Sending infinite Love, You will be Missed by Many...Always~

You will be Missed by Many Always & Forever, We Love YOU!

Brother, You Are the BEST! Thank you for loving each one of us, GENUINELY! 
Love ya bratty baby sister Cathy West

Fran, Jeff and Eric- 

We are so sorry to hear of your Dad’s/Neil’s passing. It’s always hard to lose a Dad and doubly so to lose a husband. Our thoughts and best wishes are with you.  

Much love, 

Your neighbors Michael and Cynthia

Miss you and it hurts. Milisha and I have cried a bucket of tears, but then we remember all the good times. Thank you for all of them

Always a wonderful person ❤️ thank you for everything Neal, we missed you 🕊️

Oh boy oh boy your boy right here yea him right here missing you the most


R.I.P. no more pain 💔💔

Fran,
So sorry to hear this unfortunate news! Am hoping that fond memories can help ease the burden and sustain you during this difficult time. 
With sincere condolences,
- Mark Stephens

Our heartfelt condolences. 

Yehi Zichra Baruch — May his memory be a blessing 

Steven & Susana Russell — your neighbors in 601

Dear Fran,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss and the loss of so many people that loved and respected Neal. He was so kind and supportive when I last Bobby. He was so intelligent and caring about our community and he will be terribly missed. My heart goes out to you and your family. My sincere condolences love, Becky Horowitz.

Neal was part of my crew. He was not only a friend but a mentor when I needed him most, as I moved into management and forward . Missed but will never be forgotten.

Fran, Jeff, and Eric
Francesca and I want to tell you how sorry we are at the loss of Neil. He was a true gentleman and great neighbor. We will miss his smiling face and positive attitude. Please know that we are here for you.
Sincerely , Francesca and Michael

Fran,
Our sincere condolences.  May Neal's memory be a Blessing.
L.C. Cline & Geo Barker

So very sorry for your loss.
I knew Neil from the Blumkins and had enjoyed his company several times in Omaha and in San Diego and I’m very sorry for his passing. I will be thinking of you all with love Jann Meyers.

Jeff and Eric,

We are so sorry about your dad. He was a great and generous guy and we always enjoyed spending time with him. Our thoughts are with you and your mom and we hope to see you soon.
❤️ Jon and Mary

Neal had the most amazing sense of humor, it could be so cutting! I miss him  so much. He helped me get into the MBA business while we lived in Florida, but we wanted to get back home to San Diego. He knew that and  alerted me when a MBA dealership was available.  Because of Neal, we were able to come home to our family and San Diego. He  was of limitless generosity. I owe him so much … may God rest his soul in peace.

Neal was a boss who became a colleague who became a friend. Neal picked people who he wanted in his corner and I’m forever grateful he chose me. Once you were in his corner he’d go to the ends of the earth for you. 
Life is unfair and I oscillate between anger and sadness, but the one thing that comforts me is knowing that the people he impacted was measured in thousands. 
I hope that view of Yankee Stadium is a little bit better from up above.

Fran, our family loves you all so much! James and I are so grateful for our time together when we recently returned to San Diego. Neal was and will always be such an amazing light in our lives. I just loved his humor and dedication in anything he did, and all that baseball!  We are here for you and the boys always. I look forward to seeing you tomorrow and feeling the amount of surrounding love of Neal and all of you ♥️

The common thread of Neal’s life is that he had a great sense of humor, a Huge heart, & connected with everybody with ease. He was a sports savant, & brought conversation, argument, & laughter to every game. He was always there for you. I will miss him at our dinners, card games, & Monday night football. I still can’t believe this happened to him. It’s so hard to accept - Miss you, buddy!

Dear Fran, Eric and Jeff:
Bob and I are so very sad to learn this. You and Neal have been kind friends. Please let us know what we can do to support you. 
Janet and Bob Schultze

Sending my love to the Birnbaum family.  I was lucky to have Neal as a friend.  He taught me so much and always  lit up any room with laughter. I love you brother rest in paradise!

Dear Fran,
I am very sorry to hear of Neal's passing. He was a witty, warm, and compassionate friend. Some of my fondest memories from the MBA trips were our many adventures and dinners with you and Neal. Many prayers are lifting and surrounding you, Eric and Jeff. 
 Neal was a bright, shining light with a contagious smile who truly loved his family and will forever be missed.
Fondly,
Tonya Shoffner

Just an awkward family photo filled with love.

Fran- Rick and I are so sad to hear of Neil's passing.  You and Neal, and your sons have been among our closest friends at the Meridian, and so supportive no matter what our needs have been.  Sending you love and hugs.  Marilyn and Rick

Fran, I’m so sorry for your loss.
I enjoyed getting to know Neal through the MBA family. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Shari and Jim Bunt
MBA Columbia SC

Oh my sweet friend, what laughter we shared over the years! It was usually at my expense, but I had to endure it because you were so damn funny. You were definitely a character, but you were also a loyal, warm & loving friend. Neal, you are so very missed already.

Fran, Jeff, & Eric, you are tucked tightly in my heart, & will remain there all the days of my life. In our last conversation, I assured Neal that you would always be part of the Darcey family…  I love you all.

Neal, would always give me that smirk, and then I knew something compelling was about to come out of his mouth. We shared a lot of business talks and strategies. He had a soothing voice and big heart. Miss him.

I want to wish my condolences to Neal’s entire family. I was raised with Neal in Freehold. He was the most avid and knowledgeable sports fan I have ever known . Even at a young age he knew facts about current and past sports players. I could go on but I won’t. He drove me to DMV to take my road test. His family Mr.  and Mrs. Birnbaum as well as Allen and Gail were a close family. My thoughts with them and his wife and his boys who I know he love so much will have his memories to help ease his passing. RIP my old friend.

A great friend.
Ny Yankees greatest fan
I will miss you buddy
Love Eric Goldschmidt

Dear Fran & Family,

Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I have fond memories  of you and Neal on our MBA trips. I truly appreciated Neal's generosity, kindness, and mentoring along the way. 

Our Sympathy,  

The Wilkes'
Selena -MBA Western MD 
Lettie - sister 
Cheryl-Mom and High Point U Grad '68

I met Neal at a networking group along with Alex. He was a special man for sure ! I found myself wanting to sit next to him in our early AM meetings . I suppose I hoped his calm and professional demeanor would rub off on me.

Dear Fran & Family,

Please know you are in our prayers with condolences.  I recall you and Neal in fond memories of your generosity, kindness, and mentoring.

Our Sympathy,

Darrell and Diane Mueller 
MBA-Platte, SD

I'm so sorry to hear the news about Neal. I was part of a business networking group with him a while back. He was always such a positive and enjoyable person to be around. He was constantly willing to help and share his knowledge with me and others. He is greatly missed.
Sincerely,
Alexander Moen

OBITUARY

Neal Ira Birnbaum

September 4, 1958 – February 28, 2025

El Camino Memorial - Sorrento Valley & Memorial Park

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