She was so humble, soft spoken, patient, kind, generous, and her heart overflowed with unconditional love for others. Her selfless character truly reflected that of her Savior, Christ Jesus. She had an unforgettable smile that would bring comfort to those around her. She is so greatly missed by many.
On September 16, 2020 in Seattle, Washington, Koy Hiang Saeliow (age 75) was reunited with her adoring husband of 49 years, Seng Kouan Saechao in heaven as her granddaughter, Nadia sat by her side during her peaceful sleep. Koy was predeceased by her sisters, Mui Hiang and Fuey Hiang. She is survived by her brothers, Chan Hin and Chan Wa; her sisters, Kae Hiang, Yian Hiang, Farm Hiang, and Nging Chieng; and her children, Muang Kouan, Lily (Shi), Elizabeth (Michael), Nai Kouan (Muang Fin), Chai Kouan, Fouei Kouan (Sanh), and John. Koy will also be remembered by her 29 grandchildren and 9 great grandchildren as well as all those who loved her.
Koy was born on April 14, 1945 in Louang Namtha, Laos to Chiem Hiang Saelio and Nai Liam Saefong. She had two stepmothers, Farm Cho and Lai Yao. At a very young age she met her husband, Seng Kouan, who believed she was the most beautiful woman and often praised about her beauty to others. He earned her hand in marriage by working for her parents for three years and they married in 1960. Koy came to know the Lord after her third eldest daughter, Elizabeth became severely ill in 1975. Life was not easy for Koy, but her strength came from the Lord and she learned that God’s grace had been upon her through all her trials. Escaping the Secret War in Laos, Koy and her family took refuge in Thailand until 1980 when they were approved to come to the United States. They first landed in Washington, but after a short time her family resettled in California where Koy attended English and Reading classes in Berkley. She earned her citizenship in 1996. As her children moved out of state, she eventually followed; first to Oregon and then returning to Washington where she lived with her youngest daughter, Fouei Kouan who cared for her with much love during the last years of her life. Koy was excited to be able to travel and experience Hawaii in 2009 before she left to be with the Lord.
One of the greatest lessons Koy taught her eldest son, Chai was forgiveness. She taught him the importance of mending broken bridges and he will be forever grateful. Her daughter, Elizabeth remembers the life-long lessons taught by her mother, always forgive and extend love, especially to your family members; and always care for those who are less fortunate.
Koy was talented in gardening, embroidery, and hand stitching. She loved reading the bible as well as communing in praise and worship. Koy enjoyed watching Chinese folklore, creating, and listening to traditional storytelling Iu-Mienh songs.
Koy will be laid to rest beside her husband, Seng Kouan at the Greenwood Memorial Park- Renton, WA.
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