I dont know what made me look him up tonight . Maybe to see how he was doing. Im not sure, but I wasnt expecting this.   

RIP Benny.   Your old friend Joker

'Benny Bear, it's mom again. Can't believe a year has already gone by. Sometimes it feels just like yesterday you left us, sometimes an eternity. I was just remembering our Miami trip with Trey and Travis. It was 2008 before Becky. We had so much fun, a whole week of fun in Orlando, Miami & Florida Keys. You were my buddy again like that trip when you were 12. Travis was in the hotel room at the Wyndham while we swam in the pool with Trey. It was kareoke night and you talked me into singing Amarillo by morning with you. We laughed and we danced to a fast song. We met a lady who had met your dad at a AFSA convention .the next day there was a Wild Animal Show there, we really enjoyed that. Then you drove us to the Florida Keys. Remember that place where you could swim with dolphins? We ate at your favorite seafood restaurant and Cuban subs. That was the best vacation I've had since your dad passed. So glad we got to go together! When you were 12 we drove from Nashville to the Mall of America, Chicago, all the way up to Diluth Minnesota in my red Mustang. Another great time. I wish you were here to go on trips with me and your sons. You were the sweetest, cutest child ever!! Wait for me in Heaven, we miss you. Mom, Casen,Cenlan'

'Benny, my son always. I miss you so much.i long to give you a hug and never let go. I never told you enough how proud I was of you, I never said I love you enough I just figured you knew. Thank you for choosing me to be your mother. You were never really mine, you belonged to God. Thank him for loaning you to me. You were the cute test, smartest, love able baby ever! You are my Benny Bear. How do I go on without you? I cry every day. We wasted and lost so much time. I hope you are with your daddy and grandpa Curtis. Send me some comfort , some peace, some rest .You came into this world beautiful and left also beautiful.You are loved, you are missed. Your sons planted a flower garden for their daddy. We watch the video of you when Casen was one yr. and Trey at Splashtown over and over. You were so excited about our Miami trip. You will be forever in my heart, mind & soul my baby boy. I love you, mom'

'Dear Brenda, Mac and I just learned about your great loss. No mother should have to bury their child. We are so very sorry and pray that your time of grief will soon give way to happy memories of one you loved so much. Please know that we are available if you need anything. Stepping heavenward, Mac and Linda'

'We are truly saddened to hear of Benny's passing; He was such a light to the world, always shining bright and full of life. Our heartfelt condolences go out to all of Benny's family and friends - may you find Peace and Courage to face the days ahead and Comfort in memories.'

'Brenda, I am so very sorry for the loss of your son, word's can not express the sorrow I feel for you and his children. I love you....your cousin Kaye'

'Benny I am saddened deeply that this is how we are crossing paths and meeting for the first time. Travis has told me so many beautiful great stories about you! He loves you so much and truly wanted the best for you! He misses you tremendously and is trying hard to understand your early departure. Please watch our him, your boys and all of your family! You are loved!'

'Benny you will be missed by all that you touched, condolences go out to the family, prayers to give you comfort nd strength. May you RIP.'

'I was coming to say goodbye for now Little Benny. I couldn't. I want to remember you the way you were. I don't think I will ever get over you leaving this life. So unexpected, such a shock. I love you so much. I remember you selling programs for your brothers and Crystals singing debut. And you did. You were always ambitious and smart. So sweet and kind, fun to be around. The world has lost a great man, leaving behind yr mom Brenda,Curtis & Travis and fiance Becky, your wonderful children. I will never forget yr love for me that I will carry forever in my heart. I love you Little Benny. Love forever, Aunt Debbie'

'I love you cousin Benny. I know you are smiling down on all of us.'

'Please accept our heartfelt love and condolences. Call us any time.

'Benny Jr I love you so very much. Even though we are cousins you were more then that to me. You were a brother. You always put a smile on my face.'

OBITUARY

Benny Woodrow McGehee, Jr.

April 25, 1981 – July 15, 2014

Porter Loring Mortuary - McCullough

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