Here we are 13 years later and still can’t find the words. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about you. I miss your smile, laugh, and huge heart. It seems like yesterday we were together and constantly making each other laugh. I keep replaying all of my memories with you and smile. You were and are a huge part of my life that will never be forgotten. I talk to you all the time and I hope you hear me and are listening. I remember the last time I saw and hugged you, I should have hugged you tighter that day and told you how much I love you as I did not think it would be the last. I love you so much and miss you. 

Happy St. Patrick’s Day and I know it’s for favorite and coming in a couple days. 

Love you,
Erin

'Here we are again on the third Mother's day without you. We will be going out to the cemetery to visit you and grandma. Miss you and love you very much. Dad'

'Well tomorrow was going to be your birthday. You would have been 36. I think back on this day in 1978 and all that went on with your mother and me. We were so excited about your birth. I also remember going to the delivery room to see you for the first time. You looked like a little red worm in a blanket. How could I have known at that time what all you would have meant to me and what it has been like without you. We all miss you so very much. Can hardly wait to see you again. Love you sonny boy, Dad.'

'I once heard it said as long as you are remembered you are still alive. 
If this is in fact true, you'll be alive as long as I am. On our second Mothers Day without you. Judy always has a hard time especially on Mother's Day concerning you. Love you forever son, Dad.'

'I miss you with my whole heart my sweet brother and friend. I have not stopped thinking of you and miss your laughter and silly jokes. I know you are having fun in heaven but I still miss you so much. Seth and Syrus miss you too. I love you.'

'Coming up on a year and a day hasn't passed by that I haven't missed yoy. Love dad'

'Jeff was a neighbor of mine for a couple of years. He was such a great guy-- giving, thoughtful, with a fantastic sense of humor. Rest in peace, Jeff.'

'Wow i just found out rest in peace brother. U meant a whole lot to a whole lot of people'

'Well here we are two and a half months of you being gone, and we are still struggling with your loss. I did have a short dream of you a couple of nights ago. Didn't make much sense to me, but I was glad to have it anyway. I still have your bank account open just in case you come back. If you do, I'll buy you another Crown Vic that will go faster. God we miss you son. Dad and Judy.'

'I am so heartbroken. He was like a brother to me. I know that he will be ordering the angels around. I was wondering why he wasn't calling me back the last couple of weeks. My son's Syrus and Seth will miss him so much. He brought me flowers when I had my first child. Jeff, I love you and am going to miss your silly jokes. I love you and will see you in Heaven!'

'Sorry to hear of your son's passing; I very well know 'it isn't easy losing a child.' My heart goes out to both of you'

'Robert, 
I am so sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do, please call me.'

'You have left a lasting impression on us all friend.'

'Jeff, You were only a boy of about 10 years old when we met. Even then the Irish in you was evident with your blarney and your charm...and it stayed with you always to light up rooms and warm the hearts of all who knew you. We all love you and will forever miss the wonderful man that you became.'

'I don't want to believe that you are gone, but I know that we will see you again one day. Until that day you are and will be always unforgettable. I love you, brother. Wish I could hug you goodbye again.'

'My prayers are with you and all of your family members during the time of sadness. 
I know Jeffrey will be missed so much. God will give you the strength to get throught these tough times.'

'Jeff, 
you were a beloved friend of Patrick and Catherine.

'Jeff was an amazing young man. By the time I met him he was trying to come to college (SAC)where I was one of his counselors. Ironically, I had worked as a counselor at the Healy-Murphy Center where Jeff graduated. Different years .. but ironic. Jeff went through his ordeal with grace & for that he is to be commended. 'm sad for him but happy the pain is over. Bless your heart Jeff. Rest in peace.'

'Erin and I were just on the phone, trying to understand all of this... We talked about how you were with your mom, and saying hello to my sis.. We spoke of all the great times we had together, and the special times you two had... The time in Austin when you drove limos, and you and Calvin went home on new years eve and Erin and I got lost trying to find my car lol! And the the time you guys brought snickers home as a baby ;) we love you Jeff! Don't worry, I'll keep an eye on Erin ;) and make sure she's ok always! As I know you will also no as her angel in the kingdom of heaven! Don't forget about those pennies ;) xoxoxoxo one day we will all be together and it will be like the old days, me and you like bro and sis! You and Erin sharing beautiful stories... Now go visit Ireland!!!! XO'

'I am still so deeply saddened by your passing. I am so glad I was able to see your handsome face not too long ago. You and I have been friends since we were in 9th grade (math class). I am forever grateful to have had you in my life. I will never forget you and the smiles you caused my face to have. I love you, Jeff. Please tell Robert hi for me. Until we meet again......'

'Our prayers are with you all. Time and memories will help you heal. Love you all......Gena & LG'

'I have no words except that your spirit will live on inside all of us forever.'

'I cant believe your gone babe, all that replays in my mind is your smooth raspy voice saying how ok things are in life....now your not here, and things dont feel ok. Your missed by many, so i know your gonna be a busy angel. Gods Speed babe, may we meet again.'

'Jeff, 
I knew you in high school. What a super cool dude you were. Could always bring a smile to someones face. You will be missed.'

'Jeff you will be missed. I am thankful to know you growing up in life. Always funny and always treated my family with the upmost respect. For that I will always be thankful to you my friend. My condolences to you and your family.'

'I will never forget you! You always shook my hand and made me laugh when you visited my work. The day before you passed I was just thinking about you and how you hadn't come in for quite a while... Truly sad you are gone, you will be missed by your many friends and family. See you again on the other side! -"Dark Princess"'

'I'm glad I meet you Jeff you've changed the way I look at my life I hope to see you again some day'

'I met Jeff thru Erin and I am glad I did. Jeff was one of the funniest people I have ever met and I loved hearing his stories he made everyone feel like he knew them for years. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.'

'We regret that you are gone. We know there were many days you were in pain; but in that pain you kept a positive attitude, and counted your blessings. Although your heart no longer beats in the physical realm, your light shines bright, and your love shines upon us. Thank you for uplifting us, guiding us, blessing our marriage, and our lives with your presence. Thanks for giving selflessly to those around you. You are now one of the many angels you often talked about. God Bless until we meet again, We Love You!'

'I'm at a loss for words My friend. Gonna miss your smiley face Jeffrey! Until we meet again RIP darling.'

'Jeff, I have been Erin's best friend for 18 years and I am so glad she introduced me to you so long ago! You made such a wonderful impact on her and I thank you for that! You truely are one of a kind! You always made me laugh! Everytime I saw you, you had a smile on your face, no matter what! I hadn't seen you in a couple years, and when I ran into you just a couple months ago, you still had that charming smile! You will never be forgotten and very missed!'

'Dearest Jeffery, I can't begin to express how hard your passing has been on the Cooper family. We had not been friends very long, but we were family from the moment we met. You will be missed beyond measure. Your uplifting optimism was so refreshing in a world that can be so discouraging. I will miss our heartfelt talks. The last time we saw we were together you spoke of others that have passed before us being our angels...I am honored to have you as mine. Love you.'

'We will miss you dearly,your smile, your jokes, your positive way of dealing with life, your words of wisdom, your talent,If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane I would walk up to heaven and bring you back again, RIP Jeffery MY BROTHER.'

'Jeff - We are going to miss your smile and your 
contagious laugher. Our Xmass wont be the same 
without you coming over and spending a small portion of the day with us. You was always like one of our sons to us. We go back since you and Gary were in kinder. Those were beautiful times. Most of what I will miss is when you would call me MaMa Snyder. I felt so much love from you. Rest in peace.'

'Today your aunt Jackie and Butch and I went to the cemetery to make plans for your arrival. I've got great news, you'll be sharing a place with grandma. As I read all the post, I can't stop crying. I'm so proud of you. You have touched so many lives in such a positive way it seems. I want all to know that I will try my best to be there all day Thursday, but I can't make any promises. We are told the bagpiper will be there at the end of the service. I would give everything I own and all I've ever had to have you back here with us. Our hearts are broken more than anything that has ever happened to us.'

'Thank You Jeffery Lee Anderson for sharing your time with our family we only knew you for a short time but you made Albert and I feel like we knew you for ever. You will alway have a spot in our heart. Thank you for the laughs I know your a Angel :) Rest In Peace.'

'Jeffery I cant believe you are gone but I know the pain is gone.'

'Jeff, I didn't know you, but I do know your father and Judy. They are proud to call you son. I know their hurt is real, so that makes the hurt real for all of us. I pray you safe passage to Heaven. We will mourn until it's time not to mourn and then be joyful that Heaven has one more Angel.'

'Robert, I saw this quote by an unknown author, "Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy." May your heart and soul find peace and comfort. Our sincerest condolences...'

'Thank you for always making me smile... U will forever be missed. Rest in peace, my friend. Until we meet again...'

'We will miss you deeply Jeff! You always had a smile on no matter what was going on and we always felt your happiness. We are grateful to have met you. You were one of the brightest shining lights this world had ever seen. We will never forget the love that you has given my family. Goodbye my friend.'

'Jeff was my cousin. He was a cousin that I never knew I had until I met him at my Grandmother's funeral. We only talked for a few hours, but in that time, he made such a huge impression on me that I've never forgotten those few hours. He was one of those rare people that just radiates happiness and strength through a smile and attitude that gets deep into your blood. I wish we could have spent more time together. I wish I would have known. He will definitely be one of the brightest stars in the sky. Cheers, brother and our love and condolences to the rest of the family.

'I am shock and sadden by the passing of Jeff. I have only known Jeff for about 6 months. May God comfort the hearts of those who care and love Jeff. Jeff is home now watching over us so we should celebrate his life.'

'Jeffrey was an inspiration to us all and he will be greatly missed. He did such a wonderful job officiating at my son and daughter-in-laws wedding in November. He was always so respectful of me and especially to my elderly parents at the wedding. Rest in peace Jeffrey...Cathy Reisner'

'Jeffery you had an inner peace and a smile that touched many people. I feel privledged to be one that you touched. My condolences to your family. May you all be at peace.'

'I will always remember the times you would come and see the groove movement play and giving us a lot of support for our music. Always giving me props for my drumming and bringing a smile to everyone. God speed buddy.'

'These tears don't make me weak, they mean I still love you, that I remember you, and I wish you were still here. I will gladly cry forever to never forget. 
I dont have the words to describe how much I love you and how much I miss you already... I can close my eyes and still hear you singing to me, Marvin Gaye, almost always Marvin Gaye and girls are going to miss Uncle/daddy Jeff. I am trying to remind myself that there is no pain in Heaven and how glorious it must be that you can finally play basketball again- without paying for it for so long afterwards!!! 
I love you always and forever Jeffery Lee Anderson! I will see you soon. Until I do, watch over me bc I am not sure I know what to do without you...'

'Mr. Anderson, your son was a good friend of my daughter, Melissa Gorges and I had the pleasure of meeting him last year when I was visiting. What a beautiful person and young man you raised I would be so proud. May God Bless you and your family during this most difficult time, Jeff is now pain-free and in Heaven with some awesome Angels but none the less will be missed here on earth. Fly with the Angels Jeff and give my "Justin" a hug from his momma.....RIP'

'May your heart and soul find peace and comfort. Our sincerest condolences, 
Philip Norvell & Debra Longoria'

'I met Jeffery a couple of years ago; he was my patient. Gosh no matter how much pain he was in, he was always in good spirits. I'm going to miss his smile, charm, and his big heart. RIP, I'm going to miss u!!'

'Jeffery lived his life full of love & always putting others before himself. When I was going through some personal struggles & lost my job, Jeffery bought me a sack full of groceries & paid my rent for that month telling me everything would be alright.I paid him back when I found a new job but he never asked for it back.He taught me many things in the short few years that I knew him & I love him like a brother. I know I'm a better person after knowing him & he will be greatly missed. RIP Jeffery, you were a true friend. I'm happy that you're not feeling anymore of the pain that you suffered through life.'

'Robert, I am so sorry to hear of your loss.I remember the times we took Jeff and Amy to the movies and had a great time. He grew up to be such a wonderful young man.My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.Please let me know if there is anything i can do. Nancy'

'my heart is sad ! the world has lost an amazing soul !'

'We are so blessed to have had you in our lives and feel sad for those that did not have the opportunity to have met you. We choose our friends and want to thank you for choosing us to have been a part of your life. The way you valued friendship, family and spirituality and gave thanks for each day despite your obstacles is a lesson to us all. We love you with all of our hearts and will miss you eternally. You will live on in our hearts and in your "Jeff stories" forever.'

'miss you brother i still cant understand why you are gone but i know you would not want me to be sad. i will never forget all the good times we had.

'Dear Robert & Judy, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your Son Jeffery. Please know that you are in our thoughts and Prayers. We Pray that the Lord will give you strength and peace at this time and always.'

'Although I only met your briefly, you touched the life of a very special friend of mine, so you have also touched mine. RIP Jeff.'

'I could spend days writing how great this man is and was. He has forever impacted my life. I cherish the many times we hung out and shared our most intimate thoughts and feelings. He didn't have a selfish bone in his body. He ministered to me, cared for my health and fed my soul with kindness and love. He inspired to become an ordained minister, just like he rolled. There are reminders all around me, of how he once walked amongst his brothers and sisters. He loved his friends, Los Spurs, music and had a light in him that no circumstance could dim. He never met a person that he didn't love on, and who didn't love him right back. 
The day Jordy introduced us was blessed. Jeff held me up and comforted me when I was weak, fed me and rocked all my circles of friends. The testament is sealed and never broken. 
Brother Jeff (The Mighty Rev) ...I miss you, love you and will see you on the other side.'

'Jeff was one of the most loving and genuine individuals that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.'

'Go rest high on that mountain. My prayers for the loved one's you left behind.'

'My deepest condolences to the family. Jeff.... U already know bro. I love u man. Until next time my friend'

'Jeff, you had always been like a big brother to me since day one and when I got my first apartment, you and Gary always watched out for me. Even when the years and our lives took us in different directions, you always managed to stay in touch with me. I wish you could of met my son Ethan because I know he would grown on you like I had. You touched so many lives. I was and will always be blessed to called you my brother and friend. May you always shine down on us from the heavens and see the love, laughter, and life you left in all our hearts. I love you brother and I will miss you always!'

'My thoughts and prayers are with Jeffery's family and friends. Jeffery did light up a room with his smile and zest for life. Jeffery you will be missed.'

'Jeff, although we hadn't spokenbut a few times since I left for the Navy, I still remember all of the crazy and fun times we had in high school. I wish your family the best, and I know that you are looking down upon us right now. Take care buddy.'

'Robert, my deepest condolences in the lost of your son, Jeff. Our prayers go out to you and your family.'

'Dear Bobby & Judy, 
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Please know that I hold you close in my heart and prayers right now.'

'You will be missed Jeff. Thanks for helping so many to laugh while you were in pain. May you rest in peace!'

'I'm very sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. I knew him from his days at Central Market and IHOP. He always had smiles and hugs for me. My deepest sympathy to his family.'

'I am so sorry that Jeff was taken so early. He was a great kid. He and David and Daryl always had great times playing together. They would go from one house to the other and never tired of thinking of new things to do. I can't remember any bad things about him. He was a great kid.'

'jeffrey lee you have been a great neighbor you have help me out a lot you are a sweet angle i miss hearing your radio in the bathroom and you singing and telling me jokes we laughed alot you are missed keep the angles laughing god bless you'

'You are the most beautiful person I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. You have touched my life with your smile and beautiful soul. You will always have a special place in my heart. Love U honey bunny. Rest in peace with the Angels....see you on the other side. Xoxoxoxo.'

'Jeff was an amazing lighthearted individual who brought us many laughs and treasures in life. I will truly miss you my "brother" and friend. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who grieves for this amazing man.'

'Jeff: Tell Grama Hello :) I know we are all placed here to learn some things,But never meant to stay.You will always be in my Heart.I just wish your Journey,was a little slower Jeff but i know that you found everlasting Peace.And you are in God Presence graciously led by his Light and his Promises.I love You & you will be missed by all.Jeff- see you one day agian.'

'Jeff we will ALWAYS LOVE YOU, we will NEVER EVER forget you!!! It still hasn't sunk in yet, I wanted you to marry Tim and I one day, thank you for marrying my little sister and Matt, that was such a wonderful ceremony xoxo, I know when ever we tie the knot you will be there will all his best men. I love you JEFF forever'

'i will miss seeing you at the morning coffee gathering. It did me good to see you hug your dad good by. You have left us far to soon and we will miss you. it will not be very much longer until i will be joining you for coffee once again.'

'I am glad to be able to say that you were my friend, and that we had a few chances to sit and talk. I will always remember you and the kind heart and the warmth that poured forth when we talked. May you now know the peace and serenity that you helped everyone else find.'

'Jeff , You always lit up a room when you came into one...your love for our lord was beautiful! We shared many laughs , you helped me in many tough times, and I thank you. I know now your in peace with your beautiful momma.. Thank you for loving Erin, my best friend like you forever did.. Now forever she will have her angel in heaven..To Robert, my love is with your family, your son was amazing and your a Fabulous father and he was so Proud to be your son!! Thank you for sharing him with us...God Bless You all..Love XO'

'My friend, when you had all the amunition to be sad and bitter, some how you were the one I could always turn to for comfort and support. You always lend a shoulder to cry on and jumped to help at a time of need. You were and will always be the most beautiful soul I know. Keep shining that amazing bright light my Irish star. 
Andrick and I love you honey. xoxoxo'

'Robert, I was truely saddened when you called to tell me of Jeffs passing. Although I only met Jeff about 8 months ago, he impressed me as such a "nice guy". As they say, he's in a better place now. My condolences to you and your family.'

'Jeffrey Lee what a Wonderful friend and neighbor you were.When we moved in you were the 1st person to welcome us and that was 2yrs ago.I miss you and your funny jokes and sayings.I will see you again in Heaven.God Bless Jeffrey and God Bless His Family! You ALWAYS made me laugh so much Thank You Jeffrey. Love Ya Ramsey!'

'Jeffery, you were like a brother to me and such a wonderful role model for Frank. We will forever miss your smile, positive attitude, sense of humor, and kind heart. You are in our prayers, always.'

'Jeff, 
There are so many things I want to say to you. You have touch and impacted my life in so many wonderful ways. We had so many amazing memories together and I will always cherish them for the rest of my life. You are in God's kingdom and reunited with your mom and you guys are shining down on us. As the Irish say "May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back.May the sun shine warm upon your face.May the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again, May the Lord hold you in the palm of His hand." This is not goodby this is until we see each other again. Love you always and God Bless You'

'Jeff, You always lit up a room when you walked in and made me laugh all the time. I wasn't around you a very long time but you made me feel like I was a longtime friend. You are going to be sorely missed but heaven has a wonderful special angel that will make God smile. We all love you'

'Beautiful, sweet man.... May you rest in peace always... This just doesn't make any sense.. We need more people like you on this planet. You left a huge mark here on earth.. Meeting and knowing you was such a pleasure.. Thank you for everything.. I am more than sure you will watch over us all.. Love you so much sugar booger. :)'

'My heart goes out to the family, Jeff became a really good friend over the past couple of years and we had some great conversations from music to just about anything else you can think of. A good man who will never be forgotten.'

'We were all so lucky & blessed to have you in our lives. Strange to think that we won't be seeing you around... we definitely were so lucky to have a light like you.'

'I miss you like crazy already, and there will never be a day when you are not in my thoughts. You were the most fantastic and genuine person anyone could ever hope to know, meet, or be, and you will forever live on in my heart and the hearts of SO MANY others. See you on the other side my man!'

'Hi Jeff, this is your aunt Jackie, just called to say I was thinking of you and tell you I love you.'

'Hey Jeff, tell Grandma hi from me. See you later cousin.'

'My dear, sweet Jeffery. Thank you for being my friend. You will live on in my heart forever. I will be sure to tell Elenore about her Uncle Jeffy and how much he loved her. Rest in peace my love.'

'Robert, I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. I am Erin Fox's Mom and wanted to let you know you and your family are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. May God Bless.'

'My heart aches deeply knowing he is no longer with us. His loving friendship, indomitable humor, and genuine personality made him an amazing man. His lively spirit brought happiness to so many. Jeff has the most vibrant soul I have ever known. May he find comfort, peace and love on his continued journey. 
Jeffery Lee--you will be forever loved and remembered.'

'Everytime I met you, Jeffrey, you lifted me up with your smile and your spirit. You were truly interested in loving others and you loved my son, Andy. For that I thank you. We have lost a very sweet soul.'

OBITUARY

Jeffery Lee Anderson

January 9, 1978 – March 16, 2012

Porter Loring Mortuary - McCullough

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