

Born on December 17, 1938, in Michigan, Robert lived a life marked by service, perseverance, friendship, and a deep love for family. After proudly serving his country in the United States Marine Corps for four years, he was stationed at Camp Pendleton and was honorably discharged with the rank of Lance Corporal. During his military service, he earned both the Rifle Sharpshooter Medal and the Good Conduct Medal.
San Diego was Robert's home for more than 65 years. He worked as a store manager for Sav-On Drugs until a motorcycle accident in August 1979 left him blind and disabled. Faced with extraordinary challenges, Robert demonstrated remarkable determination and resilience. He learned to read and write Braille and even taught his daughter how to read and write it as well.
Never allowing his disability to define him, Robert pursued higher education at San Diego City College, where he earned a Certificate of Achievement with High Honors in Speech Communications and later received an Associate in Arts degree in Speech Communications.
Robert embraced life with enthusiasm and curiosity. He loved sailing, flying, and often shared stories and memories about surfing. He was a devoted fan of the Beach Boys and enjoyed listening to their music. Sports were another passion, and he faithfully followed Chargers football and Padres baseball, listening to games on his radio.
Known for his independence, Robert would regularly take 25-block walks throughout San Diego using only his cane. Having once worked as a sheriff, he knew the city's streets remarkably well and became a trusted "GPS" for family members visiting the area. His sense of humor, sharp memory, and gift for conversation made him a joy to be around.
Robert treasured the friendships that enriched his life. His best friend of more than 25 years, Tom Basham, shared many adventures with him, including sailing trips and travels. He also enjoyed many years of companionship with Joan, attending trips and functions together. His friend Fiona faithfully assisted him with grocery shopping and transportation to church, while Tom often helped bring him home afterward.
He especially enjoyed visits with his daughter Cynthia and son-in-law Louis, sharing meals, stories, laughter, and countless jokes together.
Robert is survived by his daughter, Cynthia Null, and son-in-law, Louis Smith; daughter-in-law, Julie Keller; grandchildren, Steven Abuan Jr. and his wife Lindsay Weese, Nick Keller, Madison McKay and her husband Tyler McKay, Matthew Keller and his wife Myjha Ozburn, Hunter Null, and Haiden Null; and great-grandchildren, Kylie Abuan, Braylie Abuan, Broden Abuan, and Liam McKay.
Robert's legacy is one of courage, determination, independence, and unwavering optimism. Despite the challenges he faced, he continued to learn, grow, laugh, and inspire those around him. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.
A committal service with military honors will be held at Miramar National Cemetery on June 25, 2026, at 11:30 a.m.
A Celebration of Life will be held at the Veterans Home of Chula Vista, where Robert resided, on June 28, 2026, at 1:30 p.m.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to Robert's friends, caregivers, and the staff of the Veterans Home for their kindness, support, and friendship throughout the years.
Semper Fidelis, Robert. Your service, strength, and spirit will never be forgotten.
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