

Erika Rios, born on September 26, 1972, in San Antonio, Texas, was called to be with the Lord on May 14, 2025, at the age of 52. She was preceded in death by her beloved grandmother, Consuelo Gonzales, whose guiding spirit, and nurturing presence paved the way for Erika’s role as a caregiver in the family and uncle Fernando Gonzales.
Erika is survived by her parents, (Mother) Alice Rojas (stepfather) Enio Rojas and (Father) Jorge L. Rios, (stepmother) Graciela Rios; the love of her life for 20 years, Carlos Velarde; (stepchildren) Carlos, JoJo and Sabrina. Siblings, Richard, Priscilla, Cassandra, Dennise, Justin, and Celeste Talamantez, Jorge I Rios jr., Rosa Linda Alexander (spouse) Timothy Alexander, Francisco Javier Rios (spouse) Marsha Rios, her legacy of love extends to her cherished nieces and nephews: Amaya, Evan, Ricky, Amelia, Mia, Ethan, Noah, Aaron, Marcus, Sophia, Timothy, Emma, Juliet, and Gael. The roles of her Aunt Norma J. Resendez (with spouse Carlos Pereida) and Uncle Andrew Gonzales rounded out this expansive family network, showcasing the importance of belonging and togetherness that Erika held dear throughout her life.
The essence of Erika’s character was her generosity. Described as the "shirt off her back" type of person, as she often put others' needs before her own. Holidays and family gatherings were occasions she treasured, where she made it a point to keep traditions alive through her delicious cooking. Whether it was a birthday celebration or a festive holiday feast, Erika poured her heart into every meal—nourishing both the bodies and souls of her loved ones.
She was known for her remarkable ability to ensure that every person felt valued and loved. A natural caregiver, she had a gift for making everyone feel at home, whether they were friends in need or family members seeking guidance during difficult times. She was a source of unconditional love, and she was often a refuge where laughter reigned supreme. She was a big jokester, but someone who could connect with people instantly, often sharing moments filled with joy—like the countless evenings she spent listening to Bruno Mars on repeat with her nieces and nephews. Her humor and warmth drew others to her, as she had an innate ability to bring a smile even on the darkest of days.
Her legacy of love and the values she championed will endure in the memories shared and the stories told, forever reminding us of the incredible woman she was. In these difficult times, let us gather to honor Erika’s remarkable spirit and celebrate the legacy of love she leaves behind. She will be dearly missed, but her memory will forever illuminate our lives.
A Visitation will be held on Wednesday, May 21, 2025 from 4:00 PM - 10:00 PM at Trevino Funeral Home, 2525 Palo Alto Rd, 78211 with a Rosary to be held at 7:00 PM. On Thursday, May 22, 2025 a procession will depart at 9:30 AM for Mass to begin at 10:00 AM at St. Joseph (So. San) Catholic Church.
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