OBITUARY
Irene Rose Singer
March 12, 1938 – January 8, 2021
Irene Rose Singer was born on March 12, 1938 in Manuelito, New Mexico. She died peacefully in hospice care at the residence of her daughter Michelle in Portland, Oregon on January 8, 2021 surrounded by loved ones. She was a wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, relative and friend.
Irene is survived by her two daughters [Marcie (Josh) and Michelle], grandchildren [Cody (Suzy), Elijah (Maria), Jaliene (Chalen), Shaelee], great-grandchildren (Sam, Sophia, Celeste), daughter in-law (Carolyn) and many relatives. She is preceded in death by her husband (Samuel), two sons (Morales and Michael), parents (John and Maggie Billy), and siblings (stillborn Sister, John Scott Billy, Mary Billy, Tully Billy, John Begay, John Kenneth Billy).
Ten years ago in 2011, her youngest son and beloved husband of 51 years both passed within a 3 ½ month span. In 2021, her surviving son Michael had an unexpected, sudden death two days prior to her transition. There is no doubt that a powerful bond exists between a parent and a child. The two sets are reunited with their Heavenly Father and loved ones.
Irene was a full-blooded Navajo enrolled citizen of the Navajo Nation. She was from the To’dichii’nii’ (Bitter Water) Clan born for the Táchii'nii (Red Running into the Water) Clan. Her maternal grandmother and mother called her by her Navajo name which translates to “Warrior Woman with Shield” as she was strong, fearless and resilient in character and in life. She attended Chemawa Indian School in the 1950s where she met the love of her life, Sam, and then worked at Chemawa in home living and food service capacities. She retired from Federal Service after a lengthy career. Irene was a longtime resident of Salem and a member of Calvary Baptist Church for 60 years where she was baptized, married and raised four children with her husband.
Irene was very proud to be Native and was deeply rooted in her cultural heritage. She spoke the Navajo language, her first language, fluently on a daily basis with her husband, Sam, and amongst fellow Navajo speakers. She always wanted to be amongst and to celebrate with the Native community whenever and wherever she could all of her life as cultural connection was her Warrior Woman shield.
She was a grandmother and with her husband supported her son Morales and his three children while he was a stay-at-home parent and caregiver to them. When Morales was tragically killed, she and Sam became guardians of his children in order to keep the cultural value of family-centered, alive. Sam’s passing left her a widow, never abandoning her infinite love for her children, grandchildren and in the last three years, great-grandchildren. To her family, she is known as “Shima” (My Mom in Navajo) and the matriarch. In the last few years and in her last days, she was “Warrior Woman with Shield” -- fighting to live – but she lives on in spirit with her legacy through the next generations. She emphasized the Navajo teaching of remembering where you come from, its importance in life and to value connections in life as gifts. She led by that example every day. Today, she lives on in those who were blessed to have met her.
To honor her, a public viewing and live stream will be held Saturday, January 16, 2021 at 12 p.m. to 4 pm at Howell-Edwards-Doerksen Funeral Home in Salem, Oregon. Visit Irene’s Dignity Memorial website to offer condolences and memories for the family and to join live stream.
A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date at Calvary Baptist Church.
Services
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Visitation
Saturday, January 16, 2021
Memories
Irene Rose Singer
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ADD A MEMORYRenee Reynolds
January 21, 2021
Ireane was a very sweet lady. I remember when it was hot and sunny outside I would take her out and she would love it. We would sit there and she would tell me stories about her family. I will miss her. God Bless you my dear ❤️
Michelle Singer
January 17, 2021
My mom and dad were married 51 years. Here are some items to cherish the love.
Michelle Singer
January 17, 2021
My mom’s little things in life she enjoyed - a work out, music and sports!
Michelle Singer
January 17, 2021
Irene Singer’s Chemawa Indian School memorabilia.
Avis Singer
January 16, 2021
My fondest memory of aunt Irene, she was such a huge wrestling enthusiast. Once the show began her eyes would be sparkling and she would be yelling at the wrestlers. Once I asked her why? She simply gave me that WTH look and said “that’s my show!” At that Marcus says, She’s (Avis) is lying she’s a huge John Cena fan!
Irene, didn’t pass up the opportunity to do the John Cena signature move.
I laughed at that.
I also remember she was a huge Trump supporter...lol (NOT)!!!! That was one man that made her blood boil. Only time I’ve ever heard my elder cuss.
It was good knowing Auntie Irene Singer. God bless and Rest In Peace.
Michael Singer was the life of the party. My earliest memory was him taking us out to swim. I had never worn a swimsuit and my parents got me one in Oregon, just so I could go to the lake with my cousins.
I was scared having never been swimming before. I took my clothes off and was ready to swim and Mike said, “whoa your whiter than me!” My self conscious self was like what? This young Navajo didn’t know she was not tanned.
Next we try to learn to float I think we drank more water that day, cuz I was car sick by the time we got back to Uncle Sam’s place.
While we shower and clean up ourselves he and Rales grilled up a storm and I had my first taste of teriyaki marinated chicken. My first introduction of food spices. Puff was the tour guide and Shelly had her carrot top BF.
At our last meeting he said of Katelynn, hey is that Roach??” I had forgotten all about that nickname for Katelynn’s momma (Rachel).
By the way we had a cookout at Irene’s apartment.
Till we meet again Mike and Rest In Peace.
Laura White
January 16, 2021
2020 Salem, OR
I am so glad I was able to visit with Irene more this past year. This particular visit involved an Oregon Ducks Women’s Basketball game, marionberry pie, and like always, lots of love and laughter.
Forty years of memories is hard to sum up, but I will forever remember Irene, Grandma Dear, and her memory will always bring a smile to me.
Much love to the whole family,
Laura, Chris and Lyla
Laura White
January 16, 2021
Eugene, Oregon
2005
Wedding Shower
This was such a fun time—I wish I had more pictures. Sam and Irene were like peas and carrots—so glad they are together again. ♥️ (And Michelle was the the best maid of honor ever!!!)
Shauna Hohenstein
January 16, 2021
Shima,
Thank you for your deep wisdom. Thank you for extending that deep wisdom and love to my son and I, as if we were one of your own.
Thank you for teaching me to cook, to honor my husband and family, and for your strength in standing in truth when it was too hard for many of us to admit.
Shima, you were the strongest woman I have ever known and you will always be honored in my heart.
háá nilyį́į́h
Bryan Mercier
January 16, 2021
My family and I will miss Irene "Shima" Singer often. When we are at the Grand Ronde Pow Wow, we'll look over at the Elder seating and expect to see a crafty Navajo smile. When we drive through Salem, we'll instinctively want to stop by for a visit. When we're in ABQ, we'll want to check if she's in town. We'll mostly miss her the authenticity and fondness she showed us. She always made us feel like we were the center of the universe. We love Shima and will miss her often.
Michelle Osborne
January 15, 2021
Happy memories from the 2012 wedding of Nichole and Edward held in Parkdale, Oregon. Your mom was an absolute doll. Much love to the Singer clan during this time of tremendous changes. Much love and respect, Michelle/ Hum me hum me sh (Turtle Dove)
Carolyn Singer
January 15, 2021
Words can’t begin to describe my mother in law, Irene Rose Singer.
She was an amazing woman who brought four beautiful souls into this world with Samuel Cody Singer.
Irene endured more in five short months than most people encounter in a lifetime.
She lost two sons before her passing, her youngest child, Morales, father of three of her grandchildren, Cody, Elijah, and Jaliene Singer.
Michael, her second child, was my husband, the father of my 17 year old daughter, Shaelee Singer, unexpectedly passed away shortly after being admitted to the hospital 48 hours before Irene’s passing.
Irene is survived by her daughters Marcie Singer Rivera and Michelle Singer who share the same strength and resiliency as their mother.
I hope they can find peace in Mike and Irene’s passing knowing they’re making the journey to their final destination together.
May you both Rest In Peace.
Michelle Singer
January 15, 2021
In April 2020, my mother (Shima Irene) was immortalized in the very first Native American COVID-19 Public Service Announcement meant to educate and to help prevent the spread of the virus to other American Indian & Alaska Natives by practicing safe distancing protecting one another, especially our elders -- our Wisdom Keepers.
A YouTube video titled "Exercise Safe Sweats" was done. It reached over 100K views and was considered one of the most creative and innovative videos done reaching across Indian Country & Alaska. I was proud to have been a part of this video with my mom. She knew the importance of its use and was so very cute in reading her lines! Her voice, her smile and her face will always be remembered with this priceless memorable video.
You can watch the Exercise Safe Sweats video at this link: https://youtu.be/OysNk-fUY6w
Michelle Singer
January 15, 2021
Michelle Singer
January 15, 2021
Joan Massey
January 14, 2021
Irene always had a smile on her face. Her loving personality shone in her eyes. We know we'll see her again in heaven. What a reunion she's enjoying right now with the family that went before her! Praise God for her life! Praise God for eternal life with Him! Know that while you miss her now you have God's promise that you WILL see her again!
Rev. Curt McCormack
January 14, 2021
The Singer family was always so friendly and upbeat. Irene was a difinite example of her middle name in the beauty she brought with her wherever she went. I offer memorial blessings to the family.
Jalinda Bejang
January 14, 2021
Words seem so feeble in moments like these. Life is so precious and death such a thief. The depths of your pain I cannot comprehend but I will keep you and your loved ones in my prayers. Love is a bond that death cannot part. Shima is gone from our arms but still held in our hearts.
I am praying that God will grant you the strength you need to face the sad occasion, and that He will give you comfort and healing for the loss of a loved ones. My condolences go out to you and your family for the loss of your loved ones. I am sorry to hear the loss of your brother too. God called home another faithful saint.
Irene I will see u on the other side one day. May you Rest In Peace.
Evelyn Gatlin
January 13, 2021
I always enjoyed visiting with your Mom and Dad at Calvary Baptist! They were two very special people, much loved at Calvary. My very sincere sympathy for not only the loss of your Mom but also brother Michael within a week. You were such gracious caregivers for your Mom, and at my age I know just how much Irene appreciated that. My prayers will continue to be with you and your families as you mourn.
Love, Evelyn Gatlin
Don Watson
January 13, 2021
Sending our love to Michelle, Marcie and your extended family. It was such a privilege to know your mother and have missed your father and brother these last 10 years. We were so sorry to hear of Michael’s passing so suddenly.
May you experience God’s love and peace.
Don & Linda Watson