Hector Big Bear Alcantar Jr.

May 14, 1985April 2, 2011

Arrangements under the direction of Redwood Chapel, Redwood City, CA.


  • Rosary Service Friday, April 8, 2011
  • Funeral Service Saturday, April 9, 2011
  • Committal Service Saturday, April 9, 2011

Hector Big Bear Alcantar Jr.

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Elizabeth Gomez

March 30, 2012

Forever grateful friend

January 8, 2012

Hector, you were always a very kind and considerate person. Your sense of humor and intelligence were many of your great qualities. I am glad to have met you. I hope that you rest in peace my friend.

Monica Alcantar

September 10, 2011

there are so many things I still wish to say, but I still cannot come up with the words to express how I feel...

I just want to thank you for being such a great father and husband! God couldn't have blessed me with a better soulmate... As you already know, I love you with all my heart and soul! I am also very happy that we "ended up together" and that although we couldn't have as many kids as we wanted to, God blessed us with our very special "sun". I hope he is as great as you!

I will always love you, Hector and please never forget that. I am looking forward to the day that I get to see you again so that we may walk "hand in hand" once again, God willing... but in the meantime, I will happily accept the time that God grants me on this earth to watch over our "sun" and try and guide him in a good path.

Please continue to watch over us as you did here on earth and as I am sure you are doing from Heaven.

Te amo and may you be resting in peace beside our Loving Father!

I love you! Always and Forever!

sincerely and whole-heartedly,

your wife,


P.S. Thank you for choosing me and making me Mrs. Alcantar!

Stephanie Alcantar

April 20, 2011

God had no one better than you to find.
He saw that you were strong.
He saw that you never gave up.
He saw that you were one of a kind.
He always saw how thoughtful you were.
He saw that you never left your wife nor son alone.
Then he said "Hector,I saw you From El Cielo,I saw that you never gave up...Im seeing how you loved your wife and son..."
So don't worry you will always be in our hearts forever and ever and ever!So keep that in mind big bro,so just remember that everyone saw you and said "What a strong man"
You were a Cancer Fighter and no one felt your pain but every day and every night your friends and family said "Oh,how does Hector deal with this pain,why couldn't it be someone else but not Hector"But every day and every night you said you were feeling better and we always believed u so dont think negative , think positive...You were always a great brother,son,father,cousin,nephew,and much more and you still are!God saw u again and said " Hector your suffering to much,you r strong,you never gave up,I'm surprised ,but it's time for you to join me,you wont suffer here,soon your family and friends will be here with you, and will never leave your side" You will be missed Big Bro,We love you!! I'll see you soon!!
You sis Stephy

Elizabeth Gomez-Chavez

April 19, 2011

We miss you and love you thank you for been the greatest friend god has ever blessed me.

Angie Alcantar

April 19, 2011

Primo, estaras siempre presente en cada oracion y cada uno de los recuerdos de todos los que te amamos, doy gracias a Dios por la oportunidad de conocerte antes de usar las alas que Cristo mismo te regalo y que te han llevado hasta su presencia. Con amor Angelica, Salvador Jr. y Jonathan.

Arlene Naranjo

April 19, 2011

Thank you for always making us laugh & giving me the advice you gave me when I needed it. You were a distant yet close friend of mine. love & respect homie!

Janet Quintana

April 10, 2011

Hector,you will always live in our hearts, we thank god for giving us the privilege of being part of your life, love your aunt Janet and uncle george


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