Connie Lynn Haynes

Connie Lynn Haynes, a loving mother, grandmother, sister and friend to many, passed away and went to be with our Lord on July 25, 2026, in San Antonio, Texas, at the age of 82. She was born on July 22, 1944, in Wichita, Kansas to Lucille Green and Boyd Snodgrass. After WWII, her mother married Howard Kistler who became Connie’s dad and raised her. In high school they moved to Perry, Oklahoma where she graduated in 1962.

Connie was a firm believer, always acknowledging God as the sovereign creator throughout her salvation journey in this life. Her greatest joy on earth was spending time with family. She treasured the moments they shared together and took tremendous pride in watching her grandsons do life, never missing an opportunity to experience exciting events and so many milestones with them along the way.

For years, Connie worked as a bookkeeper and secretary from her days at Sooner’s Corner truck stop and Ditch Witch in Perry, Oklahoma in the 70’s and early 80’s to the oil and gas industry in South Texas in the mid 80’s as well as in Enid, Oklahoma in the late 80’s and 90’s. She was known for her strong work ethic, sharp mind, attention to detail, and dedication to a high standard of professionalism. Her reliability and warm personality earned the respect and friendship of her many co-workers over the years. Connie and Bob Haynes retired back to the Texas coast in 1998 when they moved one last time to Austwell. Bob and Connie purchased an old 1930’s home and with the help of long-time family friends, the Huffman’s, Cantrell’s, and others they refurbished it into a coastal oasis (except for a few hurricanes). It was here that Connie found refuge and felt truly at home, where every morning she could sit peacefully and look out her windows as the sun would rise slowly over the bay. Their front porch became a gathering place for many family and friends over the years. The people of Austwell and surrounding communities take care of one another, and this had a significant impact on Connie (and family) for the rest of her life.

Connie possessed a quick wit and contagious sense of humor. She made sure everyone around her had fun and she always made you feel comfortable. If you ever spent time with Connie, you were immediately aware that she was one of a kind. Connie enjoyed many activities including boating, fishing, playing pool and card games, she loved every aspect of coastal life (except the skeeters), she took solitude in reading and writing. Later in life, her daily routine consisted of watching Jeopardy, the news and wheel of fortune every evening without fail.

She is preceded in death by her parents; husband, Bob Haynes; son, Scott Lee Hawthorn; brothers Jack Snodgrass and Gerry Kistler.

Connie is survived by her son, Jeff Hawthorn and his wife, Debbie; grandsons, Spencer and Zachary Hawthorn; sister, Cindy Allred and numerous nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.

Connie chose cremation and the family will host a memorial in her honor at a later time.

In lieu of flowers, consider donating in Connie’s honor to one of her favorite coastal organizations:

Harte Research Institute https://www.harteresearch.org/