Donna Marie Finnigan

God welcomed a very special angel on Friday, October 17, 2025, as our beloved Donna Marie Finnigan (nee Carlson) left us just weeks before her 102nd birthday. Living more than a century is an achievement in itself, but Donna didn’t just live long – she lived fully, with grace, humor, and a spirit that was uniquely her own.

Donna was a woman who knew what she liked and what she didn’t – and she made sure you knew it, too. Her love for a strong half cup of black coffee was legendary, and she had a discerningly sweet palate that kept us all on our toes. She delighted in Mariners baseball, could conquer any number or word puzzle you put in front of her, and had a very sharp mind.

Her life story is remarkable. Born in North Dakota to Gust and Agnes Carlson, Donna was the eldest of three children. As a young woman, she served her country in the military and was stationed in the Philippines – a harrowing chapter that speaks to her courage and sense of adventure and duty. She returned home, made her way to the west coast, met and married Albert at age 29, and raised two wonderful daughters (Jan and Debbie). Her love and legacy extends to two sons-in-law, four grandchildren (and their spouses), and six great-grandchildren, all of whom carry a piece of her warmth, strength, and grit.

Donna had quirks that made her unforgettable. She loved a ritual as much as she loved being cozy – her matching nightgown, robe, and slippers, never a bright color, were always a highlight to see. She had a standing hair appointment on Wednesdays or Saturdays, always the same style and color, with soft pink nails to match. She maintained several Scandinavian traditions from her heritage and embraced many Irish ones upon becoming a Finnigan, weaving together a family culture that was rich and meaningful. She loved decorating her porch and then her doorway for each holiday, and, despite how many times we gave her new sets of sheets or towels, she stayed true to a set of blue cotton towels for probably 55+ years. Some might call this kind of behavior stubbornness – we like to call it commitment. Another hallmark Donna-ism was how she retained her Midwest accent after being away for so long. Her pronunciation of “Warshington” was unparalleled.

As we reflect on her life, we invite you to recall the moments that made you smile, laugh, or feel loved by her. What stories did she tell that you’ll never forget? What sayings run through your mind with Donna’s voice anchored to them? What games did she always win? Did she ever accuse you of cheating? What foods, sounds, smells, or sights remind you of her? These memories are the threads that keep her spirit alive among us.

Donna’s life was a testament to resilience, love, and individuality. Though we miss her deeply, we carry her legacy forward – in our traditions, in our laughter, and in the way we care for one another.