

To love Ray was to know his heart. To know his heart was to understand the depth of his kindness, the strength of his character, the beauty of his soul, and the love he gave so freely. He had a way of touching lives and leaving a lasting impression on those fortunate enough to know him.
Ray was a devoted father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle, husband, and friend whose world revolved around the people he loved. His family meant everything to him, and nothing brought him greater happiness than knowing they were happy, safe, and taken care of. He was the kind of man who would give the shirt off his back to help someone, never thinking twice about putting others before himself. He never needed much for himself because his greatest joy was found in the people he loved and the simple moments he shared with them. If it made them happy, it made him happy, too. That was simply who he was: a man with a generous heart who gave so much of himself to others.
Ray had a brilliant mind and a natural gift for just about everything he put his hands to. A true walking encyclopedia, he seemed to know something about everything, from technology and music to animals, fish, and even the smallest insects. There was little he couldn’t figure out, fix, build, or create. He was a painter, a builder, a problem solver, and a tech wizard, but he was also a joker who knew how to bring laughter into a room. He loved good food, the finest beer, music, spending time with the people who made life meaningful, and, of course, the Dallas Cowboys! Ray was honest, wonderfully himself, and truly one of a kind. His knowledge, talents, humor, and unmistakable personality made him someone people could always turn to and someone who could never be replaced.
Ray proudly served his country in the United States Army. His military service was an important chapter in his life and one of the many ways he demonstrated his willingness to serve others.
But beyond all he knew and all he could do, it was the love he gave that made him so special. He was always checking on others, making sure everyone was okay, and finding ways to help, often without anyone ever having to ask. He showed his love through his actions, the time he gave, the laughter he shared, and the quiet ways he made life a little easier for the people around him. He may never have realized just how much those little things meant, but they were the things that made people feel loved by him.
Ray was preceded in death by his father, Vicente Castillo Sr.; his biological father, Ray Saudia Jr.; and his sister, Ruby Casares.
He is survived by his wife, Andra Saudia; his sons, Jacob and Cameron Saudia and his daughter-in-law, Dana Lindsey; his grandchildren, Keithen and Addison Saudia; his mother, Mary Castillo; and his siblings, Rick and Roy Saudia, Roxanne Eureste and her husband, Vando Eureste, Shelly Castillo and her husband, Albert Perez, Vicente Castillo Jr. and his wife, Rachel Castillo, and Maya and Alma Saudia. He also leaves behind extended family, nieces, nephews, and many friends whose lives were touched by his kindness and generosity.
He never needed much from this world because the people he loved were his whole world. And though they can no longer hold him close, they will carry his love with them in everything they do, missing him in a thousand little ways and loving him for a lifetime. He was, and always will be, irreplaceable.
Ray, you will always be loved, endlessly missed, fondly remembered, and spoken of in the stories we share and the memories we hold. Though we can no longer see you, you will always be with us, etched into our hearts, a part of our lives, and loved more than words could ever express.
We love you, Ray, always and forever.
Memorial Service
A celebration of Ray’s life will be held on Sunday, November 8, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at Porter Loring Mortuary West in San Antonio, Texas.
Ray's cremated remains will be laid to rest at Coastal Bend State Veterans Cemetery in Corpus Christi, Texas, at a later date during a private ceremony with close family.
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