Goodbody Mortuary


Marcia Joann Wehr

July 31, 1931March 24, 2021

Marcia J. Wehr, 89, peacefully passed away with her family by her side on March 24, 2021 in Lakeside, CA.

She was born July 31, 1931, in Youngstown, Ohio to Paul and Mary Evans. She had 5 siblings.

At 23 years old she married Ronald Wehr on April 10, 1954. The newlyweds then moved to Washington state where their daughter Patricia was born. After a few months they moved to San Jose, California and 11 months later Marcia delivered their son, Daniel.

They then traveled to San Diego to visit family before planning to return to Ohio, however, once they experienced the beauty of the area they decided to make it their permanent home. They lived in several rental homes before they purchased their first and only house in 1962.

5 years later their son Richard was born, in 1967. She stayed in that home and lovingly raised and nurtured her family until 2020 when she could no longer live on her own.

Marcia loved camping in the desert and mountains, even having her own three wheeler. She loved fishing at Big Bear Lake, Mammoth Lakes and in the San Diego bay. She loved watching the San Diego Padres games on TV. She looked forward to Family Feud every night at 9:00. She enjoyed taking long drives and going for breakfast or lunch, where she always asked for her food to be served very hot. She would never pass up an invitation to Las Vegas, Laughlin or Reno.

Her family was her passion. She enjoyed her grandson and his wife and great-grandchildren and was so proud of them as they raced their BMX bikes and became ranked in the State and District. Although the pain of missing her is beyond measure we're relieved that she's now fully healed and in God's presence.

Marcy is survived by her daughter Patricia Spindler (Randy), her sons Daniel Wehr and Richard Wehr, her grandson Ryan Spindler (Courtney), three great-grandchildren Gavin, Allie and Colton Spindler, her brother, Don Evans (Nancy), and many nieces and nephews.

There will be a visitation on Friday, April 2nd at 11:00-12:00 at Goodbody Mortuary, 5027 El Cajon Blvd., San Diego, CA with a graveside service immediately following at El Camino Memorial Park.

Please join us for a Celebration of Life on Saturday, April 3rd at 3:00 at The Spindler House, 11109 Morning Dove Road, Lakeside, CA.

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at for the Wehr family.


  • Visitation

    Friday, April 2, 2021

  • Graveside Service

    Friday, April 2, 2021

  • Celebration of Life

    Saturday, April 3, 2021


Marcia Joann Wehr

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Patricia Spindler

March 31, 2021

You weren't just my mother but my best friend. I'll miss our gossip about all the royals, politicians and movie stars. I'll miss you asking "Where's Randy?" every morning when you came out to breakfast. I'll miss you saying "Feud" every night at 9:00 to remind us Family Feud was on. I'll miss you watching the Padres with Randy. I'll even miss you wanting the heater on 85 every day. I'll miss your Christmas decorations, pumpkin bread and spaghetti dinner. I'll miss your Halloween decorations and handing out candy at your house every year. I'll miss ham sandwiches on New Years Eve. I'm so sorry you had to get that horrible skin cancer when you should have been enjoying your last days. You were the glue that held the family together and you are sorely missed. You are healed now and in God's presence. We will see you soon. Love you with all my heart. Your loving daughter, Patty