2021
Randall David Avram (“Randy”), 63, of Raleigh passed away on January 14, 2021. Raised in Winston-Salem, North Carolina by his parents Gary and Patricia Avram, Randy grew up an active athlete with his brother Andy playing basketball, golf, baseball, and tennis.
Randy attended the University of North Carolina where he received his undergraduate degree in Political Science in 1981. In Chapel Hill, Randy met the love of his life, Amy, when she picked him up hitchhiking one morning in 1979.
Randy attended Wake Forest School of Law where he graduated summa cum laude with the highest honors. Following graduation, Randy worked at Hunton & Williams as an attorney with the Labor and Employment Team where he quickly became Partner. In 2003, Randy joined Kilpatrick Townsend & Stockton as a Partner. During Randy’s time at Kilpatrick Townsend & Stockton, he served as the Team Leader of the Labor and Employment team for many years. Randy represented numerous Fortune 100 companies throughout his career receiving almost every top legal accolade available including being annually recognized by Chambers and Best Lawyers as a top attorney in his field, and twice being named Best Lawyers’ “Raleigh Lawyer of the Year.” Randy was a coveted and go-to resource nationally in the Labor and Employment legal community because of his unique and creative legal acumen and extensive experience. One of Randy’s oldest clients described him as “the gunslinger” because Randy always fought for his clients - - just like he fought cancer.
He was preceded in death by his father, Gary Avram; and his nephew, Tucker Avram.
Surviving Randy are his mother Patricia; brother, Andy; wife, Amy; three sons, David (wife Chelsea), Andrew (wife Myers), and Banks; grandson, Sonny; and beloved dog, Pinny.
To family and friends, Randy was known for his uncanny sense of humor, kind and loving heart, and constant generosity. He was a dedicated husband and father who loved his family fully. Randy loved the Tar Heels, fishing and playing golf with his sons, and spending time with his family at Topsail Beach, North Carolina.
UPDATED , January 21, 2021 - A private family memorial service will be held at Christ Church in Raleigh, N.C. on Tuesday, January 26, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. Due to current COVID-19 restrictions, the service will be attended by immediate family. For those who would like to view the service remotely a link is available at www.brownwynneraleigh.com or directly through: https://video.ibm.com/channel/island-sound . The live stream will be available starting at 1:50 p.m.
In lieu of flowers or food, the family requests that donations be sent to the Randall Avram Memorial Fund at St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital; https://fundraising.stjude.org/site/TR/GiftFunds/GiftFunds?px=6902586&pg=personal&fr_id=39300.
Arrangements by Brown-Wynne Funeral Home, 300 Saint Mary's St., Raleigh, NC, (919) 828-4311; condolences may be made through www.brownwynneraleigh.com.
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Private Memorial Service
Tuesday, January 26, 2021
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ADD A MEMORYSue and John Olesiuk
February 16, 2021
Dear Amy and Family,
John and I remember our times together at Wake Forest, and especially in the married student apartments. You two, like us, became parents there and we remember that the guys played softball together over the years at Wake.
We send our sincere sympathies to each of you.
May God keep you in his care,
John & Sue
Bruce Clarke
February 11, 2021
Randy and I were friendly law firm competitors back in the day. He was always generous with his time, experiences, funny stories and eager to share an after hours cold beer. I admired him, appreciated his skill and his humanity. My sincerest condolences to Amy and the family.
Alan Murray
January 26, 2021
Randy is leaving a legacy of family, friends and a life well lived. We will miss his laughter, joy and his concern for others. I feel lucky to know him and will keep his family in my thoughts and prayers.
Alan Murray
King Prather
January 26, 2021
Amy and family.... Randy was an inspiration to authenticity. He never met a stranger. I will find strength in his memory.
Sandy Mitchell
January 26, 2021
Amy,
My heart goes out to you and everyone who loved Randy deeply.
Randy will truly be missed. I wish I could be there to comfort you as you grieve. I'm holding you in my heart. Thanks for allowing me to meet your best friend and the love of your life. R.I.P Randy
Christian Yaste
January 25, 2021
Although I only knew Randy professionally, he impressed me as one of the most caring and thoughtful attorneys I have ever worked with. Randy immediately made me feel comfortable in two specific situations when I retained his counsel. I am thankful for the gracious calls and interactions I had with him. Very sorry to hear of his passing and my condolences to his family and coworkers. God bless.
William McBride
January 24, 2021
Dear Amy and Family,
It was a real shock to hear of Randy's passing. I loved his spirit and zest in all things and am having a hard time reconciling that memory with him being gone. We rarely saw him after he left Hunton but it was always fun to catch up.
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. He was special in many ways.
Wally McBride
Susan and Mark Warren
January 21, 2021
Dear Amy and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of Randy’s death. Please know we are thinking of you all. Sending comfort and prayers your way.
Fondly,
Susan & Mark
Tod Penney
January 19, 2021
Condolences to Amy, Children and Family,
Great memories of Randy back in the UNC days, he was a fine friend.
Very sad to hear.
Tod Penney
Kathleen Osterbind
January 19, 2021
Dear Amy, Andrew and Banks, I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Randy was a great guy, loved his family unequivocally and was admired by many. During our work together at Hunton & Williams, Randy was a wonderful boss, fair, reasonable and more than willing to share his knowledge of the law. His personal life provided all with a tremendous role model to strive to achieve. I always admired the absolute love he had for Amy, his sons and family. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again in the grand and final resting place of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Kathy Osterbind (Hill)
Rick Proctor
January 18, 2021
Very sorry for your family's loss Amy. I know it has been a long time since our paths crossed, but I always knew that the two of you would make a life-long team. I had some great times with Gabe when we lived together in MD. Loved seeing him leave for work with his surfboard strapped to the roof for a little riding in Ocean City before coming home. He also whipped me regularly in our "friendly" tennis matches on the courts at Salisbury State. He got sick of me borrowing one of his pairs of cool shoes for outings, but the man had great taste. My sincere condolences. Rick
Raymond Davis
January 18, 2021
Randy loved playing basketball, and we had a great time winning a 3 on 3 tournament together in the mid 90s. We wern't great players, but we excelled at recruiting ringers to carry our team! lol. RIP, my friend.
Sheryl Babiak
January 18, 2021
Amy and family, sending love and virtual hugs to you! I am so glad I had the pleasure of meeting Randy many years ago on my trip to NC and staying in your beautiful home. Many will miss his presence, but especially you. Prayers are being sent to our heavenly Father on your behalf. May He comfort and strengthen you for the road ahead and give you His wisdom and guidance. Love you, cousin!
Sheryl (and Bob too).
T.K. Ganesh
January 17, 2021
Randy was our company’s attorney for the past few years and he was a close and dear friend of mine. I will miss him, his energy and his attitude towards life. He taught me how to look at life with a perspective so powerful that it changed my life. He was always one to put a smile on our face with his wit and pick us up with his words when our spirits were low. Personally, he injected a lot of faith and meaning in our lives with his wisdom. He was a mentor to me and my family.
We are truly devastated by his loss and he is irreplaceable in our lives. We pray the good Lord take care of him.
From the Scintel Family.
T.K
Albert Munn
January 17, 2021
Oh, Amy.
Lisa and I are deeply grieved to read Randy's obituary.
I remember our times at UNC when we were all together striving for the path to our vocations and the fun we had along the journey. Thanks for being our best next door neighbor for 15 years. The babies born (now grandkids), New Year's Eve parties and the Super Bowl extravaganzas where a 7 y.o. Banks was the "bartender". Randy led a blessed life and achieved great success thanks to his charm, quick wit and brilliance. You were always his great Love and it showed. Our deepest heartfelt sympathy and condolences for you, David, Andrew, Banks, and all your extended families, are a mirror of the joy we shared growing up together with you all. Please call if you need anything at all, (919) 971-5904.
Dal and Lisa
Elizabeth Rouse
January 17, 2021
I too send my thoughts your way and picture him always with a smile and constantly upbeat. He lives on in the hearts of many with all the memories seem in our heads. Please reach out if you need anything at all including a shoulder to lean on. Thank God for your 3 delightful boys.
Jack Nichols
January 17, 2021
Amy & family,
What a loss to your family and his legal family and the community! Whenever we spoke (which was frequently to refer clients to each other), we always spoke of Amy being Jackson’s first grade teacher and her kind influence on him. Carol & I send our heart-felt condolences.
Jack
Michael Jones
January 17, 2021
Amy -- My condolences to you and the family on Randy's passing. The image that I will remember of Randy is that always welcoming smile regardless of where we crossed paths. He will live on in that image and in the legacy created with the family.
Molly “Jacobs” Stevens
January 16, 2021
Although the fight is not yet over for me. You my sir are a true warrior.
Elizabeth Gilley
January 16, 2021
I have such fond memories of your family from our Hanes Park tennis days. It has been my pleasure to know you and your wonderful family. My prayers always.
Rob Cordell
January 16, 2021
Amy and family,
Just heard about Randy’s passing...
Absolutely stunned! I always loved you both and please know that you are in our constant thoughts and prayers.
Rob & Sherri Cordell
Pat Gay
January 15, 2021
Amy, David, Andrew and Banks - I am sincerely sorry to hear that Randy has left this earth that he dearly loved. He is in a much better place sitting beside our lord with no pain and the angels singing. I always enjoyed seeing your family back in the day. May you all find peace in the compassion and care you provided during his illness. Prayers for you all. Much love, Pat Gay, Hunton & Williams.