Dorothy Julia Remo

Remo passed away peacefully on July 14th, 2022 , surrounded by her loved ones, after battling a courageous fight with Myelodysplastic Syndrome (Cancer of the Bone Marrow).

Dot was born on February 8th, 1955 in Mount Vernon, New York to Gerald and Viola Lange.

She had a tough childhood that taught her very early how to be strong and hold her own but also how to trust in God and see his hand in all things. Raised humbly in Queens, New York, she was the third of 7 children. As a teen, she worked for Belmont Park Race Track in Elmont, New York where she walked the horses. She was working there in 1973 when the horse Secretariat won the Triple Crown, and earned his fame. She met the love of her life, Raymond Remo in Jan 1970 when she was just 14 years old. To Ray, she was the most beautiful girl he had ever seen and he fell deeply for her.

They lost touch a couple years later when her family moved to Wappinger Falls. She joined the United States Navy in 1974 where she trained as an Aviation's Technician. Never forgetting about Dot, Ray reached out to her while she was in the navy in 1975. Even though they had lost touch for several years, she flew out to him, and within days were married in a spontaneous and perfect mountainside wedding in Utah. They stayed in Utah where she was able to be near her sister Kathie Palazzolo for many years.

Through 47 years of marriage, Ray did not leave her side, waiting on her hand and foot and taking care of her many medical needs. He entertained even her most quirky moments and celebrated her pizazz for life. She felt truly blessed to have such a faithful, loving husband and best friend by her side. Due to many health challenges she faced during her time in the Navy, Dot was given an honorable military discharge in 1976. In February of 1977 she gave birth to twin girls, Karen and Michelle who kept her on her toes at all times. If she turned her head for one second, her girls were wrapping the entire kitchen in multiple boxes of saran wrap, putting each other in the clothes dryer and turning it on, hiding under a blanket in the middle of a busy street, bringing home all sorts of animal life, dead or alive. Through all the craziness, she handled motherhood with so much love and patience. Her daughters remember fondly how often and freely she gave hugs. Always a soothing comfort and an act of love that will be missed dearly. Dot loved Thrift Store shopping and enjoyed meeting Karen and Michelle there to look for trinkets. They were often the recipient of random items and clothing Dot would find while out shopping. Something that always brought a smile to their face with warm affection. Dot was as tough and free spirited as they come and truly had no fear. Her spunk for life was evident in all she did. She once rode straight down a mountain on a dirt bike with no brakes while she was pregnant. She was a gifted artist and incredible musician. As a young Mom she could be heard rocking out at home or in worship service on her electric guitar with Ray at the drums. She loved music and was self taught in many different instruments including the Violin and Mandolin. She would spend her days reading the bible and continually developing a close relationship with the Lord. He gave her so many miracles and was the source of her strength. In her free time you could always find her writing poems, drawing, painting or creating something new. Her talented art pieces won her many awards through the VA art program including 1st place at the VA National competition in 2015. She loved the Stepping Stones program at the VA and made many friends during her time there. Dot had the ability to light up the room with her spark of life, beautiful smile, contagious laughter and positive attitude. She suffered much but you would never know because she radiated sunshine no matter what she went through! She was a true and loyal friend to all that knew her and was deeply loved by many.

She will lovingly be remembered by her husband Raymond Remo, daughters Michelle (Cameron) Wolfley and Karen Heaton and Todd Heaton. Grandchildren, Logan, Ryler, Andin, Shayla, Noel, Cole, Maddix, Lilly, and Adelyn. Sisters Kathie (Tom) Palazzolo, Alice (John) Miller, Peggy (Jim) Jorum and Brothers Tom (Liz) Lange, Bill Lange and Jerry (Mary) Lange. In-laws, Raymond and Donna Remo, Sister in law Sue Ardito (Doug), Brother in law Chris Remo, Aunt Judy (Skip), Uncle Fred (Janet), Uncle Leonard (Barbara), and many nephews, nieces and extended family.

Dot is preceded in death by her parents Gerald and Viola Lange.

Dot will be buried at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery in San Antonio Texas on July 28th where she will receive full military honors for her service in the Navy. Any friends or family that would like to attend, her viewing and funeral services will be held that morning at Sunset Northwest 6321 Bandera Rd, San Antonio, TX 78238. Viewing is from 9:30-12:30. Service is from 12:30-1:30. Burial Service at Fort Sam will be at 2:30 pm.